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April 23, 2024

Title: Unsung Hero: Encouragement to Keep Going
Topic: Movie Review

Discussed by Gary Schneeberger
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Gary Schneeberger is the Assistant to the President for Media Relations at Focus on the Family. Today, Gary gives some behind the scenes details about the new movie, “Unsung Hero”, which will be in theaters this Friday, April 26.

Click here for more information about the movie and to purchase tickets.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who are David and Helen Smallbone? Who are their children?

While trying to build strong Christian values in their seven children, did they face struggles and even failures?

Focus on the Family has been named the Family Ministry Resource Partner for the movie, “Unsung Hero”. How do they choose which movies to partner with? Why did they accept the partnership with this movie?

Are the same spiritual battles that we face in our walk with the Lord portrayed in “Unsung Hero”?

What will we take away from viewing the movie, “Unsung Hero”?

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March 26, 2024

Title: Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Gary Lovejoy
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Dr. Gary Lovejoy, Ph.D. is a former professor of psychology and religion with over thirty years of private counseling experience. Today, Dr. Lovejoy discusses his latest book, “Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us”?

Click here for more marriage help and advice from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is it a struggle to make a good life together?

Does every relationship have its unique issues?

Are there are identifiable patterns that predict the most likely outcomes?

Why is the wife usually the first to “sound the alarm”?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Gary Lovejoy
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What can we all learn from the Bible about relationship-building?

There are good and bad marriage examples found in the Bible. What can we learn from both?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Gary Lovejoy
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why did Dr. Gary Lovejoy choose to become a marriage counselor?

Should couples occasionally evaluate their marriage – even if they think there isn’t a problem?

Dr. Gary Lovejoy closes the interview with a final word of advice for everyone: practice empathy and giving to each other first.

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February 12, 2024

Title: The Fight for Life is Far from Over
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Nicole Hunt is an attorney and writer for Focus on the Family. Today, Nicole recounts the recent March for Life and encourages pro-life activists to stay in the fight for pre-born babies.

Click here for more from Nicole Hunt on this and other pro-life issues.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Since the Dobbs decision, have births increased in every state that ban abortions?

What did Nicole Hunt experience at the recent “With Every Woman For Every Child” March for Life in WDC?

Did the Dobbs decision increase the enthusiasm level for those promoting abortion?

The Dobbs decision placed abortion laws back into the hands of each individual state. Are more states now pro-life or pro-abortion?

Is there a huge need for Pregnancy Resource Centers in states that have banned abortions?

How does Focus on the Family partner with Pregnancy Resource Centers across the country? Click here for all the details about Operation Ultrasound.

Is the fight to save more pre-born babies ongoing? Nicole discusses the need for more pro-life Legislation in states that still allow and encourage abortions.

Click here to help support pro-life efforts of Focus on the Family.

Click here if you or someone you know is in a crisis pregnancy and needs counseling or a referral.

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January 22, 2024

Title: Can We Agree to Disagree Pleasantly?
Topic: Relationships

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Geremy Keeton is the Senior Director of Counseling Services?at Focus on the Family. Geremy Keeton leads the Focus on the Family’s team of mental health clinicians and pastoral specialists as they serve as safe and trusted guides on a wide range of family-related issues.

Today, Geremy helps us navigate arguments and disagreements, especially with those we love. One thing he likes to say is: “No one can drive you crazy unless you give them the keys.”

Click here for more information about Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How do we remain calm, friendly, and connected when we disagree?

Why is “walking away” helpful during a heated argument/disagreement?

How can we remain friendly when we are upset?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Can We Agree to Disagree Pleasantly?
Topic: Relationships

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What are some techniques to stay better connected to those we love?

How can we live in peace with family, friends, and co-workers despite our agitated and polarized culture?

To contact Focus on the Family, call 1.800.AFAMILY.

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January 9, 2024

Title: Marriage Advice: Keep the Smile After the Holidays
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Many exert much effort to put a good foot forward and smile on their face during the holidays. How do we keep that smile and keep moving in a healing direction?

Today, Glenn Lutjens, a marriage counselor with Focus on the Family, offers some hope and encouragement to married couples – and to everyone who may be experiencing some relationship troubles.

Click here for more marriage help, tips, and advice from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does every couple in America hit a rough spot every now and again?

What are two positive things spouses can do for each other? Glenn suggests to recognize that your discontent is not your spouses’ responsibility and to slow down and really have open communication.

Should couples pray with and for each other every day?

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January 8, 2024

Title: Ohio Voters Pass Horrific Abortion Law
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Ohio voters recently voted to allow abortion at any stage of pregnancy up until the time of birth for any reason (or no reason at all).

Nicole Hunt is an attorney and writer for Focus on the Family. Today, Nicole discusses this tragic turn of events and urges Christians everywhere to pray and continue the fight to save more babies.

Click here for more on pro-life issues from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What does Nicole Hunt personally think/feel about the new Ohio abortion law?

What are some of the “excuses” pro-choice activists use to justify killing babies in the womb?

Was the bill purposely crafted with confusing language?

Do recent polls reveal that the majority of Americans do not support abortion?

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January 3, 2024

Title: Option Operation Ultrasound
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Gary Schneeberger
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Although the Dobbs Decision was a major pro-life victory, nearly one million babies will face the end of their lives over the next twelve months due to abortion.

Today, Gary Schneeberger discusses Focus on the Family’s “Option Operation Ultrasound Program”. Gary is the Assistant to the President for Media Relations at Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How many babies have been saved through the Option Operation Ultrasound Program since 2004?

What is an ultrasound? Are many, many babies saved because mothers were offered an ultrasound?

What is the difference between an ultrasound and a sonogram?

Are ultrasounds shown to the mother in abortion clinics?

Many Crisis Pregnancy Medical Centers have ultrasound or sonogram machines, but we need to get one in ALL CPMC across America. CPMC also need trained and qualified nurses and volunteers to use the machines and counsel scared, pregnant young girls and women. Click here to help Focus on the Family reach this goal.

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December 27, 2023

Title: Holiday Stress Guide
Topic: Stress Relief

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The holiday season is tough on everyone. Today, Focus on the Family Senior Director of Counseling Geremy Keeton has some tips and advice on how to prepare for and handle stressful situations.

Click here for a plethora of articles from Focus on the Family on finding joy in stressful times and situations.

If you would like to talk to someone at Focus on the Family, click here or call 1.800.A.FAMILY

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can we all prepare for stress, especially around the holidays? One thing Geremy says is this: “Have your expectations set at a flexible and balanced place.”

Should we keep our focus on our faith in Jesus Christ? Geremy reminds us of the Fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

How can we incorporate the Golden Rule into all we do? Romans 12:18 “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”

Are holidays traditions important? Terry and Geremy discuss some of their own family traditions.

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December 19, 2023

Title: How to Have a Fantastic Christmas
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Tim Samford is a Counselor with Focus on the Family. Today he will be discussing introverts, extraverts, what not to say at a company party, and family issues (parents and blended families).

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are holiday gatherings stressful for introverts?

Tim Samford is an introvert himself. How does he cope during company parties where there a many people, as opposed to a family gathering where there are less people? Both events are stressful, but should be handled differently. Listen as Tim offers some great suggestions…

Many introverts are great listeners. Can this be an issue, though, at parties?

How can a couple complement each other if one is an introvert and one is an extravert?

Why is planning ahead important?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - How to Have a Fantastic Christmas
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can parents stay stress-free (or at least have less stress) during the holidays?

How can blended families have a smooth Christmas?

What does SWAT mean?

Final thoughts from Tim:

1. You are there to be seen;

2. Find a quiet place; and

3. Relax. It will be over in a few weeks.

Click here for more helpful tips and suggestions from Focus on the Family.

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November 22, 2023

Title: Enjoy the People Around You
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Family get-togethers are great…but what happens when tempers flare? The holiday can be a total meltdown waiting to happen.

Erin Smalley, author, speaker, and Focus spokesperson, is here to offer tips for keeping your cool and being grateful for the people sitting around your table – even if crazy cousin Tom loses his temper or Great Aunt Sally falls asleep in the Jell-O.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should we all try to just “bite our tongues”?

Before our gatherings, should we talk through “what if situations” with our spouse and children?

Remaining cool, calm, and collected is easier said than done. How is this achievable? Erin says it’s how your respond, not react, that can make or break a tough situation.

What are some ways we can break the ice with that difficult relative or friend?

Remember, this too shall pass. Maybe not soon enough, but it will pass. Make memories while you can. More importantly, love with the love of Jesus.

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Title: Developing a Thankful Heart
Topic: Thanksgiving

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Thanksgiving is just right around the corner, which always brings up the topic of thankfulness. Is it too easy to just say “Thank you” without really having a thankful heart?

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Danny believes that true gratitude is a way of viewing things; it’s a state of amazement over all the things God has given us and done for us.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is Thanksgiving all about?

How can we develop a thankful heart?

How can parents develop a thankful heart in their children? “For kids, it starts off as an emotion,” Danny says. “Help them process and recognize that feeling of thankfulness and then develop that into an attribute.”

Are “Thank You Cards” still relevant and important today?

Has your family started a “Thank You Jar”? Why not???

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November 16, 2023

Title: Ohio Voters Pass Horrific Abortion Law
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 6, 2023

Title: HUGE Win for Life in Colorado
Topic: Abortion Pill Safety

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Recently, a Federal Judge blocked enforcement of the nation’s first law banning abortion pill reversal treatment, citing free speech and freedom of religion concerns.

Nicole Hunt has more details about the case today. Nicole is a wife, mother, writer, and attorney with Focus on the Family.

Click here to read Nicole Hunt’s op-ed on this important issue.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why did the Federal Judge rule in favor of free speech and freedom of religion?

What is the abortion pill reversal treatment? When must the treatment be administered? Has the abortion pill reversal treatment been successful in many cases?

Did the Colorado lawmakers who banned the use of hormone treatment to reverse a chemical abortion base their law on science or ideology?

Is the battle for LIFE across the nation far from over?

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October 27, 2023

Title: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
Topic: Halloween

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Halloween is just around the corner. There is no denying that this holiday can be fun for children, but also involves many evil and scary elements. You can celebrate through family friendly, safe events like Fall Fests and Trunk or Treats. However, no matter how much you try and shield your kids from these darker elements, they will still be exposed.

Dr. Daniel “Danny” Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family. Today, he offers some tips on how to navigate this tricky holiday with your children.

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Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do many parents not think twice in allowing their kids to dress up as demons and devils and parade through the neighborhoods canvasing for candy and treats?

The Left has been secularizing Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter for many years. Is it time Christians take a stand and take over Halloween and have meaningful conversations about good and evil? Dr. Huerta has some great suggestions, especially for teenagers.

Focus on the Family has many resources to guide parents in discussing a Biblical Worldview concerning celebrating Halloween. Click here to read more.

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September 7, 2023

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

THE WHOLE ARMOR OF GOD: Ephesians 6:10-20

How can Christ-followers remain faithful and obedient to God in an evil and perverse culture?

Paul Batura is the Vice President of Communications at Focus on the Family. Today, Paul offers hope and encouragement to Christians living in a lost and dying world.

Click here for more on issues of faith from Focus on the Family.

Click here to donate to Focus on the Family as they continue to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ worldwide.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What are the signs that we live in an evil and perverse generation?

What is meant by “cancel culture”? Paul discusses how they bully and intimidate Christians, saying: “Christians are picked on more than others. There’s no doubt about it.”

How should we speak truth and love to those who disagree? Paul reminds us of several Scripture passages…

Are people watching us and listening to our words?

What is Focus on the Family doing to equip saints to stand in boldness, shining the light of the Gospel into a lost and dying world? Click here for more cultural issues from the Daily Citizen, a publication of Focus on the Family.

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September 5, 2023

Title: Protecting Life from the Moment of Conception
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Five pro-life groups and their clients recently filed a lawsuit against Illinois Attorney General Kwame Raoul, claiming their first and 14th amendment rights are being violated. United States District Judge Iain D. Johnston agreed, calling the legislation “stupid” and “very likely unconstitutional” while granting a preliminary injunction against the new law.

Robyn Chambers discusses SB1909, saying the law is “egregious and seeks to undermine not-for-profit organizations from truly helping women in an unexpected pregnancy.” Robyn is the Vice President for Advocacy for Children with Focus on the Family.

Click here to read the latest on the pro-life movement from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

When does life begin?

Should life be protected from the moment of conception in every nation in the world?

What is the focus and mission of pregnancy resource centers? Robyn explains that PRCs exist to help and support mothers who do not have proper resources to care for a baby long-term.

Most abortion centers do not provide post-abortion counseling. Do PRCs provide this resource?

Why is the State of Illinois attempting to restrict the legal rights of PRC’s? Robyn discusses the blatant attacks on the good deeds PRCs perform, saying: “They know they [PRC’s] are making a difference. They know that they [PRC’s] are taking money out of the abortion providers.”

How will the final decision in this case affect other state abortion laws?

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August 16, 2023

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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July 25, 2023

Title: Changing the Pro-Life Narrative
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Robyn Chambers is the Vice President of Advocacy for Children with Focus on the Family. Today, she discusses some of their new pro-life initiatives.

Click here for more on the pro-life movement from Focus on the Family.

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Questions/Issues Discussed:

What has been the mission and purpose of Focus on the Family since its inception in 1977? Click here to learn more about their values and vision.

Too many people believe that pro-life activists only care about the baby in the womb. Is this true?

Is it time to change the pro-life message? What should that message be? Should we change “pro-life” to something else?

How can the average person become more involved and help? Robyn believes prayer is the number one way to help – and it’s FREE! She also gives some other great suggestions…

What are some of the new initiatives at Focus on the Family? What are their plans for helping the whole family in the future? Stay tuned for more information about these initiatives. You can also sign up for their e-newsletter here.

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July 19, 2023

Title: Changing the Pro-Life Narrative
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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July 11, 2023

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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July 7, 2023

Title: Changing the Pro-Life Narrative
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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June 22, 2023

Title: Celebrating Life: The One-Year Anniversary of the Dobbs Case
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

June 24, 2023 is the one-year anniversary of the Dobbs Case, which left the abortion decision to each individual state. Still, 2,000 babies will be killed today across America.

Nicole Hunt is a life analyst with Focus on the Family. Today, Nicole encourages pro-life Americans to keep praying and keep fighting for all life from womb to tomb.

Click here for more from Nicole Hunt at the Daily Signal, a division of Focus on the Family.

Click here for more pro-life resources from Focus on the Family.

Click here for details about Focus on the Family’s new ad campaign, “It’s a Baby”.

Click here for more information about the 2023 National Celebrate Life Day Rally on Saturday, June 24, 2023.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are many in the younger generation actively protecting life from the moment of conception?

On the flip side… Did the Dobbs Decision energize the pro-abortion movement across America? Nicole discusses the Left’s newest tactic of “ballot measures”.

Are thousands of babies living today because of the protection from the Dobbs Case?

The Dobbs Case left the abortion decision up to each individual state to decide. Will there be action in the future on the Federal level?

There still much work to be done. What can we do to help? Nicole shares a personal story of how she helped a local crisis pregnancy center as a young mom with four kids.

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Click here if you or someone you know is in a crisis pregnancy and needs counseling or a referral.

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June 12, 2023

Title: Lift Up Your Pastor in Prayer Today
Topic: Why Pastors Leave the Ministry

Discussed by Josh Zeichik
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Josh Zeichik is the Director of Church Engagement at Focus on the Family. Today, Josh discusses results from a new study that reports one in four pastors will be retiring by 2030.

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Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are so many pastors struggling? Josh discusses the immense stress of the job, feeling lonely and isolated, current political divisions, family issues, unstable future, and conflict within the church.

Why is it important for pastors to have a mentor?

How will churches replace their pastor if they do quit/retire? Are enough young men entering seminary to become pastors? Josh urges pastors who are retiring to stay involved in the church and be a mentor to the young pastors coming in.

How is Focus on the Family helping pastors and their families navigate these tough times?

Click here for resources from Focus on the Family for pastors and their families.

Click here for videos on YouTube from The Focused Pastor.

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June 9, 2023

Title: No Cape. No Problem. The Superpowers of a Dad.
Topic: Father’s Day

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Every child needs a hero. A son needs a man he can imitate and a daughter needs a man who will make her feel protected and secure. Who better to be that hero than Dad?

Dr. Daniel Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Dr. Huerta says: “Each man is unique and his skills are of tremendous value to his family.”

Click here to read Danny Huerta’s op-ed.

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Questions/Issues Discussed:

The world can be a tough and scary place. Do our children and grandchildren need to feel protected and secure? Dr. Huerta explains why he believes life is not just about safety; it’s also about pursuing healthy lives physically, emotionally, and relationally.

Do many kids in America lack a Godly male role model?

Are Godly male role models being de-emphasized in America? Dr. Huerta urges men to be good, godly role models and to seek out other men who can help them as well.

How can fathers be more intentional in their kids’ lives?

Click here for more parenting resources and tips from Focus on the Family.

Check out Iron Sharpens Iron to begin a men’s ministry in your church and community.

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June 6, 2023

Title: Navigating Pride Month with your Kids
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Pride Month is upon us. You have probably already been bombarded with rainbow flags on social media, in your emails, and the stores you visit.

Jeff Johnston is a Culture and Policy Analyst for Focus on the Family. Today, Jeff offers some great advice to parents and grandparents on how to navigate questions about LGBTQ issues.

Click here for more from Jeff Johnston.

Click here for the latest Youth Risk Behavior Analysis by the CDC.

Click here for the FREE download “How to Talk to Your Children about Homosexuality” by Jeff Johnston at Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How do we answer when a child or grandchild asks: “What’s Pride Month”? Jeff encourages parents to be a good example, modeling Christ-like behavior and God’s design for true love. He also urges parents to be bold, not holding back about the truth about the LGBTQ movement.

Are all “pride” events in the month of June? What does “pride” mean? Must Christians respond with grace, truth, and courage?

If we are confused or fail to give a Godly response, how does this leave the child? Jeff reminds us that children are not mentally equipped to fully understand the world’s interpretation of sex, gender, or sexual identification. Parents and grandparents must initiative the conversation because they’ll remember what the first person tells them.

The following links are resources parents and grandparents can utilize when talking about homosexuality and transgender issues:
How to Talk to Your Children about Homosexuality
How to Talk to Children about Marriage
When Transgender Issues Enter Your World
Understanding Homosexuality

Various articles about sexuality, homosexuality, and transgenderism from the Daily Citizen:

Resources from Focus on the Family about Homosexuality:

Resources from Focus on the Family about Transgenderism:

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May 19, 2023

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 10, 2023

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 3, 2023

Title: The Secret to Happy Relationships
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Research shows that a simple “Thank You” can do wonders for relationships.

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family. Today, Dr. Smalley offers some great advice for people who are experiencing strained relationships, especially married couples.

Click here for more about Dr. Greg Smalley.

Click here for helpful tips and encouragement on marriage issues from Focus on the Family.

Click here to help support Focus on the Family as they continue to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ worldwide.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can saying “thank you” heal wounds and build bridges between two individuals?

Does research show that we say “thank you” more often to strangers than we do our own spouse/loved ones? Dr. Smalley explains why most people are on their “best behavior” around strangers and often treat their loved ones with less respect and love. He also discusses two elements of gratitude in marriage: acknowledgement and affirmation.

When we audibly say “thank you” should we watch our tone and be 100% sincere and genuine?

How can couples say “thank you” to their spouse? Dr. Smalley says to brag on your spouse to others! Your spouse may never even know, but others will! He also suggests complimenting your spouse first thing every morning.

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March 24, 2023

Title: What is Causing the Increase of LGBTQ Adults?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

More and more teenagers and young adults (ages 18-25) are identifying as “LGBTQ”. What is causing the increase?

Jeff Johnston is an Issues Analyst for Focus on the Family. Today, Jeff discusses disturbing results from a recent Gallop Poll, as outlined in his latest op-ed in the Daily Citizen.

Click here to read more from Jeff on other topics in the Daily Citizen.

Click here to donate to Focus on the Family, the parent company for the Daily Citizen.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is there a “gay gene”? Jeff explains that people have been trying to prove this for decades, but no one has ever discovered a “gay gene”.

Why do so many people “think” they are LGBTQ? Jeff discusses his own struggles with this issue and some of the risk factors.

What influence does our education system have on the increase of teens and young adults identifying as LGBTQ? Jeff discusses shocking information he discovered while doing a report on Project 10 in Los Angeles, California.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - What is Causing the Increase of LGBTQ Adults?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What influence does social media have on the increase of teens and young adults identifying as LGBTQ? Jeff discusses research about “rapid onset gender dysphoria” and its connection to social media, peer pressure, mental health issues, and “trends”.

How can parents help? Jeff has some great suggestions – and a warning.

How can the church help? Jeff urges churches to really research what teens and young adults are learning about LGBTQ issues and then address the issue from a true Biblical Worldview.

For more help and free resources, call Focus on the Family at 1.800.AFAMILY or check out Alive to Thrive.

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Title: Help and Hope for Single Parents
Topic: Single Parenting

Discussed by Rob Jackson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Most single parents did not plan to raise their kids alone. It is definitely a hard life.

Today Focus on the Family counselor Rob Jackson shares hope and encouragement to single parents. He also encourages other family members, friends, co-workers, and church members to help singe parents as often as they can.

Click here to help support Focus on the Family as they continue to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ worldwide.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How many children in the US live in a single-parent family?

Are many single parents overwhelmed?

How can the parent and child/children cope with grief and loss while avoiding bitterness? Rob Jackson reminds parents to model what they hope to see in their child.

Is it difficult to create a stable environment in a single-parent home? Rob shares some great tips for creating a stable environment, such as assembling a “care team”.

How can others help those living in a single-family household?

Do many single parents neglect to keep themselves physically, mentally, and spiritually healthy? Rob has some more great suggestions for single parents.

How can single parents help their children thrive? Is church attendance vital?

How can the church help single parents and their children?

Click here for more parenting advice from Focus on the Family or call 1.800.AFAMILY.

You can also click here to be connected with a counselor with Focus on the Family.

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March 2, 2023

Title: Pregnancy Resource Centers Need Our Help NOW!
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Since the Dobbs Case last June, many people mistakenly think that pregnancy resource centers are no longer needed. The truth is, though, that they are needed now more than ever.

Robyn Chambers is the Executive Director for Advocacy for Children for Focus on the Family. Today, she sounds a clarion call for pro-life activists to double-down and work harder than ever to save more babies.

Click here for more information on the pro-life movement from Focus on the Family.

Click here for more information about Operation Ultrasound.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why do pregnancy resource centers need our help now more than ever?

Do pro-choice activists claim pregnancy resource centers are fake clinics and harmful to women? Robyn explains that pro-choice activists use this blatant lie to spread fear.

What tangible medical help do pregnancy resource centers provide to mothers in need? HINT: It’s way more than just a free pregnancy test!

Are pregnancy resource centers busier now than they were before the Dobbs case decision?

Do pregnancy resource centers need more funding? Robyn shares some ways we can provide financial help to pregnancy resource centers. However, she believes the most impactful way we can all help is to PRAY.

Are pregnancy resource centers the face of the pro-life movement?

What do pregnancy resource centers do? Robyn says: “Pregnancy resource centers provide faster, less expensive services to women than abortion facilities, and they do it because of what they are called to do in Christ.”

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February 9, 2023

Title: Who Will Speak for the Christians?
Topic: Christian Persecution

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

First, they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me and there was no one left to speak for me.

Today, Bruce Hausknecht sounds a warning call to all Christians worldwide – especially here in America. Bruce is a Judicial Analyst for Focus on the Family. He researches and analyzes legal and judicial issues related to Christians and the family, including First Amendment freedom of religion and free speech issues, judicial selection, marriage, homosexuality, and pro-life matters.

Click here for more from Bruce Hausknecht and the Daily Citizen, a Focus on the Family publication.

Click here to help Focus on the Family as they spread the love of Jesus around the world.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are many Christians being persecuted all over the world?

Are Christians being persecuted right here in America? Bruce discusses the newest lawsuit against baker Jack Phillips.

What is “their” goal? Do they simply want tolerance or do they want to intimidate us into acceptance and promotion of their lifestyle? Bruce discusses another case involving pro-life activist Mark Houck.

The devil and his minions are awake, organized, and moving forward in the battle of evil vs. good. Are we even awake?

Will evil prevail if Christians sit by and do nothing?

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February 1, 2023

Title: Is Community the Key to Happiness?
Topic: Friendship

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Paul Tripp: “This community of love is meant to comfort the person who's discouraged, to strengthen the person who's weak, to encourage the person who has no hope, to come alongside the person who's alone, … to give eyes to the person blind to God's presence, and to physically represent God's presence and love.”

Paul Batura is the Vice President of Communications at Focus on the Family. Today, Paul offers hope and encouragement as we seek community and friendship.

Click here for more from Paul Batura.

Click here for more on faith and spiritual growth from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How does being a part of community help us in our walk with Christ?

Are strong, healthy relationships the foundation to a happy and good life? Paul shares how we can begin to reach out to those around us.

To have friends, must one be friendly? Proverbs 18:24 (NKJ) “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

Is anyone meant to live outside of community?

Are keys to friendship found in the Bible? Paul reminds us of God’s design from the beginning with Adam and also urges everyone to stay in church.

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January 25, 2023

Title: Seasonal Affect Disorder
Topic: Depression and Wellness

Discussed by Tim Sanford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Winter seems to drag on and on and on. The long nights but short days can be hard on everyone.

Tim Sanford is the Clinical Director for Focus on the Family’s counseling department. Today, he explains what Seasonal Affect Disorder is and offers practical advice we can use as we help family members who may become depressed and withdrawn.

Click here for more from Tim Sanford.

Click here to order your copy of Tim’s latest book, “Losing Control & Liking It”.

Click here to help Focus on the Family as they continue to provide biblical resources to save marriages, rescue mothers and babies from abortion, equip parents, and impact culture.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are winter days, weeks, and even months hard on adults as well as children? Is it simply the “Winter Blues”?

What are some of the symptoms of Seasonal Affect Disorder (SAD)? Tim Sanford urges people to look for changes in appetite and sleeping habits, as well as lack of interest in hobbies and difficulty concentrating.

Can a lack of sunlight directly affect our mood?

What are some things we can to do help ourselves, family members, and friends avoid Seasonal Affect Disorder? Tim Sanford recommends outside activities (specifically in the sunlight) and implementing healthy eating and sleeping habits. He also discusses the benefits of a “Family Gratitude Journal” and even staying active as a family.

Is counseling helpful? Do some people need medication, as well?

Will the feelings of Seasonal Affect Disorder simply “go away”? Tim Sanford believes that sometimes it will, but it may take much longer if you aren’t proactive.

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January 17, 2023

Title: Pray for the Annual March for Life in WDC
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

This January 20th, 2023, marks the 50th March for Life in Washington, DC. Every year, it is the largest human rights event that takes place.

Robyn Chambers is the Executive Director for Advocacy for Children for Focus on the Family. Today, Robyn discusses the upcoming March for Life, encouraging Christians to pray for the event and especially for expectant mothers considering abortion.

Click here for more information on the pro-life movement from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the March for Life?

The Supreme Court ruled to overturn Roe v Wade on June 24, 2022. Why must we continue to March for Life? Robyn says: “It is an opportunity for us to celebrate the overturning of Roe, but it is also a reminder that the work must continue” because now life is in the hands of individual states.

The March for Life this year will go to the steps of the United States Capitol instead of the U.S. Supreme Court. Is this symbolic of the shift in focus from the US Supreme Court to the US Capitol and every State Capitol across America?

What will Focus on the Family be concentrating on in the coming days, weeks, and months to save more babies? Robyn explains the strategy that FOF is focused on with helping women and their babies long-term to thrive in life and in Christ.

Are those who work in and volunteer for Crisis Pregnancy Centers heroes?

Click here to help Focus on the Family in their efforts to save more babies.

Click here for more information about Embrace Grace, an organization that exists to help inspire and equip the church to love and encourage single and pregnant young women and their families.

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December 20, 2022

Title: Managing Stress During the Holidays
Topic: Mental Health

Discussed by Rob Jackson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The holidays are an extra-busy time for most people, causing overwhelming stress in the young and old alike.

Rob Jackson is a licensed counselor with Focus on the Family. Today, Rob offers some helpful advice on how to keep our stress levels down during the holidays, urging “self-care habits” – getting enough sleep, eating reasonably well, and regular exercise.

Click here for help from Focus on the Family or call 1.800.AFAMILY.

Click here for more from Rob Jackson.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can we manage the build-up of stress in our lives?

How can we navigate this busy season? Rob reminds us to have realistic expectations and stresses the importance of “living in the moment”.

Must we give up control of the things we can’t control?

How can we help other family members cope? Rob discusses what he does to help his own family reduce their stress levels.

Do our children and grandchildren become stressed, too?

How can rest/stillness help keep our stress levels down? Rob reminds us that even adults need a “time-out!” Go outside and regroup. Find a quiet room and rest.

Click here to donate to Focus on the Family.

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December 2, 2022

Title: Losing Control and Liking It
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Tim Sanford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

When bad things happen, what do you do?

Tim Sanford is a licensed professional counselor and the Clinical Director of Counseling Services for Focus on the Family. Today, Tim discusses how to manage uncertainty and fear, as well as the freedom one can feel by stopping the search for control – seeking Christ instead.

Click here for more about Tim Sanford.

Click here to order a copy or two of Tim’s latest book, “Losing Control and Liking It”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are there moments in everyone's life when life seems out of control? Tim believes that many people are “control freaks”, saying: “The reality is: You can only control yourself… and that’s a really small part of the universe.”

Is there any comfort in realizing that “bad things” do happen to “good people”?

How can we begin to manage uncertainty and fear? Tim suggests to focus on what you can do, not what you can’t do.

How do we stop grabbing for the steering wheel and just allow God to take the driver’s seat? Tim says: “Accepting the way things are and accepting that I don’t have control is a physical act of humility to God. He is the one in control – not me. He will decide how things come out – not me… He will do it His way, which is always the best way.”

Do we too often ignore God’s guiding voice, wanting to be in control of the situation?

How can “Losing Control and Liking It” help readers during perplexing times in their lives?

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November 29, 2022

Title: Churches: It’s Time to Step Up
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Too often, the church shoots the wounded who walk through the front door.

Robyn Chambers is the Executive Director of Focus on the Family’s Advocacy for Children program. Today, Robyn discusses the unique opportunity churches and Christians have to help and support pregnant women and their babies.

Click here for more information on pro-life issues from Focus on the Family.

Click here for more on Robyn Chambers.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do women with unexpected pregnancies often not know where to turn – thinking they will be judged from a church?

Why are so many pastors afraid to preach about abortion from the pulpit? Robyn explains that many pastors she talks with worry about offending women who have had an abortion or making them feel guilty. Her response to this fear is: “There is nothing you can say that adds any more shame or quilt than they’ve already put on themselves. Talking about it, means…this church is a safe place.”

Does the church have a powerful opportunity to not just save a baby physically, but the mother eternally?

Where do scared young girls and women turn, if not the church?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Churches: It’s Time to Step Up
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are women in churches getting abortions?

Are there unwed pregnant women in churches?

Does every church have something they can offer pregnant women and their babies? Robyn shares her own personal story of being a pregnant teenager and how her small church helped her.

Do churches need special training to help pregnant women and their babies?

Is abortion strictly a political issue? Robyn reminds us that supporting an unwed pregnant woman is supporting her, not her sin. She also urges church members to encourage their pastor and other church leaders to begin a ministry for unwed pregnant mothers and not shy away from the topic.

Do we need a “Pro-Love Movement” in America?

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November 17, 2022

Title: Healing After a Miscarriage
Topic: Healing After a Miscarriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Erin Smalley is the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for Focus on the Family’s marriage ministry. Today, Erin offers hope and encouragement for couples after a miscarriage and also discusses how we can help them, both individually and as a church congregation.

Click here for articles and resources from Focus on the Family on miscarriage.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What are common struggles couples face after losing a baby from miscarriage?

Can their struggles be different? Erin explains that men and women grieve differently and it’s important to empathize with each other during the process.

What are some things NOT to say to a grieving couple after a miscarriage?

Is counseling helpful? Can books about grieving after a miscarriage be helpful?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Healing After a Miscarriage
Topic: Healing After a Miscarriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What can couples do together and individually to begin the healing process? Erin quotes John 16:33 “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Is it normal to be confused and ask “Why God”? Erin believes it is and explains why...

How can the church be an encouragement to couples after a miscarriage? Is it important for couples to reach out for help from the church?

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November 16, 2022

Title: Christians: The Fight is Far from Over
Topic: Elections Matter

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Joshua 24:15 (ESV) “And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Nicole Hunt is a Life Issues Analyst with Focus on the Family. Today, Nicole discusses the recent Mid Term Elections and what Christians must do going forward.

Click here for the latest from Nicole Hunt and the Daily Citizen, a division of Focus on the Family.

Click here to donate to Focus on the Family.

Click here to view the recent study from Dr. George Barna and the American Culture and Faith Institute on the mindset of Americans concerning right and wrong – good and evil.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is the battle to protect life from the womb to the tomb over?

Is the battle to silence Christians from speaking out against sin over? Nicole reminds us that the battle rages on until Jesus returns!

Is the battle for control of the education and training of children over?

IIf these and other battles are not over, what are we to do? Nicole likes to call Christians “transformers” and quotes Romans 12:2 “Do not be conformed to this world,[a] but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

Click here for more resources from Focus on the Family.

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November 3, 2022

Title: Christian Conservatives Must Ban Together in Elections
Topic: Elections Matter

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Proverbs 29:2 “When the righteous increase, the people rejoice, but when the wicked rule, the people groan.”

Nicole Hunt is a Life Issues Analyst at Focus on the Family. Today, Nicole discusses what issues are most important to voters in the upcoming November 2022 Mid-Term Elections.

Click here for the most recent articles from Nicole Hunt.

Click here to donate to Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are voters concerned about inflation?

Are voters concerned about a looming recession?

How will the abortion issue impact the midterms nationally? Is this still a top issue for many Christian Conservatives?

Has sex on demand in the current hook-up culture, abortion at any point up to and including birth, and the LGBTQ transgender agenda been good or bad for Americans? Nicole references the book: “How Abortion Harms Everything”.

How can like-minded Christian Conservatives begin to change the direction of our country?

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October 31, 2022

Title: Losing Control and Liking It
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Tim Sanford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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October 19, 2022

Title: How Can YOU Help Encourage Your Pastor?
Topic: Why Pastors Leave the Ministry

Discussed by Josh Zeichik
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

1 Timothy 5:17 “Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching.”

New guest, Josh Zeichik, is the Director of Church Engagement at Focus on the Family. Part of his responsibility at FOF is to help equip pastors in their personal and professional lives. Today, Josh discusses reasons why pastors leave the ministry and ways we can help them on a daily basis.

Click here for more on Josh Zeichik.

Click here for research on this issue from the Fuller Institute, George Barna, and Pastoral Care, Inc.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How does Josh Zeichik help encourage pastors?

Why are pastors quitting and/or considering quitting the ministry? Josh discusses how many pastors feel all alone in their leadership role.

Do many pastors struggle with stress over political division in their church? Josh says: “Our love for the Lord needs to translate into a love for each other that would transcend our differences in views of politics and culture.”

Our pastors need more than cookies and financial support. What can we do to help our pastors?

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October 17, 2022

Title: Protecting Children from the DOE’s Title IX Rule
Topic: Public Education

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Jeff Johnston is a Culture and Policy Analyst for Focus on the Family. Today he discusses the Biden Administration’s obsession with LGBTQ issues – and why parents should be doing everything in their power to stop him.

Click here to read Jeff Johnston’s op-ed in the Daily Citizen on this topic.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is Biden erasing God’s design of male and female? Jeff reminds us that on Biden’s first day as President, he signed an Executive Order directing all government agencies to redefine sex to include sexual orientation and identity.

Do the majority of Americans want biological males inside girl’s locker rooms and bathrooms?

Do the majority of Americans want boys to compete in girls’ sports?

Do the majority of Americans want schools to provide abortion services? Jeff explains some of the new language in Title IX that is allowing minors to obtain birth control and even abortions without their parents’ knowledge or consent.

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October 13, 2022

Title: Will SCOTUS Protect Christians or Throw them Under the Bus?
Topic: First Amendment Rights

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Bruce Hausknecht is the Judicial Analyst for Focus on the Family and a writer for the Daily Citizen. Today, Bruce discusses a case regarding the free speech rights of a web-designer.

Click here to read more about religious issues from the Daily Citizen.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does our Constitution protect the LGBTQ graphic artist who doesn’t want to create websites which condemn same-sex marriage?

Does our Constitution protect the Democrat artist who doesn’t want to create posters promoting the Republican platform?

Does our Constitution protect the Muslim calligrapher who doesn’t want to write flyers promoting Christianity?

If the First Amendment protects them, shouldn’t it be a two-way street and protect Christians, also?

Who is Lori Smith? How could the results of her case affect every American – especially Christians?

Click here to learn more about Alliance Defending Freedom, who is representing Lori Smith.

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October 11, 2022

Title: October: National Bullying Prevention Month
Topic: Bullying

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Today, Danny discusses National Bullying Prevention Month and ways we can share God’s love with others who are hurting.

Click here for more parenting tips from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are we living in a time where mental health struggles and loneliness are more rampant than ever, especially among children and teens?

What are some different forms of bullying? Danny discusses cyber bullying, verbal bullying, sibling/family bullying, and even physical bullying – all of which can lead to suicidal thoughts, suicide, self-harm, and other destructive behavior.

What does it mean to be a “noticer”? What is a “builder”? Click here for fun activities and to take the family quiz that Danny Huerta mentions in today’s interview.

How can we be life-giving and intentional with others, even as adults?

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September 29, 2022

Title: Improve Your Marriage NOW
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family. Today, Dr. Smalley discusses why being present can make or break a marriage, offering advice on what couples can do to reconnect after the distance between them has already grown.

Click here for more from Dr. Greg Smalley on this and other marriage issues.

Click here to order a copy of Dr. Smalley’s new book, “The Marriage You’ve Always Dreamed Of”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why did Gisele Bundchen, Tom Brady’s wife, say that his playing football negatively impacts their family?

Can lack of spending time together negatively impact a marriage? Dr. Smalley believes that the last thing couples think about when they get married is loneliness, but it is present in every marriage at some point or another – even his own!

What does it mean to be present with your spouse? How can couples reconnect today?
1. Take a minimum of 10 minutes every single day to talk, even if it’s a long-distance facetime call.
2. Discuss your high and low of the day.
3. Protect your fun time. Don’t talk about serious matters on a date.

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Title: Surviving Marriage Living with a Football-Holic
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

It's that time of year again – changing leaves, cooler temperatures, and football.

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family. Today, he discusses a topic that many spouses across the country could use help with: Football addiction.

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Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are there really spouses that don’t like sports, specifically football?

What is a “football widow”? Dr. Smalley admits that football has even affected his own marriage. How did he fix it?

How can a husband or wife approach the football subject with their spouse?

What can couples do to reduce the friction during football season? Dr. Smalley discusses how the fan should practice moderation and the non-fan can practice toleration. He shares that his wife will even watch a game with him from time-to-time, simply so they can spend time together. He also says both spouses need to be present at all times; that is key.

Can there really be a compromise somewhere in this struggle?

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September 23, 2022

Title: Protecting Children from the DOE’s Title IX Rule
Topic: Public Education

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 15, 2022

Title: Protecting Children from the DOE’s Title IX Rule
Topic: Public Education

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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August 18, 2022

Title: Hope and Help for Mental Health
Topic: Mental Health

Discussed by Rob Jackson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Over 27 million adults with mental health issues in the US are going without treatment. Whether one is struggling with depression, battling trauma, or working through marital or family conflict, finding a good therapist can be tough.

Rob Jackson is a licensed counselor with Focus on the Family. Today he offers hope and encouragement to those who are battling mental health issues, reminding us that we are not alone.

Click here for help from Focus on the Family or call 1.800.AFAMILY.

Click here for more from Rob Jackson.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do many people think they are all alone – that no one else is struggling like they are?

Are there specifics signs of depression and anxiety to look for in our friends and family – and even in ourselves? Rob discusses constant worry, sudden weight loss or gain, trouble sleeping, loss of concentration, feelings of despair, mood swings, and anger issues.

Where is a good place to begin seeking help? Rob explains how Focus on the Family can help.

Should Christians look for a Christian counselor and/or treatment center?

What questions should a person ask a potential counselor? Rob has some great suggestions, including asking the therapist if they have ever been in counseling themselves.

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August 16, 2022

Title: Christians: It’s Time to Step Up
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Pregnancy clinics and resource centers are critical sources of care for women facing an unplanned pregnancy. These centers and clinics often provide counseling, parenting classes, diapers, clothing, and formula that can truly make an impact in a woman’s life.

Robyn Chambers is the Executive Director of Advocacy for Children with Focus on the Family. Today she urges listeners to find a local crisis pregnancy center and either contribute financially or volunteer. There are thousands of women and babies who need our help.

Click here for more information about pro-life issues from Focus on the Family.

Click here for more information about Robyn Chambers.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Praise God – many abortion providers closed their doors after the recent Supreme Court decision. What about those that have remained open? Robyn reveals that they are becoming more aggressive, pushing abortion harder than before.

Why don’t many women turn to a local church immediately for help when they discover they’re pregnant? Robyn shares her own story and discusses why many churches don’t offer resources to the community.

How can we help local pregnancy centers support expectant mothers and their unborn babies? Robyn discusses the many ways we can help with both pre-natal and post-natal care.

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August 9, 2022

Title: Staying Healthy and Married through a Recession
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by George Stahnke
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The price of everything is increasing every day. This added cost for gas, groceries, and even a coffee in the morning can put a financial and emotional strain on marriage. In fact, according to one 2018 study, financial troubles are the second leading cause of divorce, behind infidelity.

George Stahnke is a Pastoral Counselor at Focus on the Family. He takes an average of 250-325 phone calls per month providing counseling to individuals, families, and ministry leaders. Today he discusses how couples can maintain a healthy marriage through a recession.

Click here for marriage tips and advice from Focus on the Family.

Click here for counseling services and referrals from Focus on the Family or call 1.800.AFAMILY.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does our individual money supply, or lack thereof, affect our interpersonal relationships?

Should every family talk about “cash flow”? George offers some great suggestions, warning that it will be hard at first, but it will be worth it in the end. He also stresses the importance of including children in the conversation, saying: “They’re part of the team. Don’t exclude the children.”

Can couples change their outlook on life by praying together every day?

What common piece of advice does George Stahnke often give people?

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July 27, 2022

Title: When Will You Say STOP?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Have the radical liberals finally gone too far in enforcing their LGBTQ dogma on the American people?

Bruce Hausknecht is a Judicial Analyst with Focus on the Family and a writer for The Daily Citizen. Today Bruce discusses the Left’s continued assault on Christians and anyone who dares to question the LGBTQ agenda.

Click here to read more on this outrageous new bully tactic from the Left.

Click here for more information about Focus on the Family.

Click here for more information about The Daily Citizen.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is the Biden Administration so committed to imposing its perverted gender ideology that they are now threatening to withhold lunch money?

Are the vast majority of Americans sick and tired of the government pushing their perverted woke ideologies down their throats? Click here to read more on the statistics. You can also read more here.

Are many states are pushing back against the Biden Administration on this issue? Bruce discusses the latest Executive Order by Joe Biden, which he calls a “war against parents”.

Where will this perversion end? What is their end-game?

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July 26, 2022

Title: Five Lies the Abortion Industry is Pushing and How to Respond
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Pro-abortion activists are running scared after the reversal of Roe v Wade. In fact, they are so scared that they are spreading fear mongering lies.

Nicole Hunt is a Life Issues Analyst for Focus on the Family and writer for the Daily Citizen. Today, Nicole discusses five big lies the abortion industry is pushing and how Christians can respond.

Click here to read more on this topic from Nicole Hunt.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

TRUE OR FALSE: Women with life-threatening conditions will be forced to carry a baby even if it means she may die. Does every state include exceptions, including states that ban abortion? Is the treatment to save a mother’s life considered an abortion?

TRUE OR FALSE: Women with ectopic pregnancies will not be able to receive treatment. What is an ectopic pregnancy? Is the life of the baby viable in this situation? Does this type of pregnancy threaten the life of the mother? Is the medical treatment for an ectopic pregnancy considered an abortion?

TRUE OR FALSE: Women won’t be able to receive care for miscarriages. Is a miscarriage completely different than an abortion? Is care after a miscarriage available to women in all 50 states?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Five Lies the Abortion Industry is Pushing and How to Respond
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

TRUE OR FALSE: Pro-life pregnancy resource centers hurt women and should be shut down.

Nicole Hunt says: “They empower them [women] to make decisions out of hope and not of fear. They help women before the baby’s birth… and they walk with them as they raise their babies. Abortion sellers sell abortion and then leave women on their own.”

Side Bar: Did the reversal of Roe v Wade prohibit abortion in all 50 states?

TRUE OR FALSE: The Roe v. Wade reversal violates the separation of church and state.

Why is this a laughable argument? Was religion mentioned in the argument in the Dobbs’ case (which led to the reversal of Roe v Wade)?

Click here for more information on pro-life issues from Focus on the Family.

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July 8, 2022

Title: When Will You Say STOP?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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June 29, 2022

Title: Pro-Lifers: Be Ready for a Fight
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Nicole Hunt is an attorney and Life Issues Analyst for Focus on the Family. Today Nicole urges all pro-life advocates to dig in their heels and continue their fight for life.

“The abortion lobby will stop at nothing to legalize abortion in every state. They will go after pro-life policies and try to get them reversed,” Nicole says. “It is critical that we all do our part to promote the pro-life movement in our own state.”

Click here for the latest on this issue from Nicole Hunt.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Now that states have the right to decide whether or not to allow abortion, will pro-abortion advocates give up, give in, and go away?

Has our work just begun in protecting and promoting the health of pre-born babies? Nicole says: “This is just the next chapter in the story of the pro-life movement.”

Do many expecting mothers need our assistance now more than ever? Nicole discusses several different ways pro-life advocates can help…

How does Focus on the Family help pregnant women?

Why are some pastors reluctant to state that they are pro-life? Nicole argues back: “You don’t have to worry about being political when you’re being Biblical.” AMEN!

What are some of the next steps for pro-life advocates? Nicole says we must double-down in prayer, get involved with a local pregnancy center, and be ready to talk about pro-life issues.

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June 22, 2022

Title: When Will You Say STOP?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 16, 2022

Title: PRAISE REPORT: Senate Fails to Pass Radical Abortion Agenda
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

On Wednesday, May 11, 2022, in a 51-49 vote, the US Senate failed to approve the Democrats’ radical abortion agenda to allow abortions throughout all nine months of pregnancy in every state.

Nicole Hunt, a writer and spokesperson for Focus on the Family, discusses details of this vote, the upcoming reveal of the “actual” Supreme Court decision for Dobbs vs Mississippi, and what the future could look like for babies in the womb.

Click here for more information and helpful resources about abortion from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Would the majority of Americans find certain aspects of the Democrats’ radical abortion agenda “too radical”?

Would the proposed Democrat bill (which failed to pass) trump all current state laws regarding abortion?

Canada, China, Vietnam, North Korea, South Korea, and the United States all allow abortion throughout all nine months of pregnancy. Do any Western European countries? Nicole reveals that they do NOT.

Do Americans support unrestricted abortions through all nine months of pregnancy? OR Do Americans support a total ban on all abortions, regardless of the reason?

Will all the Republicans plus the lone Democrat hold the line against abortion on demand in the US?

Prior to the Roe v Wade decision in 1973, did each state regulate abortions?

If the Supreme Court overturns Roe v. Wade, will abortions be against the law in all states and territories with the US? Nicole urges Christians to continue to pray for the SCOTUS decision and for all of our elected officials.

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May 13, 2022

Title: May is National Foster Care Month
Topic: Foster Care

Discussed by Helen Richardson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

There are over 400,000 children in foster care across America today. Not everyone is called to be a foster or adoptive parent, but every Christian is called to help in some way.

Helen Richardson is the Foster and Adoption Care Manager at Focus on the Family. She also oversees Focus on the Family’s Wait No More , providing events, resources, and education for foster children and families.

Today, Helen talks about her own experience as a foster child and teen. She also offers encouragement to foster and adoptive parents and helps us understand more about the needs they have.

Click here to read more on National Foster Care Month.

Click here for more information about adoption and foster care from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Unfortunately, Helen and her sister grew up in the foster care system. What was her life like?

What is the difference between kinship care and foster care?

Are there plenty of resources available to families who wish to kinship and/or foster care? Helen discusses some of the resources available. Click the links above for more information and help.

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - May is National Foster Care Month
Topic: Foster Care

Discussed by Helen Richardson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Not everyone is called to be a foster or adoptive parent, but everyone can help in some way. Helen offers some suggestions, like donating money to provide suitcases and large duffle bags for kids’ belongings. She recalls her own experience throwing a few items that were hers in a plastic garbage bag and how discouraging it was. It might seem like a little thing to some people, but to her (and other foster kids) it would have meant the world to have something that was her own.

Click here to donate to the Wait No More initiative.

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - May is National Foster Care Month
Topic: Foster Care

Discussed by Helen Richardson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

In the last segment, Helen discussed the importance of foster kids feeling like they belong and how we can help provide a little hope to them through a simple suitcase.

What other ways can we help foster kids and foster/adoptive parents? Everyone can pray! Click here to request your FREE downloadable Foster Care Prayer Guide from Focus on the Family.

Are all foster children/teens troubled and “hard to handle”? Helen reminds us that they are just kids who will have issues like every other kid.

What is the mission and purpose of Focus on the Family’s Wait No More initiative? Click here for all the details.

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April 25, 2022

Title: How to Develop a Resilient Mindset
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Tim Samford is the Director of counselling services for Focus on the Family. Tim is a licensed professional counsellor, pastor, public speaker, and the author of numerous books, including his most recent: “Forgive for Real: Six Steps to Forgiving”.

Today, Tim discusses the upstairs brain and downstairs brain and how we can begin cultivating a resilient mindset in our kids.

Click here to read more about this topic from Tim Samford.

Click here to read more from Tim Samford on other issues.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who is Josh Squires? Tim shares Josh’s account of a grueling multi-day hike that’s part of the Army Mountain Warfare School training.

What is the difference between surviving and true resilience?

Will we all have to weather storms in life? Tim says: “It’s a physical and mental toughness, and we don’t get tough by reading books. We get tough by living through it with a plan in mind.”

What is the best way for us to help others in the middle of a crisis? Tim has some great advice…

How do we become comfortable with being uncomfortable? Tim says this is a good mantra: “Bad times don’t last forever. But good people do.”

STOP: Stop, think, observe, and plan.

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - How to Develop a Resilient Mindset
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Can we just go to a “safe place” until the crisis resolves itself? Tim believes that some situations are dangerous and running away is absolutely necessary, but this is not helpful or productive for the majority of problems.

Most of us have heard of the left brain/right brain differences. What is the upstairs/downstairs brain?

In the Armed Forces, men and women are taught specific training techniques. Why does Tim say this is helpful in life? Is challenging ourselves important, too?

STOP: Stop, think, observe, and plan.

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - How to Develop a Resilient Mindset
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How do we begin to teach our children and grandchildren to be resilient when “life happens”? Tim’s wife, who teaches 5th grade, often tells her students: “Hard is good!”

Can Scripture help us cope with hard situations?

STOP: Stop, think, observe, and plan.

For help from Focus on the Family, call 1.800.A.FAMILY or click here.

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Title: What Chores Should Your Kids Be Doing?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Summer is upon us. Most kids/teens are finished with their online/stay-at-home school by now. So now what? Many summer camps, vacation Bible schools, and other activities have been canceled or modified due to the Coronavirus.

So, what now? Danny Huerta, with Focus on the Family, says CHORES! No, not really. But – what age-appropriate chores should they be doing?

Click here for more on this topic.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who was the first person to do chores in history? Did God command this?

How can parents determine what chores are age-appropriate for their kids? Should parents start from an early age?

According to a recent poll, 82% of parents said that they were given chores as a child. However, only 28% of parents admit to giving chores to their own kids.

Do kids who do chores perform better in school and society?

Do incentives work? Is consistency important? How are chore charts helpful? How can parents make chores more enjoyable? Danny has some terrific suggestions and fun ideas!

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April 18, 2022

Title: Babies’ Lives are at Stake
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Nicole Hunt is the Life Issues Analyst with Focus on the Family. Nicole is a wife and proud mother of four kiddos. She is an attorney and writer, promoting Christian faith, family, and freedom issues.

Today, Nicole discusses a bill that passed the House in Colorado that is a direct attack on life in the womb, parental rights, and human rights. The Governor of Colorado has already declared that he WILL sign this horrific bill into law if it passes the Senate.

Click here for more on this and other family issues from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is the devil working overtime to kill more babies?

Would this Colorado bill allow abortion for any reason at any point during a pregnancy – even up until the moment of birth?

Would this bill also declare that pre-born babies have zero rights in Colorado?

Would this bill invalidate all existing laws in Colorado that limit abortions? Nicole reveals that this law would eliminate a current law which requires parental notification before a minor is allowed to have an abortion.

Would this bill prohibit any new pro-life laws in the state of Colorado?

If the Supreme Court strikes down Roe v Wade in the Mississippi Dobbs Case, will Colorado and other states immediately take action?

If a baby is born alive during an abortion, would the proposed Colorado law permit the abortionist to kill the baby anyway? SHORT ANSWER: YES. How heartbreaking this is.

Are the current health struggles of Justice Clarence Thomas troublesome?

How should Christians everywhere pray?

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April 12, 2022

Title: Supporting Your Spouse Through Thick and Thin
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

You may not know who walked away with an Oscar the other night, but you probably didn’t escape the news that actor Will Smith defended his wife, Jada, in a packed auditorium.

While many couples won’t find themselves in situations involving physical altercations, what spouse doesn’t want to know that they have a “wingman” to do life with?

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family. Today he discusses when, where, and why to defend your spouse. Dr. Smalley says: “Always be your spouse’s wingman. Be your spouse’s ally, shield, and advocate. You are each other’s helpmate.”

Click here to read the opinion article on this topic.

Click here for more on Dr. Greg Smalley.

Click here for other marriage help from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What’s the difference between a helpmate and a wingman?

Why does Dr. Smalley believe spouses should set boundaries? Dr. Smalley explains that there is also a difference between “standing by” his wife and “standing up” for her, using his own son as an example…

Should we always defend our spouse in public? Or should it be done in private?

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Title: Parenting Adult Children is HARD
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Brenda Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

New guest Brenda Huerta is a bilingual counselor serving callers who contact Focus on the Family’s counseling department. In her role, she regularly speaks with people struggling with issues related to parenting young adult and adult children, parenting children with ADHD, RAD, ODD, or OCD, extended family relationships, hospitality, women’s issues, marriage conflict, adoption, and more.

Concerning parenting adult children, she says: “When they leave my presence, how do they feel? It’s the same mentality Jesus demonstrated in his life on earth.”

Click here for more articles and tips on parenting from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is a good way to foster a relationship of trust and respect with adult children and grandchildren? Brenda says listening is key – but listen to understand, not control. “Listening builds trust,” she says.

Is asking questions to understand their position or decision important?

Is prayer sometimes the only thing a parent or grandparent can do? Brenda shares her favorite Scripture: Isaiah 49:25 “I will fight those who fight you and I will save your children.”

Is it important to seek help, such as a Sunday School class, Life Group, or support group? br />
CClick here for help from Focus on the Family or call 1.800.A.FAMILY.

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March 28, 2022

Title: Babies’ Lives are at Stake
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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March 7, 2022

Title: Helping Children Understand Bad News
Topic: Russia and Ukraine

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Over the last two years, our children have suffered through a worldwide pandemic. Now, they may be seeing horrible images and hearing awful stories about what is happening in Ukraine.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting for Focus on the Family. Today he offers some helpful information on sharing bad news with young children.

Isaiah 26:3-4 “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.”

Click here to read the op-ed from Focus on the Family on this topic.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

As parents and grandparents, should we be careful when we watch the daily news? Danny discusses why its important for us to first determine facts before expressing our concerns. He also reminds us of the power of prayer.

“Be careful little eyes what you see. Be careful little ears what you hear.” Is there a lesson and truth in these words?

How can we help our children and grandchildren process the daily news? Danny says: “Help them be wise consumers of news… Don’t just ignore or avoid it. Kids will consume news at some point… Give them skill sets on how to process it.”

Danny suggests searching “homeschool consuming news” to find helpful resources on this topic. NOTE: You don’t have to be a homeschool family to gain knowledge on this topic.

Click here for more parenting tips and suggestions from Focus on the Family.

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February 28, 2022

Title: Teachers Encouraged to Read Books about Transgenderism to Kids!
Topic: Transgender Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

February 24, 2022: National Day of School and Community Readings

Sounds great, right? WRONG! Click on the link above! Teachers and librarians were encouraged through this “national day” to read books about transgenderism to their classrooms! I wonder if your kids’ teacher and school librarian did….

Jeff Johnston is a Culture and Policy Analyst for Focus on the Family, with an emphasis on writing and teaching about marriage, homosexuality, and gender, as well as encouraging and equipping Christians to engage the darkness of our time.

Click here to read Jeff’s op-ed on this disturbing topic.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Did many schools inform parents and guardians of their participation in the “National Day of School and Community Readings”? Jeff discusses how most people are absolutely shocked to hear about this “national day” and explains how it began with Jazz Jennings, a little boy who sadly transitioned into a little girl.

After children hear about transgenderism and read books about it, is it too late for parents to engage their children in God’s way? Jeff says: “It’s not a matter of “if” your children encounter this ideology; it’s a matter of “when” they will encounter it.”

How do we respond to teachers, librarians, and others who are indoctrinating our kids? Jeff has some great suggestions on what parents can do, including not doing it alone – find others who agree with you.

Why has there been such a huge jump in the percentage of people who call themselves LGBTQ over the last twenty or thirty years, especially among teenagers? Jeff explains that teens and others who share their “transition” on social media (specifically YouTube and TikTok) get the “approval” that so many of them are craving. He also reminds parents that their children are precious and its their responsibility to protect them from these evils.

Jeff closes the interview with some helpful links for parents:

Click here to helpful resources from Jeff and the Daily Citizen on how to talk to your child about homosexuality and transgender issues.

Click here for a FREE copy of the “Busy Parent’s Guide to What’s Happening in Your Children’s Classrooms and Practical Steps You Can Take to Protect Them.”

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February 25, 2022

Title: Relearning the Art of Face-to-Face Relationships
Topic: Relationships

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Recently, a California man made headlines for a creative attempt at making friends: He cooked up a bunch of pancakes and served them to his neighbors. It worked.

Geremy Keeton is the Sr. Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the Family. Today he discusses the human need for face-to-face relationships and how we can honor God through those relationships.

Click here for more parenting tips from Focus on the Family. You can also call 1.800.A.FAMILY to speak to a family counselor free of charge.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who is the “Pancake Man”? Should we all be a “Pancake Man” (or woman or kid or teenager)?

Have we lost the art of face-to-face relationships? Geremy says: “We are generally people of habit… but relationships take intentionality and planning.” He also reminds that we were made in God’s image and He designed us to be in community.

How can we teach the younger generations to put down the electronics and cultivate face-to-face relationships? Geremy offers some great suggestions…

What does a God-honoring friendship look like?

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February 22, 2022

Title: Get Married and Kids!
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Is marriage really important? Should people have kids – and more kids?

Attorney Nicole Hunt serves as a writer and spokesperson at Focus on the Family providing analysis and advocacy engagement for Christians to promote faith, family, and freedom. Nicole says: “If you want to live counterculturally as a Christian, get married and have kids!”

Click here for more marriage, parenting, and family tips from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

“Live for yourself” is quite possibly one of the most destructive and pervasive lies of our time. But why is this lie so dangerous? Nicole says: “It has robbed my generation and the coming generation of a type of joy, satisfaction, fulfillment, and life of meaning. They don’t realize what they’re missing out on.”

How will the low birth rate affect our society in the long-term?

Many able-bodied men in America are willingly leaving the workforce. How is this affecting families? How is this affecting our society? Nicole will discuss this issue more in the next segment.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Get Married and Kids!
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How do we re-engage the men in our society who are choosing to drop-out? Nicole believes that we must reject the idea of toxic masculinity and raise men who will be men. “It’s their responsibility to take care of their family and the spiritual head of their household,” she says. “It’s starts in the home.”

What is “counterculture” and why is it important to our society? Focus on the Family can help! Call 1.800.A.FAMILY or click here for more information.

Must we always have the perfect-looking house, perfect-looking kids, perfect-looking marriage to be happy?

Nicole Hunt admits that sometimes life is hard. What is the driving force in her life that keeps her going? Nicole believes it first starts with a relationship with God and being grounded in His Word.

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February 8, 2022

Title: Is Suicide Predicable – Preventable – Treatable – Curable?
Topic: Suicide and Suicide Prevention

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Cheslie Kryst, 2019 winner of the Miss USA Pageant, died from suicide recently at the age of 30. Kryst’s death shines a spotlight on a troubling suicide trend among young adults today. Sadly, suicide is now ranked as the second leading cause of death among 10–34-year-olds.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on Family. In response to the current suicide epidemic, Focus on the Family created Alive to Thrive, a free online resource for parents and others who regularly interact with youth. The new initiative offers strategies for preventing and responding to suicide.

Click here for more information from Focus on the Family about suicide. You can also call 1.800.A.FAMILY for help.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

In this segment, Danny Huerta discusses some risk factors and warning signs of teen depression/suicidal thoughts.

Risk Factors:
Previous suicide attempt
Mood disorders
Recipient of bullying
Relationship breakup
Chronic illness
Marijuana use, especially in males
Stress
Knowing another teen who has thought about or committed suicide
Sense of hopelessness, such as their parents divorce or the death of a loved one

Warning signs:
Talk of depression
Shift in personality
Sudden change of interests or hobbies
Not sleeping or sleeping too much
Risk taking
Cutting
Don’t care about life anymore

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Is Suicide Predicable – Preventable – Treatable – Curable?
Topic: Suicide and Suicide Prevention

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

In this segment, Danny Huerta discusses how adults and others can respond to the warning signs of teen depression/suicidal thoughts.

Why is it important for parents or any other adults to never ignore or dismiss talk of suicide?

Is it difficult for some families to recognize the warning signs of suicide?

Danny also discusses the importance of strong spiritual, physical, emotional, and mental health.

Focus on the Family Podcast: Teen Suicide Knowing the Signs

What is Mental Health and Why is it Important for your Family?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Is Suicide Predicable – Preventable – Treatable – Curable?
Topic: Suicide and Suicide Prevention

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

IIs suicide predictable? Danny says that this is complicated; in some cases – yes; in some cases – no.

Is suicide preventable? Danny says the first attempt might not be, but future attempts can be. Click here to read more on the Columbia Suicide Severity Rating Scale.

Is suicide treatable or curable? Danny says that the more the issue is addressed, the better the odds are that a person will not attempt suicide in the future.

Click here for more information about Alive to Thrive: A Biblical Guide to Preventing Teen Suicide from Focus on the Family.

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January 17, 2022

Title: Parenting Adult Children is HARD
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Brenda Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 24, 2021

Title: What’s Love, Anyway?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Many families go around the Thanksgiving table each year and share what they’re thankful for. Some say their health, others say their job, or maybe a fun life experience they recently had. But how many say their spouse? The holiday season isn’t the only time you can show gratefulness to your spouse.

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family. Today he discusses the importance of telling and showing others that we love and cherish them.

Click here for more marriage tips and advice from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How does Dr. Smalley show his wife that he loves her?

What is a “cherish list”? Why did Greg’s father have a cherish list? This is a really sweet story…

Why should we write down what we cherish about others and share the list with them?

Why is it important to cherish our loved ones year-round?

Can showing others we cherish them transform not only their life but our life, too?

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November 16, 2021

Title: The Age of the Mama Bear
Topic: Mama Bears

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Are Mama Bears “domestic terrorists”? Well, according to the DOJ, MSM, and the Left, caring for the well-being and education of your child makes you one! It is just absolutely ridiculous.

Attorney Nicole Hunt is writer and spokesperson at Focus on the Family. Today she discusses the Mama Bear Movement and urges all parents to stay informed, stay together, and educate and recruit others.

Click here for more parenting tips from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are Mama Bears so enraged and engaged? Nicole says: “These are ordinary moms who are motivated with the intense desire to protect their children from aggressive and progressive agendas that are being pushed by special interest groups. These mamas are not afraid and they’re not backing down.”

Did the Mama Bear Movement begin as a result of kids being “schooled” at home during the Pandemic?

Did Mama Bears begin to ask questions about the curriculum used and the library books made available to their kids? Nicole reveals that even CHRISTIAN schools have implemented some of this questionable material!

Did what the Mama Bears learn ignite a fire storm? Did they push back even harder when they were called “domestic terrorists” by the DOJ and the MSM?

Nicole previously worked for the late Congressman Ted Poe. What would Ted have to say about the DOJ calling moms and dads “domestic terrorists”?

Is it our Biblical Calling to protect our children and grandchildren? Nicole references Proverbs 22:6.

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October 4, 2021

Title: Surviving Marriage Living with a Football-Holic
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 16, 2021

Title: UPDATE: Texas Heartbeat Bill
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Texas has been in the national spotlight since passing the historic Texas Heartbeat Bill. Will other states follow suit?

Bruce Hausknecht has more details about the bill and the Biden Administration’s plan to stop it. Click here to read about more pro-life issues from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does the Texas Heartbeat Bill ban all abortions in Texas?

Are there criminal penalties for killing a baby in the womb once an ultrasound can detect the baby’s heartbeat? Bruce discusses who can file a civil suit if a violation is made, where the suit can be filed, what standing must be proved, and if money damages can be awarded.

Has this law already been in the courts several times? What were the rulings each time?

There have been many positive efforts across the nation to ban abortion. Are we getting closer to saving more babies with the ultimate goal of outlawing abortions? Bruce discusses the Dobbs case from Mississippi and how the United States Supreme Court could rule…

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August 10, 2021

Title: See Life 2021
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Robyn Chambers is the Executive Director of Advocacy for Children with Focus on the Family. Today she discusses “See Life 2021” a #loveeveryheartbeat internet initiative.

Click here for all the details.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do we need to use every modern technology at our disposal to save more babies?

Does modern technology help educate? Robyn discusses the “My Choice Network” and how and why social media is actually a vital and helpful tool in spreading the message of hope to women in crisis pregnancy situations.

What is “See Life 2021”? More on this in the next segment.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - See Life 2021
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Robyn Chambers is the Executive Director of Advocacy for Children with Focus on the Family. Today she discusses “See Life 2021” a #loveeveryheartbeat internet initiative.

Click here for all the details.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the purpose behind the See Life 2021 video episode series?

Robyn discusses some of the video themes. You can find these videos on our website homepage.
* July 16th – The Truth About Life
* July 23rd – Inside a PRC
* July 30th – Ultrasounds: The Power of a Picture
* August 6th – Sometimes the Choice is Hard
* August 13th – It’s Going to Be Amazing!
* August 20th – Families Helping Families

We encourage you to make plans to attend the FREE See Life 2021 night in Dallas on August 28, 2021. Click here more details and to register for this FREE event.

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July 28, 2021

Title: Caring for Aging Adult Parents
Topic: Caregiving

Discussed by John Fuller
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

You would be surprised at how many adult children are caregivers for their aging parents and the difficulties they face on a daily basis. Unless, of course, you are one yourself; then you know how hard it is!

John Fuller and his wife care for their aging parents and has some sound, Biblical advice for us today. John is the Vice President of the audio team at Focus on the Family and co-host of the Daily Broadcast.

Click here for more about John Fuller.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Did John and his wife do a lot of planning before becoming caregivers? John discusses the importance of baby-steps and how they managed to move his mother-in-law to their home.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Caring for Aging Adult Parents
Topic: Caregiving

Discussed by John Fuller
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How did becoming a caregiver change John’s life, marriage, and family dynamics?

Were there many – many – family discussions?

WWhat does the Bible say about caring for aging parents? John believes that the commandment “honor your father and mother” doesn’t only apply to young children or teenagers; this commandment is for EVERY person.

Can caring for aging parents be a tool for evangelizing to our friends and community?br />
Is it important to seek guidance from the Word and in prayer before committing to be caregivers?

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July 14, 2021

Title: One Win a Day
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Parents are busy and often feel overwhelmed from all they’re doing while simultaneously feeling guilty for not doing enough. Investing in our kids is one of the most important God-ordained tasks of our lives, so we know we need to do so with intentionality.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting and Youth of Focus on the Family. They have created “One Win a Day” – a great way for parents to connect and reconnect with their kids.

Click here to sign up for FREE.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is investing time in our kids and grandkids one of the most important God-ordained tasks in our lives?

What is the intention of the FREE “One Win a Day” Challenge? Danny also explains a few of the challenges…

Is a reminder to spend time with our kids really necessary? Danny believes it is! We set alarms for all sorts of activities, meetings, events… Why not set a reminder to sit down and spend time with your kids?

What will the “One Win a Day” challenge accomplish?

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June 23, 2021

Title: Good Day! A Biography about Paul Harvey
Topic: Paul Harvey and the Rest of the Story

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Do you remember Paul Harvey and his good stories about America?

Paul Batura is the author of the new biography “Good Day!” about the legendary radio host Paul Harvey. Paul is also the Vice President of Communications at Focus on the Family.

Visit Paul’s blog to order your copy of “Good Day!”

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why was Paul Harvey fatherless?

How did his mother provide for her family after her husband died?

Did Paul Harvey tinker with making amateur AM radios?

Was Paul Harvey fascinated with various radio voices and their styles?

How did Paul’s teacher, Miss Isabelle Ronan, change the trajectory of his life?

Who did Paul meet while working in St. Louis?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Good Day! A Biography about Paul Harvey
Topic: Paul Harvey and the Rest of the Story

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Was Paul Harvey’s wife the brains behind his career?

Could Paul say more with fewer words than anyone in the business?

During his decades of broadcasting, did Paul become known as the spokesperson for old-fashion America?

Did Paul Harvey once tell President Nixon that he was wrong?

Paul Harvey was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the highest award given to a civilian. What was his response to this accomplishment?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Good Day! A Biography about Paul Harvey
Topic: Paul Harvey and the Rest of the Story

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why was Paul Harvey so committed to hard work?

What is the significance of Paul’s trip to Cave Creek, Arizona in March 1971?

One phrase Paul Harvey is known for is: “Any man or woman willing to stay on their toes can reach for the stars only in America.” What does this mean?

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June 21, 2021

Title: Sonography Training Propelling the Pro-Life Movement
Topic: Ultrasounds Help Save Babies

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

When an abortion-minded woman sees a fuzzy ultrasound screen with no distinct features, it’s understandable how she can believe the lie that her child is no more than a “clump of cells.” But when a well-trained ultrasound technician can show her the truth of the life in her womb – her baby’s beating heart and the shape of the child’s head and limbs – it can make all the difference in her decision.

Robyn Chambers, Executive Director of Advocacy for Children at Focus on the Family, says this: “Training these operators should be a high priority for the pro-life movement.”

Click here for more information about how you can help Focus on the Family’s Operation Ultrasound initiative.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is a sonagram the image produced by an ultrasound?

Can the image produced by the ultrasound be a video and/or a picture?

Do mothers often choose life for their babies after they see a clear picture on an ultrasound screen? Robyn admits that she still tears up every time she sees a baby on an ultrasound and hears a baby’s heartbeat. For the mother, she says it is often “life-saving and life-changing”.

If the ultrasound depicts a murky, out-of-focus picture with no distinct features, and the sound is turned off, could the sonographer reinforce the myth that the baby is no more than a “clump of cells”? Do mothers then often choose abortion instead of life?

What can well-trained sonographers and well-trained ultrasound technicians show the mother?

Should training the sonographer become a high priority for the pro-life movement?

How many ultrasound machines has Operation Ultrasound help purchase over the years?

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June 15, 2021

Title: Celebrating Birth Fathers
Topic: Father’s Day

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Birth fathers rarely play a starring role in abortion AND adoption. And this needs to change.

Paul Batura and wife, Julie, are the proud parents of three boys, all of whom they adopted. They are grateful for their boys’ biological parent’s decision of adoption and not abortion.

To read Paul’s op-ed on this topic, click here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do many boyfriends pressure girlfriends to do something they regret for the rest of their lives?

What words of encouragement does Paul have for the birth fathers that supported the adoption of their child?

Has Paul met the biological fathers for his three sons? If they happened upon Paul’s home, what would they see?

Why did Paul’s mother teach him the importance of cultivating a beautiful mind? Why has this stuck with him during his adult life? Paul remembers the Apostle Paul’s words in Philippians 4:8: “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”

What prayer does Paul pray with his boys every night at bedtime?

What words of encouragement does Paul have for women who have found themselves in a crisis pregnancy?

Visit Paul’s blog here.

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June 7, 2021

Title: Bill and Melinda Gates: Marriage Role Models?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

If media accounts are correct, Bill Gates took vacations each year with his ex-girlfriend. Was Melinda Gates okay with that? Did they have a husband-wife agreement that they did not have to be faithful?

Dr. Greg Smalley is a licensed therapist and author. As the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family, Greg develops and oversees initiatives that prepare individuals for marriage and helps couples in marital crises.

Click here for more on this topic from Dr. Smalley.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is marriage infidelity too common today?

How did Billy Graham and Mike Pence deal with meeting with someone of the opposite sex?

Is it possible for a married couple to have friends of the opposite sex? Dr. Smalley says yes, but with some important qualifiers. He also admits, as a married man, that he could never be friends with another woman. Listen as he explains…

What steps should amarried person take to avoid meeting alone with someone of the opposite sex?

Why is it absolutely necessary – and critical – for couples to have this discussion? “It’s easy to become angry, defensive; or dismissive. And trust me, I know all about how these talks can go wrong because I’ve had them more than once in my own marriage,” Greg Smalley recently wrote.

To speak to a licensed counselor at Focus on the Family, call 1.800.A.FAMILY.

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May 14, 2021

Title: May is National Foster Care Month
Topic: Foster Care

Discussed by Helen Richardson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

May is National Foster Care Month. Not everyone is called to be a foster or adoptive parent, but every Christian is called to help in some way.

Helen Richardson is the Foster Care and Adoption Manager at Focus on the Family. As a former foster child herself, she has some great insight on how we can all help in some way.

Click here for more information about foster and adoptive care from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How was Helen personally impacted while in the foster care system?

Are all the children in the foster care system “bad kids”?

How can someone become a foster parent? How can Focus on the Family help get the process started?

What are some of the needs foster kids have? Suitcases or duffle bags (most foster kids use trash bags for their belongings!) Beds, clothing, diapers, books, toys, and gift cards. Meals for foster families. Lots and lots of prayer.

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May 13, 2021

Title: Humans Make the World Go ‘Round
Topic: Climate Change Bologna

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Humans are the globe’s only inhabitants that produce ideas. How can the world survive without humans? Will the end of the world as we know it be caused by too FEW humans?

Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation Studies with Focus on the Family. He debates and lectures extensively on the issues of gender, sexuality, marriage, and parenting at universities and churches around the world.

For more on this topic from Glenn Stanton, click here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is “climate anxiety”? What has caused climate anxiety to skyrocket in recent years? Are parents and school teachers scaring kids into thinking the world is going to end soon?

What are our children being taught about reproduction in the context of too many people? Glenn discusses a recent Vogue article that indicated that having kids is “environmental terrorism.” Are they for real???

For centuries, philosophers and thinkers have predicted the collapse of humanity because of too many humans. Have any other their predictions come to fruition?

Are demographers actually admitting that we are NOT producing enough people to continue humanity?

Have technology, commerce, and industry accomplished more to fix the earth’s problems than Greenpeace and other environmental activists combined? Glenn mentions a great academic resource for more information: Our World in Data from the University of Oxford.

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Humans Make the World Go ‘Round
Topic: Climate Change Bologna

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is the air we breathe causing more worldwide deaths today as compared to past years?

Do more people across the world have access to improved water sources than ever before?

Does humanity produce more than enough food to feed everyone? Is there a problem with distributing food? Glenn actually calls is a “political distribution problem”.

Is the number of people living in extreme poverty decreasing around the globe?

Are more or less people killed due to “climate events” compared to 100 years ago? .

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Humans Make the World Go ‘Round
Topic: Climate Change Bologna

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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April 27, 2021

Title: Protecting our First Amendment Rights
Topic: First Amendment Rights

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Thanks to Conservative appointments by President Donald Trump, the First Amendment is making a comeback at the Supreme Court, evidenced by their recent decision to strike down California’s church limitations during the pandemic.

Bruce Hausknecht is the Judicial Analyst at Focus on the Family. Today he discusses why we must keep fighting the Left.

You can read more on this issue here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Did the Supreme Court finally rule against the State and for churches – granting permission for them to associate within their four walls?

Did our Founding Fathers have spiritual wisdom when placing fences around future governments in their effort to protect our God-given rights? Bruce mentions how the Canadian government is putting literal fences around churches in an attempt to keep people from worshipping during the pandemic. This is outrageous!

Are Secularists that worship g.o.v.e.r.n.m.e.n.t. attempting this same thing in America? Are they also attempting to fine and jail pastors and elders – here in America?

The King James Version, as well as others, explicitly and directly speaks out against homosexual behavior, as well as other abominations. Are Secularists that worship g.o.v.e.r.n.m.e.n.t. labeling such words as hate speech in their desire to ban speaking out against such abominations?

Do Christians need to stand firm and fight the Left? Do too many sit down, not wanting to stir the pot?

What other pro-life/pro-family First Amendment Rights issues are at stake over the next few years?

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March 26, 2021

Title: Being a Godly Woman
Topic: Women’s Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Since 1987, March has been observed as National Women’s History Month. But what does it mean to be a Godly Woman? What does a Godly woman look like?

Erin Smalley is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for the Focus on the Family’s marriage ministry. You can find more from Erin and FOF here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why is it difficult for women to find their identity in our society today? Are women being bombarded with opinions and even lies?

Are women vital to society?

Girls as young as 4 years old are feeling the pressure of needing to be “beautiful” in order to fit into society. What makes a girl/woman beautiful, important, and valuable? Erin uses the analogy of a fake diamond to explain what beauty means.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Being a Godly Woman
Topic: Women’s Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should women today strive to be a Proverbs 31 woman? What does a Godly woman look like?

What does it mean to be a Godly woman? Erin reminds us all, not just women, that it is just as important to take care of yourself as it is to take care of others. It’s not selfish. She says: “Giving from a place of emptiness is never going to go well.”

How should men treat women?

Click here to order your copy of Erin’s book: “10 Things a Husband Needs from his Wife.”

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Title: Love Over Condemnation
Topic: Forgiveness

Discussed by George Stahnke
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Everyone messes up. We all sin. Sometimes those sins are public; some are kept private and no one every knows.

George Stahnke is a counselor with Focus on the Family. Today he discusses the importance of love over condemnation. Click here if you would like to talk to a licensed counselor for free. Or call 1.800.AFAMILY

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do Christians often shoot the wounded?

Are the halls and pews of the freshly painted church so white that only the totally sanctified are allowed within?

How are Christians to treat the fallen, wounded, and hurting? Simple answer: Treat them the way Jesus would. George uses the story of the woman at the well as a perfect example.

Should those who have fallen take time to heal and focus on their relationship with the Lord before jumping back in to serve others?

We are all sinners in need of a Savior. Is this the message we should be spreading instead of pointing fingers? George shares a story about his own daughter.

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March 15, 2021

Title: The Womb has a Window
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The Valentine’s Day Freeze of 2021 was devastating to many Texans, including many pregnant women and their babies.

Robyn Chambers discusses how the Hope Women’s Center in McKinney, Texas, persevered through the storm and broken pipes to help as many women as they could. Robyn is the Executive Director for the Be A Voice initiative with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Did burst pipes and flooding water destroy two ultrasound machines at the Hope Women’s Center in McKinney, Texas?

What other damage did the Hope Women’s Center in McKinney, Texas, suffer?

Do ultrasound machines literally allow women to see within their wombs?

Do ultrasound machines save babies’ lives?

How did God provide for the Hope Women’s Center?

Does every pro-life women’s center have an ultrasound machine?

Do many pro-life women’s center WANT an ultrasound machine but cannot afford one?

Click here for more information on how you can help Option Ultrasound.

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March 5, 2021

Title: Stable Families Help Kids in Lockdown
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

It’s no secret that COVID-19 has wreaked havoc on millions of people in numerous ways since the start of the pandemic. One of those ways is mental health, especially in school-aged children and teens who have been isolated from their school and peers. Spikes in youth suicides have been predicted due to the pandemic. But is that really the case?

Glenn Stanton has some answers for us today. Glenn is the Director for Global Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family.

Click here to read Glenn’s article on this issue.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are millions of Americans suffering in numerous ways since the start of the pandemic?

Was it feared that youth suicide rates would skyrocket?

What does the preliminary data reveal?

Why did teens fare relatively well during the quarantine?

Are youth reporting that they are spending more time with parents and siblings?

How important are family units?

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February 26, 2021

Title: Why Are You Pro-Life?
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Oftentimes, we look to God’s Word for answers and for clarity in the things we believe.

Today, Robyn Chambers shares how Psalm 139 offers an intimate and touching glimpse into the loving care God has for each one of the pre-born. Robyn is the Executive Director for the Be A Voice Campaign with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should Christians seek answers from the Bible?

How does Psalm 139 show us how to care for the pre-born?

Why is Robyn pro-life?

What is YOUR pro-life story? Robyn would love to hear from you. Email Robyn at robynchambers@focusonthefamily.com

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December 7, 2020

Title: Part 2 of 3 - Back to School – For Parents
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are many parents across the nation shocked to realize how highly sexualized curriculum has become, especially at younger and younger ages? Jeff reveals how children are being taught in SOCIAL STUDIES about gender identification!

Do public school counselors advise children/teens that abortion or cross-sex hormones are the right choice, without ever talking to a child’s parent? YES! This is actually happening. Jeff shares how a school in Minnesota helped a teenage boy obtain hormones to transition into a female!

How many schools across the nation are currently using the New York Times’ “1619 Project” as factual curriculum?

NOTE: We aired an interview with Professor Peter Wood on December 4 entitled “Why Do Millennials Hate America?” Click here and search the archives under the topic “Millennials” to listen.

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Back to School – For Parents
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

In this final segment, Jeff discusses some of the contents from his FREE online book. They have designed this excellent resource to be read in sections.
Educational authority
Protecting your child in the classroom
Protecting your child in school health rooms, clinics, and counseling offices
Protecting your child in school locker rooms and bathrooms
Protecting your child on sports teams
Protecting your child during lunchtime, free-time, or in student-run clubs
Protecting your child on school internet, Wi-Fi, and electronic devices
Protecting your child in school libraries and on school databases
Protecting your child by exercising school choice

For more from Jeff Johnston, click here.

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November 17, 2020

Title: Face Mask Dress Codes: I Love Jesus BANNED!
Topic: Christian Discrimination in Public Schools

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Face masks have become an unfortunate part of the majority of public schools across America. Should the designs or phrases on face masks be subject to the same dress code as t-shirts and other clothing items?

Bruce Hausknecht is the Judicial Analyst at Focus on the Family. Today, he offers parents advice on how to proactively protect their children’s First Amendment Rights while attending a public school.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is it common across America for public school officials to allow the Black Lives Matter T-shirts and face masks while not allowing masks with Christian or patriotic sayings?

Do our children and grandchildren have the First Amendment Right to display a religious and/or patriotic saying on their outer clothing?

Has the American society become increasingly hostile to Christians and Conservatives in recent years?

Side Bar: Are Supreme Court Justices permitted to speak in public about past cases? There is some confusion about this, so listen closely…

What rights do our children and grandchildren have? What should we do if we believe their rights have been violated?

What conversations should we have with our kids and grandkids about their constitutional rights while attending public schools?

Click here for more public policy information from Focus on the Family.

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November 12, 2020

Title: America Divided
Topic: America Divided

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Abraham Lincoln once said: “Sir, my concern is not whether God is on our side; my greatest concern is to be on God's side, for God is always right.” But, who’s side is God on?

America is divided. How should Christians respond?

Paul Batura is the Vice President with Focus on the Family. Today he offers hope and encouragement in a fallen world.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is America more divided now than at any other time in our history?

Should Christians put their hope in our governing leaders?

What should Christians be doing during this interim time of waiting for the true election results?

When the outcome of the Presidential Election is determined, how should Christ-followers react?

Why should Christians be in constant prayer? Should this include both individual and corporate prayer?

NNo matter what, as Christ-followers do we have hope and joy in Jesus Christ?

For more about Paul Batura, click here.

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November 11, 2020

Title: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Danny Huerta has a passion for equipping parents and grandparents to discipline and MENTOR the next generation. Danny is the Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family.

Today, Danny discusses his newest book “7 Traits of Effective Parenting” Click here to order your copy.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do we all need help in raising the next generation?

Must we be intentional in how we teach our children and grandchildren to love the Lord?

Danny says parents and grandparents must remember that we are “building contributors rather than consumers in God’s Kingdom Story.” I love that!

Do parents need a ton of grace and forgiveness? Danny shares a GREAT story about one of his kids…

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - 7 Traits of Effective Parenting
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are literal and metaphorical fences and boundaries necessary? Will boundaries change over time as the children grow and mature?

How important is showing gratitude toward our children and others? Danny recalls a great lesson he learned a long time ago as a teenager…

Can there be a lasting, nurturing relationship without love?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - 7 Traits of Effective Parenting
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the theme of Danny’s newest “7 Traits of Effective Parenting”?

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November 5, 2020

Title: Being a Conservative Christian is HARD!
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Brittany Raymer
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Why is it so hard to be a Conservative Christian in today’s society? Brittany Raymer, with Focus on the Family, encourages us to not to back down or cower when faced with brown-shirt style intimidating tactics to push Conservative, Christian values out of our society.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does the MSM and Hollywood have a definition for womanhood that is contrary to the qualities of a Conservative Christian woman?

The Girl Scouts initially congratulated Amy Coney Barrett on becoming the 5th woman appointed to the Supreme Court. Why did the Girl Scouts quickly delete their congratulations?

Are many “liberated females” becoming more vocal, demanding adherence to their secular beliefs? Is abortion one of their main issues?

Are there more or less women today who believe in the sanctity of life, marriage, family, and faith?

Do we all have a choice on how to live our lives today? Brittany says: “Be aware and be well informed… And go to church!”

Do we, as Christians, need to be careful about what we watch and listen to?

You can find more from Focus on the Family and The Daily Citizen here.

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Title: Can Christians NOT Believe in the Bible?
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

FACT: Only 2% of Christian millennials believe in a Biblical worldview. Click here for the statistics from the Cultural Research Center.

Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation at Focus on the Family. Today he discusses the importance of having an eternity impacting conversation with millennials about matters of faith and the Bible.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who are millennials?

Will millennials’ lack of Biblical knowledge about sin and creation affect their eternity?

What were some of the questions asked for this recent survey?

The majority of students in public school are now taught evolution as “fact”. Does this make them question the Creation of God? Glenn Stanton believes this is one of the most challenging topics parents face. He offers some helpful information in how to respond…

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Can Christians NOT Believe in the Bible?
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What happens to a person’s faith if/when they deny the inherent Word of God?

Can you be a Christian and not believe in the Bible?

Do families who have a bible study together at least once a week, stay stronger in their faith?

For more on issues of faith from Focus on the Family, click here.

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October 30, 2020

Title: Rock Bottom is NOT Too Far from God
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Is anyone too far gone for God to reach? Absolutely NOT! We are ALL imperfect human beings in need of a Savior. And no matter what a person has done, God STILL loves them and will welcome them home with open arms.

Geremy Keeton is the Director for Counseling at Focus on the Family. More on this and other issues can be found here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

In this segment, Geremy tells the story of Jacqueline and her brother. Their story is not uncommon. Can you relate – or know someone who is struggling?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Rock Bottom is NOT Too Far from God
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How far is “rock bottom”? Is rock bottom different for every person? Geremy says this: “God gives us a level of freedom of choice. He doesn’t wave a magic wand and take things away. He wants to transform us.”

Is God too far away from anyone?

Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”

John 10:10 “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.”

Geremy says this: “There is another way on the other side of these dark places.”

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Rock Bottom is NOT Too Far from God
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

In this segment, Geremy urges people to call the FREE Focus on the Family hotline for help. People can talk to a licensed counselor for FREE and be connected with counselors in their area.

Focus on the Family Hotline: 1-800-A-FAMILY 6:00 AM-8:00 PM (MT) Monday-Friday

Website Help Information here.

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October 23, 2020

Title: Can Christians NOT Believe in the Bible?
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Can Christians NOT Believe in the Bible?
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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October 20, 2020

Title: Rock Bottom is NOT Too Far from God
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Rock Bottom is NOT Too Far from God
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Rock Bottom is NOT Too Far from God
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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October 5, 2020

Title: Can Christians NOT Believe in the Bible?
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Can Christians NOT Believe in the Bible?
Topic: Christian Worldview

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 14, 2020

Title: Togetherness Stressing Marriages
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

When you said your vows, you probably did not turn to each other and say: If we are locked up together for months at a time, we will fall to our knees daily, lock hands, and pray for more patience and loving kindness towards each other.

Erin Smalley serves as the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for Focus on the Family’s Marriage Ministry.

For more marriage help from Focus on the Family, click here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Can the husband-wife relationship be strained, almost to the breaking point, because of the real co-habitation brought about because of the Coronavirus quarantine?

Are men and women wired differently?

How can husbands and wives help each other navigate this difficult time? Erin Smalley suggests: “Just ask them what they need!” Open communication is key.

How can we all channel out the negativity we see and hear every day? Erin has some great suggestions. Listen close!

How important is it for couples to pray together each day? FACT: Couples who pray together have a less than 1% divorce rate. Pray with your spouse!

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September 9, 2020

Title: 7 Traits of Effective Parenting
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - 7 Traits of Effective Parenting
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - 7 Traits of Effective Parenting
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the theme of Danny’s newest “7 Traits of Effective Parenting”?

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September 2, 2020

Title: When Parents and Grandparents Disagree
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

According to a recent survey by MOTT, parents and grandparents disagree on a myriad of issues from discipline to screen time from snacks to safety. Can you relate? I know I can!

Paul Batura is the VP of Communications at Focus on the Family. He is the author of “Good Day: The Paul Harvey Story”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do parents and grandparents have disagreements on how to raise the kids/grandkids?

What are the majority of disagreements over?

Off Topic (but important!): Do children often imitate behavior and actions that they see on TV and in movies?

Paul’s own father lived with him and his wife for a while. Did they have disagreements over the children? What were some positive and negative ways they approached the disagreements?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - When Parents and Grandparents Disagree
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should grandparents learn to bite their tongues over some issues?

How important is a healthy extended family unit?

What is Paul’s advice to parents and grandparents?

For more on this poll by MOTT, click here.

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June 5, 2020

Title: Polygamy in Utah: Pandora’s Box is Opened
Topic: Polygamy in America

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed may be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Many believed it would just be a matter of time. Same-sex marriage has been legalized across the nation and other alternative relational forms such as polyamory and unmarried cohabitation have become more normalized.

Amidst this, Utah Governor Gary Herbert decriminalized polygamy in his state by signing Senate Bill 102 into law on March 28th to very little fanfare. It went into effect May 12, 2020.

Author Glenn Stanton is a Family Formation Expert with Focus on the Family. Today, Glenn discusses the normalization of polygamy in America.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is polygamy? Is it simply just one man married to more than one woman – or is there more to it?

Are there many countries around the world that allow polygamy today?

Why did the Mormon church deem polygamy contrary to church doctrine in October 1890?

Have states always restricted polygamy in their state Constitutions, punishable with criminal offenses?

Did Utah “always” enforce this law?

Does the new Utah law permit polygamy? Is it legal now or just less of a penalty?

Will polygamy eventually expand to the rest of the nation?

Could the Mormon church split over this decision in Utah?

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June 1, 2020

Title: What Chores Should Your Kids Be Doing?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 8, 2020

Title: Habits to Continue – and Give UP – after the Quarantine
Topic: Post Coronavirus

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

With many states reopening, it’s time to start shifting our mindset and conversations.

Erin Smalley has some advice to share with couples as they transition back into work and other life activities. Erin serves as the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

It is going to be difficult for many to return to work/school/church after this is all “over”. What habits have been created during quarantine that are important to maintain?

How long does it take to form/break a habit?

What habits have been created during quarantine that are important to NOT maintain? How do we make sure the bad habits don’t creep back into our daily routine?

Should couples – and families – commit to less screen time (apart from work and school)?

For FREE parenting/family/marital advice, call 1.800.A.FAMILY or click here for more from Erin Smalley and her husband Greg.

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April 28, 2020

Title: Transitioning into Post-Quarantine Life
Topic: Post Coronavirus

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Are we living a new “normal”? Will things ever go back to the way they once were?

Parenting author and expert Danny Huerta has some advice to share with parents as they begin to have conversations with their kids/teens about what a new normal looks like.

“This is going to be a gradual process that’s probably different in every area of the country, but we can never forget how important it is to communicate clearly and effectively with our kids,” he said.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the mission of Focus on the Family?

How has FOF expanded their mission during the Coronavirus quarantine?

Has FOF seen an uptick in calls about depression, anxiety, and suicide? NOTE: More on this in the second segment today.

When life goes back to “normal”, what will happen to all these new resources?

Are kids/teens/adults really impacted for eternity because of FOF? Danny reveals how, for the past ten years, they have printed a special salvation issue of the Clubhouse Magazine for the month of April. This year, 46 kids accepted Jesus as their Savior because of the magazine. Over those ten years, over 700 have! Praise the Lord!

Click here to sign up for the FREE Focus on the Family streaming platform, which is a great one-stop resource that has something for everyone – from toddlers to senior adults!

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Transitioning into Post-Quarantine Life
Topic: Post Coronavirus

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why does Danny encourage everyone (not just adults who are working from home) to get dressed every day? Does this actually help with mental health issues?

How can too much technology and too much work affect our mental health? Danny has some great suggestions for people to shake off the depression, anxiety, and stress.

NOTE: Please do not hesitate to call Focus on the Family if you feel stressed, anxious, or worried. They are there to help you! The toll-free number is 1-800-A-FAMILY.

How will the transition back to “normal” affect children? Should parents take baby steps back to work? Should spouses be careful about spending too much time apart? Is communication key? Is balance just as important?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Transitioning into Post-Quarantine Life
Topic: Post Coronavirus

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

As we transition back to “normal life”, should we all pray about what will receive our time and effort?

Danny uses the word “invitation” to explain how he and his family approach this. “Look at the invitations that are important to your soul,” he says.

Remember: Focus on the Family is here for you 24/7. Don’t hesitate to call 1.800.A.FAMILY or click here for more information and help.

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April 1, 2020

Title: Keeping Your Marriage Strong During the Coronavirus
Topic: Coronavirus

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

How is your marriage holding up during the Coronavirus quarantine? All couples struggle at times and being stuck in a house (probably with children!) can test even the best marriage.

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage with Focus on the Family. Today he offers some practical advice every couple should listen to.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can “forced togetherness” impact marriages and even our relationships with our children?

Even Greg’s patience has been tested! Listen as he shares a funny story about his daughter accusing him of being a “humus thief” while he was on a live Zoom conference call!

Is it important to schedule time alone?

Why should everyone, including children, be willing to adjust expectations?

How can couples “argue differently”? Greg believes that it is important to determine what is big and what is little…and let the little stuff go.

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March 19, 2020

Title: Coronavirus: Time to Focus on Your Family
Topic: Coronavirus

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Due to “social distancing” from the Coronavirus, many families are finding themselves in unique situations that they’ve never had to deal with. While this can bring on many challenges, Focus on the Family wants to help alleviate as many of those challenges for you as possible and be a valuable resource for you and your family during this time.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family. More helpful tips and information can be found here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should we not only talk to children and teens, but older adults as well who may be confused?

Should we also keep communication open and flowing with our spouse?

How much should parents tell their kids/teens about what is going on?

Danny has some great suggestions for activities you can do with your family – both at home and outdoors (while still social distancing from others)…

For more tips and suggestions, download the “Conversation Starter App” by Focus on the Family available for iPhone and Android.

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February 6, 2020

Title: New Teen Online Danger: The Outlet Challenge
Topic: Outlet Challenge

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Kids being ‘double-dog dared’ to try the “Outlet Challenge". As if the world wasn’t dangerous enough, there is a new danger awaiting teens who are online using social media. What are your kids worth? Are they worth the time to get informed and then to protect them from trying this new fad?

Danny Huerta, a family expert with Focus on the Family, describes the newest “fad” on TikTok: The Outlet Challenge.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

We all know that social media is dangerous. But how can teens be in danger when they are offline?

For parents that don’t know… What is TikTok? Why is it so bad?

What is the “Outlet Challenge”? Has this challenge resulted in arrests and damaged property?

How can parents warn and protect their children/teens from this dangerous “game”?

Do teens sometimes forget their actions have consequences? Danny says: “Be an intentional parent and have necessary conversations with your kids!” Your kids will thank you later for being an “uncool parent”!

Click here for more help from Focus on the Family.

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January 15, 2020

Title: California Trend: This One is Positive!
Topic: Positive Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Trends in California usually gravitate across the country. Those trends are normally not positive. Danny Huerta, Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family, discusses a trend from California that is definitely worth spreading!

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why did one county in California start a new trend eight years ago: Positive Parenting Awareness Month?

What does “positive parenting” mean to Focus on the Family? Danny suggests we also have a “Positive Marriage Awareness Month”. Listen to how they go hand-in-hand…

Should parents have realistic expectations on our children? How is this achieved?

Is our tone of voice important when speaking with children (and others)?

What are the “7 Traits of Effective Parenting”? (Click on the link below to learn more about this.)

Is it possible to remain positive during the teenage years? How does parenting teens differ from parenting children? Danny offers some great information!

Click here for FREE resources from Focus on the Family.

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January 10, 2020

Title: Surviving “Divorce Day”
Topic: Divorce

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Today, Erin Smalley discusses “Divorce Day” – the first Monday after Christmas when too many couples rush to divorce attorneys. This sounds like a made-up thing, but it is actually a sad reality for many families.

Erin serves as the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do many couples work hard to simply make it through Christmas together for the kid’s sake?

How does the divorce rate of Evangelical Christians compare to those outside the church? Erin explains that this is a tricky question to answer…

How can males improve their marriage?

What can couples do if they are in a crisis marriage? Erin urges couples to first talk to each other! Then get counseling. Listen for more advice…

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Surviving “Divorce Day”
Topic: Divorce

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are divorces expensive – both financially and emotionally?

Does divorce often create more problems?

Click here or call 1-800-A-FAMILY for more information about Focus on the Family’s marriage retreats and for free advice from a counselor.

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December 27, 2019

Title: Long Live Gender Reveal Parties!
Topic: Crazy Left-Wing Ideas

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

You’ve seen them. The balloons filled with pink or blue confetti. The powder bombs. The cake filled with either blue or pink frosting. “Gender Reveals” have become a fascinating new phenomenon of this generation.

Glenn Stanton, the Director of Global Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family, has some surprising information from scholar Florence Pasche Guignard from the University of Toronto concerning this fun and happy tradition. Glenn also served for many years in the Bush Administration as a consultant on increasing fatherhood involvement in the Head Start program.

You can read Glenn’s article on this topic here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is gender assigned when mom eats pink cake or blue cake?

Glenn Stanton recently Googled “gender reveal party supplies”. What did he discover?

Are Gender Reveal Parties dangerous? Glenn reveals that it actually is!! Someone died once! Yes – it really happened!

Do the moms and dads who organize gender reveal parties raise their fists, proclaiming, “You bet we’re sex-binary. What of it?”

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November 27, 2019

Title: Developing a Thankful Heart
Topic: Thanksgiving

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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October 22, 2019

Title: Ellen DeGeneres and President George Bush
Topic: Be Kind. Always.

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Have you heard about the hoopla surrounding Ellen DeGeneres and President George Bush? Quick background: They sat together at a football game and the Left went crazy mad!

Glenn Stanton says this is not a Leftist issue or a Christian issue. It is an “everyone issue”. Glenn is the Director of Family Formations at Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Can we all learn from stories centered around non-believers, outcasts from Church, and the Synagogue?

King David wasn’t perfect. Moses was a killer. Noah was a drunk. Paul dedicated to his life to persecuting Christians. Did God change each of these men? Is he still changing the hearts of men and women today?

Glen says this: “The only people that really belong in God’s Kingdom are those that need God’s help. And that is everybody.”

Should parents be willing to admit to their kids when they mess up?

Why did the Left get so crazy mad about Ellen and George being friends? Were Christians upset over the situation?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Ellen DeGeneres and President George Bush
Topic: Be Kind. Always.

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What was Ellen’s response to those who chastised her?

Is it really possible for us to be kind to everyone – no matter our beliefs?

Remember what Paul said: “As much as it is possible, be at peace with all people.”

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August 20, 2019

Title: Say Goodbye to Back to School Stress
Topic: Back To School Information

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

According to the New York Times, the back to school season is the most stressful time of the year for most parents – not just their kids.

Erin Smalley is a Clinical Psychologist, mom of four, and the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for Focus on the Family. Erin has some encouragement and advice for parents today…

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is the back to school season more stressful than Christmas?

How can we avoid being overwhelmed? Erin Smalley says it’s okay to ask for help! We all need help from time to time, so don’t be shy about asking for it!

How can parents take positive action to better cope with our stress? How do we keep our stress from boiling over onto our kids and our spouses?

What is the most stressful hour of the weekday for parents? What has helped Erin and her family during this hour?

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July 30, 2019

Title: The Myth of the Dying Church
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. Today, Glenn will be discussing the church, the past, and the future.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Bottom Line: Is the church dying? Glenn discusses how recent research suggests a “yes and no” answer…

Is American becoming more secular and less Christian?

We hear so much about the growth of the so-called “nones,” those who say they no longer identify with any institutional church. Do these “nones” represent a growing population of new unbelievers?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - The Myth of the Dying Church
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are millennials leaving the church or coming back?

Do Christians need to stop talking about issues like gay marriage and abortion in the pulpit? Or are the churches that preach the Biblical truth showing growth?

What is happening with the Church around the world?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - The Myth of the Dying Church
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Matthew 28:19-20

Glenn Stanton firmly refutes the statement that the church is dying. Why?

Is there hope for parents today who are working hard to make sure their kids grow up with a vibrant, meaningful religious faith? Glenn has four very important suggestions that could really help you! Listen in…

You can order a copy of Glenn Stanton’s book here.

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July 23, 2019

Title: When You Don’t Like Your Adult Child’s Spouse
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Rob Jackson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Your son/daughter brings home a person they want to spend the rest of their life. The problem: you don’t like the person they’ve chosen! What do you do?

Rob Jackson is a counselor at Focus on the Family. He offers some advice. And guess what? Spoiler Alert: Rob Jackson is not a perfect person!

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why did Rob Jackson approach this subject through Focus on the Family?

Do the parents or the children (adult couple) usually approach Rob Jackson with this issue?

Is this an issue that only affects non-believers?

Why does Rob suggest the parents offer the olive branch?

What advice does the Bible offer?

Do people involved need to stick it out for the long-haul?

To speak with a counselor at Focus on the Family call 1.800.FAMILY or click here.

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June 12, 2019

Title: Does Your Family Need a Pet?
Topic: Pet Appreciation Week

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

It’s Pet Appreciation Week! Today, Paul Batura, with Focus on the Family, asks this question: Does your family need a pet?

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do many American families have pets?

Do some states have more pets than others?

Do many families argue over this issue?

Paul shares a personal experience from his childhood…

Are there life-lessons to be learned by having a pet as a child?

Do pets help children mature in many ways?

Are pets a part of God’s perfect plan?

You can read more from Paul Batura here.

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May 30, 2019

Title: How Bad is The Equality Act?
Topic: The Equality Act

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

The ramifications of passing The Equality Act would reach as far and wide as public education, housing, federal assistance programs, Medicare and Medicaid, employment, public facilities, and would change female-segregated sports forever. It’s even an abortion bill!

Bruce Hausknecht explains more of the details of The Equality Act today. Bruce is a Public Policy Analyst with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Under The Equality Act, could the government take a son or daughter away from their parents?

Under The Equality Act, would doctors be forced to do certain surgeries and prescribe certain medication against their conscience?

Under The Equality Act, would churches be forced to hire trans and gay people who would work with children?

Under The Equality Act, would faith-based adoption and foster care agencies be forced to place with LGBTQ adults or be forced to close?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - How Bad is The Equality Act?
Topic: The Equality Act

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Under The Equality Act, would men be allowed in women’s rest rooms, locker rooms, and other private spaces?

Under The Equality Act, would men and boys would be allowed to compete in segregated female sporting events?

Under The Equality Act, would abortion remain legal even if the Supreme Court strikes down Roe v. Wade?

The House has passed The Equality Act. What “could” happen in the Senate?

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May 29, 2019

Title: The Devil is Working Overtime
Topic: Abortion

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The devil is working overtime. He is using everyone and everything possible to kill more babies every day – every minute – every second.

Paul Batura is the vice President of Ministry Communications with Focus on the Family. He urges everyone to do something today – anything – to save more babies.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How is the devil working overtime to kill babies in America?

Why is it time to reinvigorate believers in America?

Are people (specifically pro-choice people) beginning to see the light regarding the horrendous practice of abortion?

What is the “Declaration for Life”? Do petitions help change people’s minds?

On Saturday, May 4, 2019, FOF and others will gather in Times Square in New York City. Listen as Paul Batura reveals what awesome thing they will be doing using the Jumbotron!

What is the program “Option Ultrasound”?

Click here to sign the “Declaration for Life” petition from Focus on the Family. Please prayerfully consider adding a donation to FOF after you sign the petition. Any amount is welcome.

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May 20, 2019

Title: Four Reasons “Gender Theory” Is Ridiculous
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Gender dysphoria is defined (paraphrased) as a psychological condition marked by significant emotional distress and impairment in life functioning, caused by lack of congruence between gender identity and biological sex consigned at the union of a human sperm cell and a human egg.

Guest Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why is “Gender Theory” a ridiculous, made-up idea?

Is Gender Theory being taught at college campuses across the nation, including Christian colleges and universities?

Can a girl like football, getting dirty, and playing with guns? Can a boy like to babysit and cook and bake cookies? Glenn uses Sarah Palin as an example of a woman/mother who loves children and loves to cook, but also loves to hunt and can field dress a moose!

Are there only two points on the spectrum: male / female?

Male and female are not natural unless you’re transgender. Is this hypocritical?

Is there a “sexless” specimen? Is being androgynous natural?

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May 16, 2019

Title: The Devil is Working Overtime
Topic: Abortion

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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April 10, 2019

Title: Ultrasound: LIVE in Times Square!
Topic: Ultrasounds Help Save Babies

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

On Saturday, May 4, Focus on the Family will be hosting “Alive from New York” in Times Square. During the event, a doctor will perform a live 4D ultrasound on the Big Screen.

Robyn Chambers is the Director of the Sanctity of Human Life at Focus on the Family. She is also part of FOTF’s “Be a Voice” campaign. You can learn more about this event here.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why is FOF hosting this LIVE event in Times Square? Who’s idea was it?

What is the purpose of the event? Robyn says this: “We’re not there to pick a fight. We’re not there to be political. We’re there to celebrate the life of that woman and her unborn child.”

When an expectant mother who is contemplating abortion sees the first ultrasound of her baby, do most choose life?

How can people register to watch/participate via livestream?

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March 18, 2019

Title: Children Under Attack
Topic: Child Abuse

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Every two minutes, an American is sexually assaulted. And every eight minutes, that victim is a child. Meanwhile, only six out of every one thousand perpetrators will end up in prison.

Geremy Keeton, Director of Counseling at Focus on the Family, offers more grim details today…

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are children across America under attack?

What do parents need to know about grooming and sexual abuse?

We have heard a lot about sexual abuse in churches. In reality, sexual abuse occurs more often in public schools! Listen as Geremy discusses other places this can occur and how parents can take a proactive approach…

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Children Under Attack
Topic: Child Abuse

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Recently HBO aired a documentary on Michael Jackson in "Leaving Neverland" that explores the allegations of sexual abuse from two men who stayed there as boys. The immediate reaction by most parents watching was shock: “Who would ever leave a child alone with an adult they didn’t know?”

Should parents speak up if they suspect their child (or another child) has been sexually abused? Why are so many afraid to say anything?

Sleepovers: Good or Bad?

Does counseling help those who have been sexually abused?

Click here for an age-appropriate FREE download to help you discuss sexuality and sexual abuse with your child/teenager. You can also find FREE counseling help on their website.

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March 1, 2019

Title: The Devil is Working Overtime
Topic: Abortion

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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February 19, 2019

Title: The Devil is Working Overtime
Topic: Abortion

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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February 11, 2019

Title: The NY Abortion Law is Simply Not Necessary
Topic: Abortion

Discussed by Brittany Raymer
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The baby's heart starts to beat at around 6 weeks. Published scientific literature shows that unborn babies can experience pain around 20 weeks. Most doctors define the age of viability at about 24 weeks.

Yet the State of New York passed a state law allowing the mother and the abortionist to kill the baby up until the moment of live birth.

Brittany Raymer is the Life Issues Analyst at Focus on the Family. She recently wrote: “Despite the obviously callous nature of this bill, the passing of this horrific piece of legislation isn’t a surprise. Radical elements in New York politics have wanted to pass this measure for years.”

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are there any sane, pro-life office holders in the New York State Legislature?

Is this evil disrespect for life spreading to other states?

If Democrats win control of the US Senate and the Presidency in 2020, will the killing of babies up to the moment of live birth be one of their top priorities?

What can pro-lifers do to help save more babies?

Now is the time to become involved. Don’t wait until it is too late. Click here to help Focus on the Family’s “Operation Ultrasound” save more babies.

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February 1, 2019

Title: What Makes a Good Man?
Topic: What Makes a Good Man?

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Gillette has been making headlines lately with their ad that addressed toxic masculinity and challenged men to "be the best they can be." But what makes a good man?

Glenn Stanton is the Director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. Today he will be discussing a recent article about this issue.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does the Gillette offer a good message?

Is masculinity under attack?

Should men stand up for anyone who is weaker and being taken advantage of?

Is it harmful for men to be tough? Is it harmful to teach your son not to cry? Is it harmful to teach your son to stand up to bullies?

What good traits should a parent/grandparent teach their sons and grandsons?

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Title: The NY Abortion Law is Simply Not Necessary
Topic: Abortion

Discussed by Brittany Raymer
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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January 11, 2019

Title: March for Life: January 18, 2019
Topic: March for Life

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Robyn Chambers is the Director of Sanctity of Human Life at Focus on the Family. She is also part of FOTF’s “Be a Voice” campaign.

Today, Robyn will be discussing the amazing medical advances that are helping save more babies every day. She will also give information about the upcoming March for Life to be held on Friday, January 18th in Washington, DC.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Question for YOU, the listener: Will the next baby saved be yours? Or your grandbaby?

Is science on the side of the pro-life movement?

Do most pro-choice people and organizations, such as Planned Parenthood, want to silence pro-lifers? Robyn reminds us about the time when some were trying to force pro-life pregnancy centers to place abortion information in their facilities. What happened with that?

Are medical and technological advancements affirming the uniqueness of the baby from the moment of conception?

Are we winning the pro-life battle in America?

If you would like to attend the March for Life in Washington, DC, Google: “March for Life” for more information. You can also access the videos that Robyn Chambers discussed during the interview today.

If you cannot travel to WDC, Austin is hosting a “Rally for Life” on January 26 (the Saturday AFTER the March for Life). Google: “Rally for Life Austin, Texas” for more details.

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January 10, 2019

Title: March for Life: January 18, 2019
Topic: March for Life

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 10, 2018

Title: How to Have a Fantastic Christmas
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - How to Have a Fantastic Christmas
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 28, 2018

Title: Trump and Planned Parenthood
Topic: Trump and Planned Parenthood

Discussed by Brittany Raymer
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

The nation’s leading cause of death is abortion.

With a new President at Planned Parenthood, will things get better or worse for American women and their unborn children?

Brittany Raymer is a Life Issues Analyst with Focus on the Family. She will be discussing the three areas that the new Planned Parenthood President, Leana Wen, wants to focus on.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Will the new President of Planned Parenthood take this giant network of baby killers in a new and different direction? Will this be good or bad for women, men, and their unborn children?

Listen as Brittany Raymer explains

FACT: Roughly 80% of abortions performed at Planned Parenthood are surgical. How is this done?

Has Leana Wen expressed a desire to lobby more in states that have banned some abortion practices?

Is Planned Parenthood’s goal to make abortion “normal”?

Is there hope and healing for the nearly 1 in 4 women who have had an abortion in America?

Does the sonogram/ultrasound save thousands of babies every year?

Do pro-life crisis pregnancy centers help save babies?

Brittany closes the segment with some encouraging words for us. Keep praying and believing we can win this war.

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November 19, 2018

Title: True Masculinity
Topic: Heroes

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

On November 7, a gunman killed twelve people at a California country music bar. And in the midst of the chaos and the mayhem, several men stepped up heroically. In a world that often labels masculinity toxic, this reflection of true masculinity should be lauded.

Glenn Stanton, with Focus on the Family, discusses this true display of manhood and how ordinary men often reflect good for their communities.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can men know if they will ever be a hero?

Are men too often ridiculed for being polite and “manly”?

What makes someone step up and put their life on the line?

Listen as Glenn Stanton reveals more information about the twelve men who stepped up to protect strangers in a bar…

Were any women saving others from harm during this attack? Although there aren’t reports of women jumping in harm’s way, Glenn does mention the heroic acts of the women after the attack.

How can parents teach their children, especially their sons, about true masculinity?

You can read Glenn Stanton’s article on this topic here.

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November 6, 2018

Title: Does Prayer Make a Difference?
Topic: Power of Prayer

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Today’s segment with Geremy Keeton focuses on the “what if my child strays” question many (if not all) parents have regarding their children. Geremy is the Director of Counseling with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does prayer really make a difference?

Should parents be praying for their children every day?

What should parents NOT do when their child strays from their faith?

Do parents need someone to “vent” to so they don’t take their frustration out on their kids?

Should we pray to be like the father of the prodigal son?

Why is it important for us to help and support our friends whose children have strayed from their faith?

Geremy Keeton says this: “Make the aroma of your faith, the steadiness it gives you, attractive to your child.”

Call 1.800.A.FAMILY for more information regarding this and other family issues.

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October 29, 2018

Title: A Parent’s Guide to Technology
Topic: Kids and Technology

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Do you really know what your kids are looking at and downloading on their cell phones and computers?

Focus on the Family Counselor and Vice President of Parenting Danny Huerta says this: "Technology by itself isn't a good or bad thing…Today's technology can enhance our lives or cause serious damage. In order to keep kids safe, it's important for parents to recognize how a mobile device can affect a child's brain."

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are tablets, phones, and other devices enabling kids to see what they should not be seeing?

How many hours per day do kids spend on average using some sort of device (not for school work)?

Do parents want their children to spend less time watching TV and using electronic devices?

Do too many parents regret buying their young children a cell phone or computer?

What can parents do to safeguard their children and even themselves from the dangers that are online? Danny Huerta says “limits are a good thing!” Listen as he explains how your children WILL benefit.

PARENTS: Click here to download the FREE Focus on the Family Tech Guide and for links to Net Nanny (web filtering) and Forcefield (parental control software).

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October 22, 2018

Title: Four Reasons “Gender Theory” Is Ridiculous
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 13, 2018

Title: UPDATE: Confirmation of Brett Kavanaugh
Topic: Supreme Court Confirmation Process

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

If Brett Kavanaugh is confirmed to the Supreme Court, left-leaning groups are sure to bring out all the stops to rally support for abortion rights during the midterm elections.

Carrie Gordon Earll offers encouragement for the months ahead and how you can help. Carrie is the Vice President of Public Policy with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

With the pending confirmation of Brett Kavanaugh to the US Supreme Court, do we stand at a crossroads in America with new hope and opportunities to save more babies from the scourge of abortion?

What is the purpose of the Supreme Court?

Why are good, moral judges so important?

Has Planned Parenthood conceded? Or, are they working twice as hard?

Click here to register to vote and commit to vote in the mid-term election coming up in November.

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September 11, 2018

Title: Trading Chores with Your Kids
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Heather Trent Beers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Are you tired of doing your chores AND your kids chores?

Listen as Terry reads Heather Trent Beers’ article from Focus on the Family on how to get your kids to do their chores the first time!

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August 27, 2018

Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Weeknight dinners can often be hectic and stressful. It is so easy to just grab something from a drive-thru and eat in the car to this practice on your way to another practice. However, no matter how busy you are, it is important to have a sit-down dinner with your family at least three (if not five!) days a week.

Erin Smalley serves as the Program Manager for Focus on the Family’s Marriage Ministry and develops content for their marriage department. Erin discusses how studies prove that children and teens who regularly eat dinner with their family are less likely to experiment with drugs, alcohol, and sex. They also perform better at school and have less run-ins with the law. She adds that this is perfect time to reconnect with one another and just laugh and have fun.

But what happens when mom feels stressed to the max while preparing dinner? After all, there is homework to be done, activities to go to, fighting among the kids, dad is running late due to traffic. Mom has had a hard day, whether at work or home. Let’s face it: It is stressful. Erin gives some great advice to moms and dads on how to reduce the stress level before, during, and after dinnertime. Not only are family dinners great for the kids, remember that they are also beneficial to the parents! She also encourages parents to include teenagers and college students who still live at home to join family meal time. Your teen might not act like its “cool”, but deep down, they value this family time, too. “It teaches them to value the family,” Erin says.

Remember: Your family meal time doesn’t necessarily need to be at dinner time. If mornings aren’t as hectic, make that your special time. If weekends are the only time your family members are free without busy schedules, do it then! Not every family fits into the “family dinnertime” routine. Do what is best for you! But always – always – make your kids the priority.

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August 16, 2018

Title: Getting Back into the School Routine
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Backpacks, pencils, folders, and lunch boxes are lining department store shelves as “back-to-school” season arrives. As parents trade the carefree days of summer schedules with rushed morning school drop-offs, sports practices and PTA meetings, the thought of returning to the routine can be a bit daunting.

Danny Huerta has some suggestions to help the summer-to-school transition go smoothly! Danny is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are routines so important for kids AND parents? Are those routines different for every family?

Should parents include their kids in the monthly planning/scheduling? How can parents make this a “fun activity”? Danny has some great ideas to get your started! Terry has some great recommendations, too!

Are family dinners important to strengthening relationships?

Final suggestion from Terry: Team up with another couple and trade off your kiddos so you and your spouse can have a date night at least once a month. And Danny adds: Even a simple walk can do wonders for your relationship with both your spouse AND your kids.

Click here for more helpful back-to-school tips from Focus on the Family.

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July 25, 2018

Title: Abortions in America
Topic: Planned Parenthood

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

America is only one of seven countries to allow elective abortion of babies at five months and beyond.

Carrie Gordon Earll is the Vice President of Government and Public Policy at Focus on the Family. Today she will be discussing some new information regarding sonographies and ultrasounds.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How many countries around the world allow abortion up to and including the moment of birth?

Will all abortions be immediately illegal if Roe v Wade is overturned? Short Answer: Not necessarily. Listen as Carrie explains…

HOMEWORK: We encourage you to listen to this segment with your tween/teen/millennial. It will spark great conversation on the truth about abortion. Also Google the difference between a sonogram and an ultrasound…

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July 19, 2018

Title: Does Prayer Work?
Topic: Power of Prayer

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Over the past few weeks 12 school age boys and their soccer coach were trapped in a cave in Thailand, attracting news coverage from around the globe. Social media posts and headlines worldwide begged people to pray to God for the trapped soccer team and the heroes who fought to save them. After a harrowing rescue by Thai Navy Seals, the boys all escaped alive.

What role did prayer play?

Paul Batura is the Vice President of Communications at Focus on the Family. Today, Paul will be discussing the importance of prayer and accepting God’s response – no matter what.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is it right that we should question God’s motives?

Will it matter in heaven?

Dr. James Dobson, the President of Focus on the Family, wrote a book on this subject: “When God Doesn’t Make Sense”. Listen as Paul Batura discusses this book…

Paul also mentions a quote by Admiral James Stockdale, Presidential Candidate (1992) and Vietnam Soldier: “Life is not fair. Get over it.”

If you are suffering right now with a situation and would like to speak to someone, please contact a counselor at Focus on the Family 1.800.AFAMILY

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July 2, 2018

Title: Family Vacations Can be FUN!
Topic: Family Activities

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Family vacations are supposed to be a time filled with joy and laughter, making wonderful memories and growing close as a family. However, the reality can be far from the ideal.

Erin Smalley serves as the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for Focus on the Family’s marriage ministry, where she develops content for the marriage department.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are family vacations important?

Do family members expect – and even demand – different things from a vacation?

Are these expectations often unspoken? Should families have a “meeting” beforehand to discover what each member wants to do on vacation?

Can families please every member every minute during the family vacation? Nope! But Erin Smalley has suggestions on how to navigate these tough waters, such as where to eat.

Listen as Erin Smalley discusses an experience she and her family had on vacation one time. She also urges families to take time to have vacations…

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June 7, 2018

Title: Finally – A Victory for a Christian Baker!
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Finally – a victory for a Christian baker! What does this decision mean for Christian business owners? How does it affect us in Texas – and across the country? Listen as Bruce Hausknecht answers these and other others. Bruce is a Public Policy Analyst with Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should every business owner just go ahead and offer their service to everyone willing to pay?

If you haven’t heard about the case against Jack Philips, listen as Bruce Hausknecht explains what happened…

Everyone is a hypocrite. Everyone. But was Jack being a hypocrite or simply exercising his right to religious freedom?

Possible scenario: A heterosexual couple asks a Lesbian minister to officiate their wedding, according to their own vows, which includes the Gospel and God’s command that marriage is between one man and one woman. The Lesbian minister refuses to agree to officiate the wedding. Can the couple sue the minister? Yes. Would they win the court battle? Probably not.

Same situation with a Jewish or Muslim deli owner if someone wants a ham sandwich…

How can we respect BOTH sides of this issue?

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June 5, 2018

Title: Legal and Acceptable but Still Immoral
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Recently, Gallup published a new poll on national values and morals. The results were quite astounding! Do you agree with the following result? “Two-thirds of Americans now support gay marriage – the highest number in at least 20 years”.

Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. Listen as he reveals more details…

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do homosexual couples raise happier, healthier children? Glenn compares startling statistics from children of divorce to children of same-sex couples…

Do kids raised by homosexual couples have more mental health problems growing up and as adults? Do some girls raised by homosexuals tend to be more promiscuous as teens and young adults?

Are kids raised by homosexual couples more likely to be abused sexually and mentally while growing up? Glenn explains that there is not a lot of research concerning this issue; however, same-sex couples are more likely to abuse each other in front of their children…

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Legal and Acceptable but Still Immoral
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

According to USA Today "The increased acceptance of same-same marriage – which a 2015 Supreme Court decision made legal in all 50 states – comes as greater number of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender adults are getting married in the U.S. More than 10.4% of LGBT adults are married to a same-sex spouse, according to daily tracking on the issue in 2017."

Why are more Americans accepting of homosexual marriage? Or, do they just not care what two people do in their “private time”?

How should Christians respond to this data? Go to the Focus on the Family website for more information on homosexuality and other family issues.

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Title: What’s Wrong with Being a Boy or a Girl?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Is it possible to raise a “genderless human”?

Glenn Stanton is the Director for Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family and a Research Fellow at the Institute of Marriage and Family in Ottawa. Glenn debates and lectures extensively on the issues of gender, sexuality, marriage, and parenting.

Today, Glenn will discussing a “genderless generation”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is it possible for parents to raise their children without gender?

Are we supposed to call the child “it”?

Will failing to define a child’s gender cause lasting psychological damage?

Will there be long-term consequences to society for allowing children to remain gender neutral?

Do most children naturally begin behaving like a certain gender, no matter what their parents believe?

If we disagree with “genderless children”, are we wrong, homophobic, gender-a-phobic, hateful, or hurtful? How should we respond if/when we are called these names? Glenn Stanton offers some great advice here. Listen in!

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May 30, 2018

Title: Should your Teen get a Summer Job?
Topic: Teens and Jobs

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting with Focus on the Family. Today, Danny will be discussing the importance of teens learning responsibility, accountability, money management, and confidence through summer jobs.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are kids “too busy” to do chores? HINT: Absolutely NOT!

Should younger kids have chores that they get paid for? Danny encourages parents to get creative with this!

Danny also suggests that kids have chores they are required to do in addition to “extra chores” that result in incentives like money or treats. He says: “That’s just part of being part of the community of the home.”

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Should your Teen get a Summer Job?
Topic: Teens and Jobs

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Danny and his wife have celebrations for their kids for a job well-done. Listen as he explains how they accomplish this without spoiling their kids.

How can completing chores prepare teens for their first job as a high school student?

Does a good work ethic start at age 16 or age 3?

Do too many parents allow their teens to “slack off” instead of supplying them with the means to build character?

Do summer jobs allow teens the opportunity to learn proper money management?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Should your Teen get a Summer Job?
Topic: Teens and Jobs

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What was Danny Huerta’s first job and how old was he?

How can parents know when and if their teen is ready for their first job? Danny says: “There is not a magical age, but there is a temperamental age!” Listen as he explains…

What other benefits do summer jobs offer teens?

How many hours per week should teens work during the summer months?

Click here for more on this and other parenting topics from Focus on the Family.

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May 4, 2018

Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly? Some think so. But are these traits really the essence of what it means to be a man?

Glenn Stanton is the director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. He defines manhood as a “man who does the right thing at the right time.”

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do current TV shows depict men, in general, in a positive, uplifting way? Key Word: Current.

QUIZ: What TV show from the mid-to-late 1970’s starred a black man as a positive, uplifting role model?

Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly?

Should men and women be treated equally in every situation?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do we live in a world where boys often grow up without their fathers to show them the way?

What are three ways to teach boys to become men when there is no father figure to help? The military and sports are two ways. Listen as Glenn discusses the third.

NOTE: We know that there are many single moms who listen to The What’s UP Radio Program. We applaud you. We salute you. We know you are doing the best you can. Keep doing what you are doing! You are doing an amazing job!

For more help on this subject, especially for single moms, Glenn recommends the book “Making a Modern Day Knight”.

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May 1, 2018

Title: Persecuting Christians in America
Topic: Homosexual Agenda Normalized by Bullying

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Religious freedom, along with the freedom of speech, is a right given to the American people long ago by our Founding Fathers. Somehow, though, the rules seem to be bending under the weight of current cultural pushes to normalize and promote LGBT values.

Bruce Hausknecht is a Public Policy Analyst with Focus on the Family. Listen in as Bruce discusses the rights all Americans have to follow their conscience and adhere to their religious beliefs.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What rights do Americans have to follow their conscience and adhere to their religious beliefs?

Recently, a decorated, Southern Baptist Army Chaplain arranged for a different chaplain to conduct a marriage retreat where same-sex couples would be in attendance. Is this Chaplain now facing “career ending punishment”?

Have any discrimination complaints been made against Muslim Imams?

A Christian man filed a complaint against a bakery who refused to bake a cake that included Scripture denouncing homosexuality. What was the outcome of this case? HINT: You won’t be surprised!

How can we help Focus on the Family as they represent Army Chaplain Squires?

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Title: What’s Wrong with Being a Boy or a Girl?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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April 20, 2018

Title: Talking to Your Kids about Death
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

With the recent news of the passing of Barbara Bush, your kids may start asking about death, heaven, hell, and everything in between.

Focus on the Family counselor Glenn Lutjens has some parenting advice for you today on this very issue.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How do parents talk to their children and grandchildren about death?

Should adult children wait until their parent has passed to discuss the situation with their own children? Or should they approach the subject tenderly before the death has occurred?

Are open-ended questions the best choice?

How do we respond when our children ask this question: “How is grandma or grandpa”?

Dementia and Alzheimer’s do not have to be a scary situation for grandchildren to experience. Listen as Glenn Lutjens offers some advice for this, as well.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Talking to Your Kids about Death
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can we, as adult children, cope with the decline of our parents?

How can we better prepare ourselves for the decline of our parents?

Glenn again suggests using open-ended questions. Plus, he has other questions we should ask, such as:
* Should we include our siblings with the decisions?
* Do your parents have a will or power of attorney?
* What do your parents want?
* What is the financial situation of your parents?

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April 19, 2018

Title: Kids View Pornography
Topic: Kids View Pornography

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

For most kids, it’s not a question of whether they’ll see a pornographic image – it’s when.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting with Focus on the Family. Today, Danny offers some advice for parents when this tough situation finds its way into their homes.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the average age when a person is first exposed to pornography? NOTE: This will shock and disgust you!

What is the percentage of girls and boys who view pornography before the age of 18?

Is it natural for parents, especially Christian parents, to react in fear and anger?

Danny Huerta reminds us that sex is about “healthy sexuality and the grander picture of why God created sex in the first place.”

Are children who are sexually abused/molested more likely to view pornography? Do many also enter the pornography industry as adults?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Kids View Pornography
Topic: Kids View Pornography

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can parents prepare for the pornography talk with their kids?

Listen as Danny discusses a conversation he had with his 8 year old son concerning a “certain store” in the mall. He also suggests weekly talks with boys about being kind, respectful, and compassionate to girls.

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Kids View Pornography
Topic: Kids View Pornography

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How should parents respond when they discover that their child has viewed pornography?

What questions should parents ask their kids concerning pornography? Yes – parents need to ask their kids questions! Listen as Danny explains…

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April 17, 2018

Title: What’s Wrong with Being a Boy or a Girl?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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April 13, 2018

Title: Dividing Household Responsibilities
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Marriage is tough. Couples have disagreements over many issues. One of those disagreements, though, should not concern household responsibilities.

Focus on the Family spokesperson and marriage counselor, Erin Smalley, has some advice and suggestions I’m sure we could all use.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is there always room for compromise when it comes to dividing the household responsibilities?

Are you the same husband/wife that you were when you first got married?

What is a “safe zone”?

Have people/groups conducted research studies on what happens within a marriage when a man starts helping more with the dishes? What about the laundry or cleaning toilets? Was there a difference?

Is teamwork important in a marriage?

Should men observe more and ask less?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Dividing Household Responsibilities
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How long have Erin and her husband, Greg, been married?

Do Erin and Greg still experience tension concerning this issue from time to time?

Should both partners be flexible?

Instead of responding “I’ll do it in a minute”, is a better comment: “Can it wait a few minutes until I finish this project?” Why and how can this change make such a difference?

Do husbands “help” their wives? Or, is it a shared responsibility?

Listen as Erin shares the story of how and why her husband began making the bed every morning. It’s so sweet!

How can a change of attitude toward household responsibilities affect children in the home?

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Title: Can Trump Defund Planned Parenthood?
Topic: Planned Parenthood

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Planned Parenthood, which relies on government funding for a variety of services, may be on its way to getting defunded. Carrie Gordon Earll is the Vice President of Government and Public Affairs at Focus on the Family. Listen as she offers more details.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Have some states removed tax payer dollars from the bank accounts of various abortion providers, such as Planned Parenthood?

How close were we this past budget vote of defunding Planned Parenthood from being able to receive federal tax dollars?

President Trump has released his budget for fiscal year 2019. Does it include funding for any clinic or health care facility that also offers abortion services?

Henry Ford once stated: “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again – this time more intelligently.” What should we do differently in the coming months to be successful in defunding Planned Parenthood?

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March 8, 2018

Title: The 8 Worst Ways to Encourage a Child
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Danny Huerta is a dad, coach, family counselor, and Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Danny has seen his share of well-meaning but less-than-helpful praise from parents. Today, he will be sharing “The 8 Worst Ways to Encourage a Child”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do most parents mean well when they try to encourage their children?

How can parents supplement the superficial feedback kids receive from outside sources? Danny uses Philippians 4:8 as a reference…

Should parents be telling toddlers “great job”? Do toddlers even know the meaning of the word “job”? What should parents say in place of “job”?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - The 8 Worst Ways to Encourage a Child
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Society now believes that everybody wins – everybody should get a trophy. Is this healthy?

What if Michael Jordan quit when a coach said he wasn’t good enough?

What if David quit after he missed Goliath the first time?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - The 8 Worst Ways to Encourage a Child
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should parents give dishonest feedback? In other words, are “little white lies” okay?

Jennifer is good at singing. Her sister, Melissa, is good at ballet. Should parents encourage both girls to do both activities?

This is a tough one: Do we urge our children to face their fears – or not face them at all?

Are the words “please” and “thank you” still relevant?

What is someone tells your daughter “Oh, you are SO pretty?” Or tells our son “You are the best football player I’ve even seen!” How should parents react?

What is an empty compliment and why should parents avoid them?

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February 27, 2018

Title: Can Trump Defund Planned Parenthood?
Topic: Planned Parenthood

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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February 8, 2018

Title: Protecting our Children from Sexual Abuse
Topic: Child Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

How can parents protect their children from sexual abuse, especially by a trusted adult? Geremy Keeton is the Director of Counseling at Focus on the Family. Listen as he offers some wisdom and advice on how to handle these tough situations.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the best way parents can protect their children from sexual abuse? Geremy Keeton says open conversation is key…

Do parents really need to be on guard with every person their children may come in contact with – from the doctor to the soccer/gym coach to the Sunday School teacher?

Is there ever an appropriate situation when a doctor should need to speak to or consult a child without a parent being present?

How can parents know they can trust a tutor or academic professional who may have one-on-one contact with their child?

Should public schools begin implementing new procedures in their clinics when a nurse would have close contact with a child without another adult present?

What are some situations that a parent should be mindful of when a medical professional is with their child?

Click here for more information about the book “God Made All of Me”. There is also a FREE download available that is appropriate for older children called “Having the Talk” that is available through Focus on the Family, as well.

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January 23, 2018

Title: Do You Have Too Many Kids?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Chip and Joanna Gaines (stars of HGTV's Fixer Upper) received a surprising amount of criticism via social media after announcing their fifth baby is on the way. Critics discussed how over-population effects climate change and environmental footprints.

Glenn Stanton is the Family Director of Global Family Formation Studies. Listen in as he sheds more light on these disturbing statements from the left.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do parents with many children often get asked this question: “Are all those kids yours?”

Are the left’s accusations of over-population negatively affecting the environment founded on facts? Or, are they simply fear-mongering?

How many children do parents in developing countries normally have?

Are some countries PAYING their citizens to have MORE babies due to a failing economy?

How can we be encouraging to couples who have many children?

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January 10, 2018

Title: A Parent’s Guide to Technology
Topic: Kids and Technology

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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January 3, 2018

Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Do you Choose Your Child’s Friends?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Before babies even learn to crawl, they often find themselves attending playdates and outings with other babies. Toddlers learn how to get along with others, parents get adult interaction, and everyone wins. But what happens when the playdate mindset continues well into the teenage years?

Erin Smalley is a mom of four and the author of “Grown-Up Girlfriends”. Today, Erin will explain why parents “friendgineer” and help moms and dads discern when to intervene in a child’s social circle and when to back off.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is a playdate? Are playdates for little ones okay?

Are teens mature enough to choose their own friends? Erin believes it depends on the teen. Listen as she and Terry discuss certain situations.

If parents are with their teens at gatherings, is that considered hovering?

Erin also discusses the importance of giving your teen an “out”…If they are at a party and don’t feel comfortable, do they trust you enough to not freak out?

When should parents stop organizing playdates for their kids?

Best advice: Pray, pray, pray for your kids – no matter how old they are.

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Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

You are doing your best to raise a responsible adult. They want to play. You are tired, so you don’t want to fight. They have endless energy, especially to get their way. Do you do the chores yourself? Or do you dig in and fight the battle? Either way, it does not seem like a win-win scenario.

Danny Huerta, our go-to family expert, says that teaching kids responsibility doesn’t have to feel like war. Click here for the FREE guide from Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does it have to be WWIII when it comes to doing chores?

Some of you may have teenagers or college students living at home. Is it too late to start now?

Danny says to STOP saying one word to your kids when it’s time to do chores. Listen in to find out what he says to STOP doing!

Should parents pay their children for doing chores?

What is one tip that Danny recommends families implement immediately to keep the clutter at bay?

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January 2, 2018

Title: Could You Do It?
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by George Stahnke
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The pastorate is a high and heavy calling. It can mean sleepless nights, heart-wrenching hospital visits, sermon criticism, being entangled in the midst of congregation member’s drama, and a small paycheck. These negativities also fall on the pastor’s family, as well.

When was the last time you told your pastor how much he is appreciated? George Stahnke is a Counselor with Focus on the Family. Today, he offers encouragement for pastors and advice for congregants who support them.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How often do most congregants thank their pastor?

Are congregants too quick to critique their pastor instead of offering praise?

Why are words of encouragement so imperative to anyone?

Don’t let your encouragement lapse! You wouldn’t tell your spouse once a year or even once a month how much he/she is appreciated! Listen as George explains why offering encouragement and thanks often is so important.

Do pastor’s families feel a lot of pressure, as well? Should we encourage them often as well?

Great suggestion by George Stahnke: Slip a note and restaurant gift card to your pastor and his wife this Sunday as a thank you! Bonus: Offer to babysit their kids, too, while they have a date night!

Focus on the Family has a toll-free phone number dedicated solely to ministry couples: 1.844.427.7836 Call Focus on the Family today for free help and advice. You can also click here for more help and information.

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Title: Have You Ever Really Read the Bible?
Topic: Bible Reading

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

In the western world, most Christians have their own Bible, if not two or three. However, a love for the Scriptures and an appreciation for the ability to read them does not always come naturally to people, especially children. How can parents peak their children’s interest in reading God's Word?

Paul Batura is the Vice President of Communications for Focus on the Family. Listen in as he offers encouragement to parents on this important topic.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Hosea 4:6 “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge; because you have rejected knowledge, I reject you from being a priest to me. And since you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children.”

What percent of Christians actually read their Bible? Lifeway recently did a study on this very subject and you will be shocked with the results!

Are God’s people missing the mark because they aren’t reading their Bible?

Does reading the Bible on the regular basis encourage children to stay in church into adulthood? Listen as Paul Batura discusses this as well as the second activity which encourages them to stay in church: prayer.

How can parents encourage their children to read the Bible more? Practice what you preach, parents! Read an actual Bible, not an app on your phone or tablet. Read a Bible story with your kids – no matter their age – after dinner or at bedtime. (This is a suggestion from host, Terry Lowry!)

Paul shares a story about a cow’s tongue and the power of words. Listen in (it’s not really gross!)

For more parenting tips and suggestions, click here or call 1.800.AFAMILY

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December 28, 2017

Title: Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

From pretend tea parties to periods, boyfriends, shaving armpits, and Snapchat… A dad’s role in raising girls is perplexing and challenging. Unfortunately, in order to avoid these tough situations, too many men opt out, give up, give in, or go away.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Today, he will be offering tips for dads on how to connect with their daughters.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do all girls need their dad, no matter their age?

Will girls compare every man they meet throughout their lives to their father? Is this why it is so important for dads to have a good relationship with their daughters?

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can a dad connect, and stay connected, with his daughter?

Danny has some great tips for dads with daughters of all ages: play pretend when they’re young and read to her; have 60 seconds of connect time in the morning and the evening with tweens and teens; make time for date night with your daughter no matter her age.

Is it important to ask questions? Is it equally important to listen without interruption or judgement?

What challenges to step-dads face when raising step-daughters?

Are there other ways for dads who don’t have custody of their daughter to connect?

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Some fathers are completely absent from their daughter’s life. How can a single mom bring influential men in to help fill that gap?

One point Danny brings up is how we all want our marriage to last, so we work and work on it and carve time for our spouse to make them feel special. The same concept can – and should – be applied to our kids, both boys and girls.

What is Danny’s Number One piece of advice for all dads of daughters?

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November 10, 2017

Title: Have You Ever Really Read the Bible?
Topic: Bible Reading

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 6, 2017

Title: Could You Do It?
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by George Stahnke
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 2, 2017

Title: Could You Do It?
Topic: Inspirational and Motivational

Discussed by George Stahnke
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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October 27, 2017

Title: We Live in a Weird World
Topic: Christian Values

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

We live in a weird world. A world where boys can be girls and girls can be boys. A world where wrong is right and right is wrong.

Glenn Stanton is a Family Counselor and Director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. Today, he will be discussing this scary, topsy-turvy world and how we can avoid it.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who is teaching our kids today? Who is teaching adults?

Who is right and who is wrong?

Parents: What kind of TV shows do you watch? Do you ban those shows from your children’s eye, yet watch them yourself?

Listen as Glenn Stanton passionately offers hope and encouragement to listeners who may be feeling lost and confused…

Are there consequences for sin? Do most people believe there are NOT consequences?

Too many college-age youth leave the church and do not return. What can parents do now to prevent their children from becoming another statistic?

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October 20, 2017

Title: Sexual Abuse in the Church
Topic: Sexual Abuse in the Church

Discussed by Dr. Harry Pearson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

More than a 10 women have come forward with allegations of sexual abuse from powerful Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein. And, unfortunately, research shows that 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused/assaulted before the age of 18, regardless of socio-economic demographic. Yes, this is even true in churches across America.

Listen as Dr. Harry Pearson, counselor at Focus on the Family with military training on this issue, shares more about the aftermath of sexual abuse and how to prevent it within the church.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does sexual abuse leave scars for life?

Are too many churches ignoring this serious issue?

Do most predators threaten to harm their victims’ family in order to silence them?

Parents and grandparents should not be afraid of leaving children with volunteers during Sunday School or other church events. But should they still be cautious?

If abuse has occurred, what steps should be taken to for recovery?

Concerning the news… If/when a child/teen hears information concerning this issue, questions are sure to follow. Listen as Dr. Pearson offers some advice for this situation. “Sitting down and talking with your kids about sensitive issues is important so they know that you are safe to talk to,” he states.

If you or someone you know needs guidance concerning this issue, please call 1.800.AFAMILY or click here.

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October 17, 2017

Title: Helping Kids Cope with Tragedy
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Roberta Perno
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Roberta Perno is a licensed professional counselor at Focus on the Family. Today, she offers tips and advice for parents on a sensitive issue: “Helping Kids Cope with Tragedy”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can parents explain hurt and suffering in the world without frightening their children?

Why is it important for parents to be their child’s confidant in situations like this, not the media or even their teachers at school?

Listen as Roberta Perno explains why different age groups should receive different types of information after natural disasters or tragedies.

Should parents be cautious about media overload?

Should parents limit their kids’ exposure to the news?

Do children experience different emotions when tragedy strikes?

How can parents help their children process those emotions?

What advice does Roberta offer the parent when coping with new situations with their own children: going to parties, staying out late, driving, college, etc?

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September 26, 2017

Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 21, 2017

Title: Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 18, 2017

Title: Free Abortions after a Hurricane
Topic: Free Abortions

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Robyn Chambers is the Director of the Sanctity of Human Life at Focus on the Family. She is also part of FOTF’s “Be a Voice” campaign. Today, Robyn will be discussing the sad topic of free abortions after a hurricane.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are abortions being pushed in the days and weeks following Hurricanes Harvey and Irma?

How can we help those scared women who are facing a pregnancy with no home to go to after these devastating hurricanes?

Robyn says: “We can’t sit on the sidelines and wish they wouldn’t do that. We have to counteract their offer of 'help' with real, tangible help.”

Buy groceries and diapers. Offer to pay a utility bill. Drive a young woman to a doctor appointment. If you have a spare room, open your home to a pregnant mom with no place to go. Volunteer at a crisis pregnancy center to answer the phone or pray with women. There are so many ways to be involved and help.

Why does FOTF support legislation to place sonograms in all pregnancy centers in the US? Do they pay for sonograms as well? How much do they cost?

How many clinics in Houston are in need of new sonogram machines after Hurricane Harvey?

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September 7, 2017

Title: Life after the Flood
Topic: Civic Responsibility of Christians

Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Glenn Lutjens is a Counselor with Focus on the Family. Listen in as he offers some great advice for “Life after the Flood”.

For more on this topic, click here. If you would like to speak directly to a counselor, call 1.800.AFAMILY

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are people sometimes at a loss for words during times like this? Glenn says sometimes silence is the best response. Lend a listening ear and a sturdy shoulder.

Instead of asking “how can I help”, is it better to state “this is how I can help”?

Should we be careful when making promises to someone in need that we don’t over extend ourselves?

How can we continue living a “normal life”?

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August 30, 2017

Title: Who Has Impacted Your Life?
Topic: Motivational and Inspirational

Discussed by Christi Lynn
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

When you were a child, did an adult (other than a relative) greatly impact your life?

Christi Lynn will be discussing the John Avery Whittaker Award today. JAW is, of course, the beloved soda shop owner in the kids’ radio drama Adventures in Odyssey who was known for his listening ear and wise advice. Note: Christi is the Marketing Director of “Kids and Culture” within Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why do we love John Avery Whittaker so much?

What is the JAW Award?

Christi also discusses something new and fun in the forthcoming Adventures in Odyssey Bible.

Is it important to teach a child how to read the bible from an early age? Christi likes to say, “Kids need a strong foundation. With parenting, a lot of things are caught, not taught.” Listen in as she explains…

To nominate someone for the John Avery Whittaker Award, click here.

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August 23, 2017

Title: Kids, Racism, and Violence
Topic: Console Your Kids

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Current headlines and social media are dominated by the recent acts of racism and violence around the country. Kids and teens who see the events unfolding on television and their phone screens will undoubtedly have many questions.

Geremy Keeton, the Director of Counseling Services with Focus on the Family, has some advice for parents today on how to use topics such as this as “teachable moments”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should parents shield their children from seeing the violence on TV and social media?

How can parents help their children cope with the ugliness when they do see it or hear about it?

Is over-exposure a bad thing?

Geremy Keeton believes these topics are the perfect opportunity for parents to openly discuss the dangers of social media and the media in general with their kids, especially teens.

Can parents use the horrible situation in Charlottesville, Virginia, as a Biblical teaching moment?

If you would like free parenting advice, please call 1.800.AFAMILY or click here.

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August 14, 2017

Title: Getting Back into the Back-To-School Routine
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Parents across the country are gearing up for the start of another school year. Danny Huerta, the Vice President of Parenting with Focus on the Family, has some tips and suggestions to make the transition from pool time to homework time more bearable for everyone.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Does having a routine improve a child’s academic outcome? Danny offers several statistics to encourage a routine in your child’s life from an early age, not just concerning school. “Having a routine helps you control what you can so you don’t get distracted by what you can’t,” Danny states. Listen to find out what he means by this statement.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Getting Back into the Back-To-School Routine
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is the “60 Second Rule”? No, it doesn’t have anything to do with food dropping on the floor!

Is praying together as a family important to create a sense of security within your children?

Listen as Danny Huerta discusses how everything from dividing chores to weekly celebrations can be a routine in your home. “Routines don’t have to be a dictatorship,” he states.

For a FREE resource concerning this interview, click here.

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August 8, 2017

Title: Who Has Impacted Your Life?
Topic: Motivational and Inspirational

Discussed by Christi Lynn
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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July 14, 2017

Title: When Date Night Gets Cut Short
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Finally a night out on the town with your spouse. You both smile at each other, nearly giddy to have a moment to yourselves without the kids. As you dig into your beautifully crafted restaurant meal, mentally listing all the exciting things that you've been dying to tell each other, your cell phone begins buzzing. You take a deep breath as you glance at the phone: it's the babysitter.

What do you do next? Listen as Erin Smalley, with Focus on the Family, shares some thoughts and helpful hints.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are Date Nights imperative for couples of all ages?

When the phone rings and it’s the babysitter with a situation they cannot handle or diffuse, what should parents do?

Sometimes Date Night is a camp out in the back yard or on the couch after the kids go to bed. What should the rules be in this scenario?

Can couples maintain strong relationships during the early stages of their kids' lives without Date Night?

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July 12, 2017

Title: Summer Tips for Blended Families
Topic: Blended Families

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Danny Huerta, with Focus on the Family, has some helpful summer tips for the many, many parents who are part of a “blended family”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can the non-custodial parent help ease the transition when their kids come to stay with them during the summer or other holidays?

Is consistency important between the two households?

Why is it vital for parents to be flexible?

Danny suggests planning a fun outing for the first night kids are with their parent. It doesn’t have to be expensive – a simple ice cream stop will suffice! Listen as he offers other memory-making ideas.

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June 26, 2017

Title: Kids Occupied Every Minute
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Don’t let summer get you down. Erin Smalley has some great advice and suggestions for you! Erin is the Program Manager of Marriage Ministries at Focus on the Family.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should parents feel compelled to keep their kids occupied every minute of every day during the summer?

Is it a good idea to keep learning throughout the summer?

Should mom be given some “mom time” occasionally?

Should dad take time for himself, too?

Is it important for mom and dad to have time alone together?

For more tips and suggestions on summer activities, click here.

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Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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June 13, 2017

Title: Teenagers and Depression
Topic: Teenagers and Depression

Discussed by Roberta Perno
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

In any given classroom at the local middle school, high school, or church youth group, more than one third of the girls have faced depression. By age 17, nearly fifteen percent of boys have faced the same agony. Has this sudden tornado struck the inside of your home?

Roberta Perno is a licensed professional counselor at Focus on the Family. Listen in as she discusses the alarming statistics among our teens today.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why are teen girls so depressed?

Does social media have a negative effect on teens?

How do actresses and pop singers contribute to self-esteem issues? NOTE: Roberta Perno believes this has been an issue for many, many years, but technology has simply compounded the negative effects.

Is any teen susceptible to depression?

What are some signs of depression? Loss of sleep, weight gain or loss, and irritability are just a few. Listen as Roberta offers a much longer list…

Is online activity often hidden, leading to guilt in teens?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Teenagers and Depression
Topic: Teenagers and Depression

Discussed by Roberta Perno
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

How can girls prepare mentally for the tween and teenage period in her life?

Should parents encourage their older children to talk to their younger siblings about depression?

Roberta Perno has a great acronym parents can use to help their teen who may be battling depression: A.L.I.V.E. Listen as she explains…

If you or someone you know (of any age) is battling depression, encourage them to call 1.800.A.Family to speak to a licensed counselor for a FREE consultation.

Roberta also mentions a great resource book: “A Relentless Hope: Surviving the Storm of Teen Depression” by Gary Nelson.

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June 2, 2017

Title: Is Your Kid an Introvert?
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Tim Sanford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Shyness can be hard for parents who themselves have extroverted personalities and don’t understand introverted tendencies. New guest, Tim Samford, is with Focus on the Family. Listen in as he offers some great advice on this issue.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What does “introvert” mean?

Are children who are introverts often misread as snobbish or even “mentally challenged”?

Is it okay for kids to have only one or two friends?

How can parents and siblings better understand introverts? Tim Sanford has four suggestions:
offer encouragement
give them time
stop and listen
leave them alone!

How can parents help their introvert child to break out of their shell from time-to-time?

If you would like a FREE consultation from Focus on the Family, call 1.800.A.FAMILY.

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May 30, 2017

Title: Kids Occupied Every Minute
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 24, 2017

Title: What Not to Say to Engaged Couples
Topic: Encourage Engaged Couples

Discussed by Ashley Mazelin
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Ashely Mazelin is getting married! Congratulations, Ashley! Listen as she reveals some of the CRAZY comments/advice she and her fiancé have received since announcing their engagement. May this segment be a warning to you.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What are some of the crazy comments and questions Ashley has heard since becoming engaged?

Some comments and advice can be down-right offensive to engaged couples. What does Ashley suggest people say and do instead of offering advice which may be well-meaning, but often comes off as rude?

Is pre-marital counseling helpful?

Click here for more information from Focus on the Family on this topic.

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May 10, 2017

Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

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with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Do you Choose Your Child’s Friends?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 4, 2017

Title: National Day of Prayer
Topic: National Day of Prayer

Discussed by John Fuller
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Does God still answer our prayers? Today, May 4, is the National Day of Prayer. New guest, John Fuller, is the Vice President of Broadcasting at Focus on the Family. Listen as he reminds us of the importance of prayer.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Elijah cried out to God for no rain. How long did he pray this request? What was God’s response?

There are scores of other people from the Bible who sent specific prayers to God. What does the Bible reveal about prayer?

Do we always get the answer we want from God?

How can we discern God’s answers to our prayers?

Today, on the National Day of Prayer, John Fuller urges all Christians to not only pray for our country, but also our family, friends, co-workers, and the world.

Can one praying person make a difference?

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April 28, 2017

Title: National Kissing Day
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Kissing is a powerful way to communicate affection. Studies show that a man who is kissed by his wife before heading out the door in the morning is more likely to make a larger income, is less likely to get into a car accident, and has many more benefits than those who aren’t kissed.

Erin Smalley discusses National Kissing Day – TODAY, April 28th!

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is kissing important to your spouse?

Should you kiss in front of your kids?

Does kissing your spouse increase life expectancy?

Why is a goodbye kiss important? Are “hello” kisses just as important?

Is hugging important as well?

Celebrate National Kissing Day TODAY April 28th!

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April 21, 2017

Title: Helping Kids Handle Shame and Guilt
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by MT Wilson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

How do you react when your child is embarrassed or has shame and guilt?

New guest MT Wilson is a Licensed Professional Counselor with Focus on the Family. He is also the author of several books: “Preventing Ministry Failure: A ShepherdCare Guide for Pastors, Ministers and Other Caregivers” and “Unburdened: The Christian Leader's Path to Sexual Integrity”, which can be found on Amazon.

Listen as MT Wilson offers some advice for all parents and grandparents on this sensitive issue.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

MT Wilson describes the real-life, true-story scenario behind the topic of conversation today. The father’s response to his daughter’s dilemma was classic and hilarious.

How can parents, grandparents, and even older siblings help ease the shame or embarrassment of a younger child? MT Wilson has some great suggestions!

What is the difference between empathy and sympathy?

Should we show compassion for them? What should we do after we offer compassion?

Should we respond differently when a child feels shame or guilt rather than embarrassment?

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April 19, 2017

Title: How Much Privacy Should You Give Your Teen?
Topic: Spy On Your Teen

Discussed by Dr. John Thorington
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Dr. John Thorington is a Counselor at Focus on the Family. Today he will be discussing the question that should be on every parent’s mind: How much privacy should I allow my teenager?

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Why is “snooping” the wrong term to use? Dr. Thorington believes the correct terms should be “honesty” and “accountability”.

Is privacy a privilege or a right?

Should parents allow their tween or teen to be online behind closed doors?

Are parental controls a good idea?

Why is it a good idea to “follow” our teens and their friends of Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter?

Should we tell our kids and teens about the “scary stuff” like predators and illegal activity online? Should we make them do research on the subject? NOTE: Issues discussed here may be disturbing to some.

Should grandparents be cautious about letting their grandchildren play on their phones and tablets? If grandparents see their grandchildren frequently, should they follow these same rules?

If you would like FREE advice from a licensed counselor with Focus on the Family, please call 1.800.A.FAMILY.

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April 10, 2017

Title: Why Feminists Hate Stay at Home Moms
Topic: Stay-At-Home Moms

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

In 1976, the French feminist icon Simone de Beauvoir said, “No woman should be authorized to stay home to raise her children. Women should not have that choice, because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.”

Erin Smalley, host of The Boundless Show, believes too many people, specifically women, have fallen for this lie from main-stream feminists.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Trick Question: Should it be illegal for moms to stay at home with their children?

Why is there so much animosity among women concerning this issue? Listen as Erin Smalley discusses the importance of women supporting each other, especially in church settings.

How does Erin Smalley describe the Proverbs 31 Woman?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Why Feminists Hate Stay at Home Moms
Topic: Stay-At-Home Moms

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Marriage is difficult in and by itself, but when you add in kids to the mix, it becomes even more complicated. What advice does Erin Smalley have for couples who desire to have only one income while the other parent stays home?

Is it important for kids to support their parents as they make these tough decisions?

According to Pew Research Center, approximately thirty percent of married mothers with children at home are not employed. Of the remaining 70 percent who are employed, at least half of those mothers work part-time or fewer hours than their husbands do. Listen as Erin Smalley discusses these statistics, how they affect the family dynamics, and how parents can resolve disputes concerning work and money.

Erin encourages couples to call 1.800.A.FAMILY if you would like FREE advice from a licensed counselor.

You can read the article that sparked this discussion here.

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March 31, 2017

Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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March 22, 2017

Title: Do you Choose Your Child’s Friends?
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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February 6, 2017

Title: 10 Things Every Husband Needs from His Wife
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Erin Smalley is a wife, mother, author, and speaker. She serves as the Marriage Strategic Spokesperson for Focus on the Family. Today she will be sharing practical ways every woman can show her husband love – not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day of the year.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Proverbs 14:1 “The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.”

What do husbands “really” want for Valentine’s Day? What do they “really” want every day?

Erin Smalley is currently writing a new book: “10 Things Every Husband Needs from His Wife”. What are some of the topics discussed?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - 10 Things Every Husband Needs from His Wife
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Do men too often receive condemnation instead of congratulations?

Listen as Erin Smalley explains why this is so very important to preserve your marriage.

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January 30, 2017

Title: When Tough Dads Play Barbie
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

When men have daughters, something in them dramatically changes. Even the toughest of men can develop a soft spot for relating to their little girls. Recently, Mattel knocked it out of the park with a Barbie commercial showing tough dads playing dolls with their girls.

Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Listen in as he encourages dads to be actively involved in their daughter’s lives.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Fathers have an emotional and psychological impact on their daughters, whether positive or negative. Should fathers begin today to positively affect their daughters, no matter their age?br />
How can fathers make meaningful connections with their daughters? Brad has some very practical (and easy!) ways which fathers can connect with their daughters.

Why do girls need their dads in such a deep way?

Click here for some more inspiration!

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January 18, 2017

Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 26, 2016

Title: Focusing on Healing
Topic: Hope and Healing in a Broken World

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Marriage a tough work. Dr. Jared Pingleton is a Clinical Psychologist and the Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the Family. Every month, FOTF receives more calls on their FREE hotline (800.A.FAMILY) concerning marriage and family than any other issue. They also help connect people with a licensed counselor who they’ve interviewed and trust.

Everyone has pain and heartache. Christians are definitely not immune. Dr. Pingleton says, “The shame and stigma is finally starting to dissipate to where people can reach out…They are positively receptive to the resources (we offer).” Listen in as Dr. Pingleton also discusses how they have partnered with the National Institute of Marriage in Branson, MS. You can find more information on this great opportunity to help save your marriage on FOTF’s website.

It sounds cliché, but Dr. Pingleton says every Christian household’s slogan should be: “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” He urges all families to pray together daily, especially husbands and wives. “It’s really hard to pray with someone you’re mad at,” he point out.

Finally, Dr. Pingleton discusses the divorce rate in the Evangelical Christians. “A lot of people say they are Christians on surveys, but are really just ‘consensual Christians’ not ‘committed Christians’. That’s when the numbers change,” he explains.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Focusing on Healing
Topic: Hope and Healing in a Broken World

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Another mass shooting occurred on Thursday, October 1, 2015, in America. It has been alleged that the gunman asked his victims if they were Christians before shooting them. People are still reeling from this. People everywhere are confused and hurting. You are probably one of those hurting people.

Dr. Jared Pingleton doesn’t believe changing policies will stop mass murders like this. We need to understand that this type of person is deranged and almost nothing will stop them from harming others. However, he does point that, while we need to be aware of the issues, we shouldn’t live in a state of fear.

“Prevention is always better than cure,” he says. We need to reach out to people who are hurting and get them the help they need, whether it is in the form of counseling, drug or alcohol rehabilitation, or praying with them and leading them to Christ.

Family members, especially, should be on the lookout for sudden, strange behavior in their loved ones. Do they have a new-found obsession with guns? Are they watching violent movies or playing murderous video games? Has their attitude changed? What are they posting on social media? These are all red-flags that we should look out for.

Dr. Pingleton urges anyone with a concern about a loved one or friend to call their hotline at 800.A.FAMILY to discuss the situation with a licensed counselor. “It’s easy to avoid and ignore them,” he says. But we can’t ignore it. We must not ignore it. We must be aware and intervene. You just might save a life.

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December 15, 2016

Title: Enjoy the People Around You
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Family get-togethers are great…but what happens when tempers flare? The holiday can be a total meltdown waiting to happen.

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Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Mommy Wars
Topic: Mommy Wars

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

A liberal blogger’s opinion piece, “Being a Stay-at-Home Mother Is Not a Job,” recently went viral, reigniting the “mommy wars” debate between moms in the workforce and stay-at-home moms. Erin Smalley, Family Ministries Program Manager at Focus on the Family, says, “Divisive messages about motherhood impact real moms and the culture as a whole.” Being a stay-at-home mom is most certainly a “job” – it’s a privilege and an honor.

Erin goes on to say that oftentimes it is not a “choice” for moms or dads to work; they have to in order to provide for their families. Others must stay at home for reasons that are not always apparent. But we do all have something in common: We love our kids. “We have a heart to create a certain world for our kids and to raise them in a Godly way”. Being a parent is a tough job. We don’t need to “judge” each other simply because one works and one doesn’t. “It’s all very overwhelming,” Erin says.

Find more on this and other issues affecting the family [here].

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December 14, 2016

Title: What does Nomophobia Mean?
Topic: Technology

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

For most teenagers, cell phones have become like a third arm. Even normal daily functions like waiting for the school bus or having a conversation seem impossible without the mobile device glued to their hands.

What would happen to these teens without cell phones? The Today Show decided to find out by convincing nine teens to relinquish their smart phones for a week.

Listen in as Danny Huerta, Vice President of Parenting with Focus on the Family, shares the results of this experiment, in addition to some great parenting tips.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What is Nomophobia?

How many hours per day do teens and tweens spend on some sort of device?

What happened when nine teens went “unplugged” for a week?

Were the teens happier after their week without distractions?

Could YOU go technology-free for a week? (with the exception of work and school responsibilities)

Would you feel naked without your cell phone? Would you freak out if lost it?

Danny Huerta suggests having a “cell phone bucket” by the front door when you have a holiday party – or any get-together. He also recommends that teens not have smart phones until they are older. Listen in as he explains why. Click here for more suggestions.

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December 13, 2016

Title: When Your Kid is the Grinch
Topic: Christmas

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

“I want! I want! I want! I want!” Is this all you are hearing right now from your kids?

Danny Huerta offers some great advice for curbing your child’s Grinch-like attitude, focusing on serving others this Christmas season in a way every child can relate to and understand.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Too many people – of all ages – are too focused on “things” at Christmastime (and all the time). How can we stop this materialistic attitude?

What can parents do for their children to teach thankfulness?

Should parents set a budget for Christmas presents and stick to it?

How does serving others teach our children (and us) to be more thankful?

For more tips, click here.

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December 2, 2016

Title: When Your Kid is the Grinch
Topic: Christmas

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 25, 2016

Title: Enjoy the People Around You
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Family get-togethers are great…but what happens when tempers flare? The holiday can be a total meltdown waiting to happen.

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November 24, 2016

Title: Enjoy the People Around You
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Family get-togethers are great…but what happens when tempers flare? The holiday can be a total meltdown waiting to happen.

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November 23, 2016

Title: How Adoption Changes the World
Topic: National Adoption Month

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

November is National Adoption Month. There are many celebrities who have been adopted.

Paul Batura and his wife are the proud parents of three sons, all of whom they had the privilege of adopting. He has written a great book, “Chosen for Greatness: How Adoption Changes the World” which highlights sixteen well-known personalities who were adopted by loving families.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is adoption part of God’s plan?

In his book, Ron Deal describes the life of sixteen celebrities who are adopted. Did each succeed in spite of being adopted or did each rise to their level of accomplishment because of their adoption and relationship with their new parent or parents?

Did you know Nancy Reagan was adopted???

Ron also discusses a famous baseball player whose parents relinquished their rights. This young man wound up living in a boy’s home. Who could it be?

Many people know that country singer Faith Hill was adopted. How influential were her parents regarding her singing career?

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - How Adoption Changes the World
Topic: National Adoption Month

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What does Paul Batura consider the greatest adoption story of all time?

Why did Paul and his wife decide to adopt three boys?

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November 10, 2016

Title: Is Physician Assisted Suicide “Caring”?
Topic: Physician Assisted Suicide

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Death is inevitable for us all. It may come due to disease, injury, or age. The topics of death and suffering can spark fear, uncertainty, and a desire to control our circumstances. Physician-assisted suicide is positioned by some as a caring response to the challenge of dying. But is it?

Carrie Earll is the Vice President of Public Policy and Government and Spokesperson for Focus on the Family. Listen in as she sheds some light on this sensitive topic.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is physician-assisted suicide, as positioned by some, a caring response to the challenge of dying?

Should physicians, who are trained to cure, be allowed to intentionally kill their patients by means of physician-assisted suicide?

“When death is cheap and life is expensive, what kind of choice is that for people?” Carrie asks. Listen in as she reveals the alarming cost difference between life-saving chemo therapy drugs and a suicide pill.

What message does this send to other patients and the culture at large?

The majority of people who desire physician-assisted suicide are not even terminally ill! They are simply depressed and have emotional distress. There is something very wrong with this…

What does the Bible say about end-of-life issues? How should Christians face death?

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October 26, 2016

Title: Nominate a Mentor
Topic: Mentors

Discussed by Christi Lynn
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Is there someone you know who has been making a difference in a child’s life? Christi Lynn is a spokesperson for Focus on the Family. She is here to invite you to nominate a coach, teacher, leader, grandparent, or other adult who is impacting lives for the Kingdom.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Who is John Avery Whittaker and what is “Adventures in Odyssey”?

Who can be nominated for the John Avery Whittaker award?

Listen in as Christi explains the John Avery Whittaker Award process for this year. To nominate someone for this award, click here.

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October 10, 2016

Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 23, 2016

Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: The Cell Phone Coop
Topic: Family Time

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Chick-Fil-A is in the news again – this time for a strange new challenge for their patrons. CFA is asking their customers to put their cell phones away while they are dining in their restaurant. In fact, they have designed a “Cell Phone Coop” for people to keep their cell phones in while they’re eating!

We have become a “disconnected society” in regards to personal interaction. Here to discuss this phenomenon is Danny Huerta, with Focus on the Family. “We have to put a limit on ourselves,” Danny says. It’s very tempting to check our phones every time it dings and that is exactly the point behind CFA’s “Cell Phone Coop”.

“People complain about not having a depth of relationship with others. Many times we are relying on them to create that depth, rather than ourselves,” Danny believes. Tune in to the next segment as Danny Huerta discusses practical steps to help families disconnect from their phones and reconnect with each other.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - The Cell Phone Coop
Topic: Family Time

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

In today’s society, everyone – from the toddler to the grandpa – has become distracted with electronics. Parents whip out their cell phone or a tablet for their 4 year old to play with at the restaurant. Daddy reads his email while eating dinner. Mama checks Facebook and Pinterest as her children talk eagerly about what happened at school that day. Kids are playing Minecraft or texting their friends about weekend plans instead of helping prepare dinner. Sometimes I long for simpler days…

Danny Huerta has some great practical tips to help families reconnect with each other, especially at mealtime. However, first he explains that some people are introverts and do not enjoy conversation as much as others. We have to be sensitive to that fact. Parents should discuss this issue with their children, no matter their age, before shoving the new “no-cell-phone” rule down their throats.

Chick-Fil-A is rewarding patrons with a free ice cream cone if they leave their cell phones in the “Cell Phone Coop” for the duration of their meal. Danny suggests trying this same technique for a week, and as an incentive, your family will be rewarded with a special dinner or other activity. During the week at home, have a list of questions for your kids and have your kids ask you questions, as well!

If you would like more information or if you need to talk to someone about family-related issues, please call 1.800.A.FAMILY

EDITOR’S NOTE: One thing I have done with my children is print a variety of “table games” and cut the activities into strips (i.e.: one activity per strip of paper) and place them all in a bowl. Every night, someone gets to choose a strip from the bowl; go around the table, taking turns, discussing the game or activity. Usually, we are still laughing and talking after we’ve eaten all our food! Examples of games: Name things that have your favorite color in it – and not just one thing; keep it going the whole meal! What is your dream vacation and describe it in detail – even little ones can participate! Another great one: Everyone names a food, starting with the letter A. The next night, you name foods starting with the letter B. There are 26 letters in the alphabet, so that’s 26 nights of fun! But here’s the kicker – every time someone names a new food, they have to list all the foods previously mentioned! You really have to listen closely to each other!

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August 24, 2016

Title: Your Money Tree Wilting?
Topic: Focus on the Family

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The wilting money tree is a problem many parents are facing – even those who are wealthy. It seems like the more money you have, the more stuff you buy!

Danny Huerta recently offered his opinion concerning a USA Today article by Brett Graff, which challenged parents to “strategically about their spending decisions”. Listen in as he discusses the importance of focusing on the family, not things.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Are too many families, parents in particular, spending too much on things and activities for their kids and grandkids?

Is this mad rush to spend so much on things and activities for our kids leading to a wilting money tree? Danny offers three money rules: make your own normal, make God the center of everything, and teach kids the value of money. Listen in as he expands on each.

How should parents and grandparents begin to think strategically about the way money is used to provide activities and opportunity for kids?

Should parents re-evaluate their spending commitments during the summer months before the school year begins? Sometimes it’s harder than “writing a PHD paper,” Danny believes.

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Title: Advice for “The Talk” with your Kids
Topic: Child Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

The Red Flags are there: Protecting children from sexual assault. Every two minutes an American is sexually assaulted. And every eight minutes, that victim is a child. Meanwhile, only six out of every one thousand perpetrators will end up in prison.

New guest Geremy Keeton is the Director of Focus on the Family’s counseling department and a licensed marriage and family therapist. Today, he offers some advice to parents on how to get the “sex talk” started with your children.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

The CDC reports that one out of four girls and one out of six boys will be sexually assaulted before their eighteenth birthday. How accurate are these statistics?

What terms should parents use when parents talk to their kids about sexual touching? Some terms can be confusing to children, and this topic is often intimidating to parents. It’s hard for everyone! There are some great resources on the Focus on the Family website. One free “having the talk” download can be found here.

Geremy Keeton also recommends rehearsing these three steps with your children, even toddlers: say no, walk or run away, and always talk to mom or dad. He also offers some situations where you can you rehearse this with your children.

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August 19, 2016

Title: Teens and Jobs
Topic: Teens and Jobs

Discussed by Erin Berriman
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

According to the Boston Herald, “Sasha Obama, who has spent eight of her 15 years in the luxurious confines of the White House, is learning how the other half lives this summer. The first daughter is working the takeout window at Nancy’s, a seafood restaurant on Martha’s Vineyard, asking that age old question: ‘Would you like fries with that?’”

Erin Berriman is the mother of three and the film producer with Focus on the Family. She has some advice for parents when it comes to “Teens and Summer Jobs”.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Should parents encourage their teens to get a summer job?

How long should parents “let kids be kids”?

Should college kids work while attending classes?

How and when can parents introduce the Biblical teaching of tithing to their kids?

“Getting your foot in the door for a job is one thing. Doing the work and performing well and being a good employee is the second step to staying there,” Erin advices.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Teens and Jobs
Topic: Teens and Jobs

Discussed by Erin Berriman
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is it important that parents teach their kids how to handle money?

Listen as Erin tells the story of how her son was fired from his first job!

Do students perform better in school when they have a job?

How beneficial is the “gap year” between high school and college?

Erin believes that it is important for parents to include their children in the conversations concerning money, jobs, college, and a gap year. Do not make the decision for them, but make sure your teens and college kids know your expectations.

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July 13, 2016

Title: Talking to Your Kids about Bad Things that Happen
Topic: Bad Things Happen to Good People

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Life, with all its ups and downs and twists and turns, is hard enough for adults. When breaking news interrupts our daily lives with reports of police shootings and the shootings of police officers, what do we tell our children?

Danny Huerta is a counselor with Focus on the Family. Violence and racism are unfortunately a part of our society. He believes it is very important for parents to be sensitive to their children who may be scared after hearing of the shootings that have occurred recently.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Our children and grandchildren may overhear us talking about the recent shootings. If we are troubled, aren’t our children, too? First, we must learn to cope with the sadness, anger, and confusion ourselves before we begin to explain the situation to our kids. Listen in as Danny offers suggestions for adults.

Explaining violence and racism to kids is often avoided or tackled at the wrong time. Danny discusses the appropriate time, age, and how much should be shared; a lot depends on your child’s maturity.

Editor’s Note: It is also important to focus on the positive. Mr. Rogers once stated: “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, 'Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.' To this day, especially in times of 'disaster,' I remember my mother's words, and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers – so many caring people in this world."

How should we respond when someone asks “Why do bad things happen?”

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July 6, 2016

Title: Your Money Tree Wilting?
Topic: Focus on the Family

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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June 28, 2016

Title: Advice for “The Talk” with your Kids
Topic: Child Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Geremy Keeton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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June 17, 2016

Title: What are Dads Good for Anyway?
Topic: Daddy Time

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Men in general and dad’s in particular are too often the blunt of bad jokes.

Danny Huerta is the executive director of the Parenting and Youth department at Focus on the Family. In this role, Danny oversees initiatives that equip parents to disciple and mentor the next generation so they can thrive in Christ. Today, however, he wants to focus on DADS.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Dads are often the fixer, the rough-houser who gets down on the floor and becomes the bunching bag, and even the protector of teenage daughters. But, are dads good for so much more than laughs and protection?

Is there a difference between a “dad” and a “father”?

How does Danny Huerta counsel the single mom?

Do dads make families more successful emotionally, financially, psychologically, and physically? Danny says, “We offer the opportunity for kids to see us and want to be like us, which puts a lot of pressure (on us), but we don’t have to be perfect because we point them to Christ.”

Why do dads make such a difference in families?

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June 9, 2016

Title: Outrage over a Gorilla’s Death
Topic: Animal Rights Gone Crazy

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Outrage still ensues after the killing of an endangered gorilla at the Cincinnati zoo over the Memorial Day weekend after a four-year-old boy fell into the gorilla’s enclosure. Critics questioned the zoo’s decision to kill the gorilla, in spite of the life-threatening danger the young boy faced, going as far as demanding criminal action be taken.

Kelly Rosati, the Vice President of Community Outreach with Focus on the Family, discusses details of the tragic situation.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Where do we draw the line in protecting animal life over human life? Shouldn’t we be as diligent to protect human life as we are to protect the life of an endangered species? “The issue isn’t about whether or not the mother of the little boy was at fault. The issue is about the importance of human life,” Kelly says.

Is Kelly concerned for America when so many people are outraged over the death of a gorilla, yet they are not bothered by the death of nearly 60 million babies through abortion?

Kelly also offers sensible suggestions on how to use this tragedy to spread the love of Jesus to others and gives us hope as the younger generation is becoming more and more pro-life.

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June 8, 2016

Title: How Christians Should Respond to the Transgender Bathroom Issue
Topic: Transgender Agenda

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

National Review’s David French stated: “The Administration has denied that it [the DOJ and DOE letter to all school districts across America] is a threat, noting that it is mere' guidance.' But that is just Orwellian Newspeak. The whole point of the letter is to warn school administrators that they will lose crucial federal funds if they don’t comply with the new rule.”

New guest Bruce Hausknecht says, “It’s more than a privacy issue.” This is also a safety issue – for all people involved. “It has already proven the wisdom of the ages that there is a reason why we have sex-specific rules for men and women,” Bruce states. This issue is not just a hot button for Conservatives; parents across the board are now demanding “sex-segregated” facilities for males and females. Bruce discusses recent polls which show these results.

This is also not a Civil Rights issue, either, which some on the left are trying to claim, as Bruce points out regarding Title IX. He also discusses some recent cases that involve sex-neutral locker/showering facilities and restrooms.

We need to watch the Supreme Court of the United States carefully. The next President will be appointing at least one Justice, if not two or three if there a few current Justices who retire or pass away. Listen in as Bruce Hausknecht offers some long-term suggestions for us to utilize and implement to change what is happening in regards to this issue. Listen in.

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June 2, 2016

Title: Are Your Kids a Slave to the Internet?
Topic: Kids and Technology

Discussed by Dr. John Thorington
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

A new taskmaster is in town, with millions of captives unaware they have a problem. Webster’s dictionary defines addiction as “the state of being enslaved to a habit or practice.” And for many Americans, the internet is ruling over their lives.

One big issue that is arising is “stress anxiety”. New guest Dr. John Thorington, with Focus on the Family, says, “Parents are making a big mistake if they thought this was just an issue for adults, because their kids are facing very real stresses and anxieties just as real as their own.” Dr. Thorington goes on to discuss some of the obvious signs that are present when someone is addicted to the internet or technology. “It really does change the way the brain works,” he adds.

Dr. Thorington also offers some great suggestions for parents to help not only their children and teens, but themselves as well. “Parents can set examples and demonstrate that to their children,” he advises. One of the best ways to limit screen time and encourage family togetherness is the “no cell phones at the dinner table” rule, which we have urged for years. Churches need to more involved, as well. Listen in as he explains how.

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May 25, 2016

Title: The Benefits of Marriage
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Will marrying the right person make you more successful? Will you live a longer, healthier life?

Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation Studies with Focus on the Family. He is with us today to discuss a recent study from the University of Washington on the benefits of marriage. Glenn says, “This isn’t really new. It just adds to a long list of research.”

Glenn reveals some of the information which this and others studies have uncovered. For instance, women who are married are less likely to endure physical abuse from a spouse. Yes, it happens, but women who are in co-habitating relationships experience physical abuse at much higher rates.

Glenn also offers some advice for couples who are struggling. You might not be “in love” every day, but there is something “to love” all the time. With a few exceptions (abuse being one), couples who stick it out through those rough patches are much, much happier in the long run. “You’ll find that those cloudy days – those cloudy months – go by. New fresh days come. And that is more natural to marriage than most people think,” Glenn Stanton states.

Listen in as Glenn discusses more about the benefits of marriage. He has also written several books on this issue, which can be found on the Focus on the Family website:

“Why Marriage Matters”

“The Ring Makes all the Difference”

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Title: Option Ultrasound Program
Topic: Ultrasounds Help Save Babies

Discussed by Bri Stensrud
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Abortion rates are higher around the globe, but lower in the United States.

New guest Bri Stensrud is the Director of Church and Community Outreach with Focus on the Family. In her opinion, abortion is decreasing in the United and Canada because we have such great technological resources to help expectant mothers, specifically ultrasound machines. That is why Focus on the Family began the “Option Ultrasound Program”.

“The ultrasound machine is a game changer,” Bri states. This leads to another fantastic fact: Millennials are probably the most pro-life generation we have seen in a long, long time. “They grew up with ultrasound pictures on refrigerators,” she says.

It all starts at home. Listen in as Bri explains why sometimes you must focus on one issue at a time in order to stop the entire affair. “We cannot have a divisive nature in the pro-life movement any longer,” Bri says passionately. “Let’s do it all together.”

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May 23, 2016

Title: How Christians Should Respond to the Transgender Bathroom Issue
Topic: Transgender Agenda

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 16, 2016

Title: Are Your Kids Sexting?
Topic: Sexting

Discussed by Roberta Perno
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Shock and Awe…You find a nude picture of your daughter on her cell phone…or…you find a nude picture of your teenager’s girlfriend on his cell phone. Now what?

New guest Roberta Perno is a Counselor with Focus on the Family (FOF) and is a frequent speaker at conferences. Her area of expertise centers on adolescent into adulthood, sexual identity, sexual orientation, pornography, depression, and anxiety.

Roberta and others at FOF are helping parents navigate through these waters without the typical anger that arises. “The enemy not only wants to ensnare our children with the influx of social media,” she states, “but he wants the parents to blame and shame [their child].”

When it comes to sex, kids are starting younger and younger, especially with experimenting with the same-sex. Roberta believes that social media is definitely a major factor in this unfortunate trend. Listen in as she discusses how frequently the counselors at FOF receive phone calls from parents regarding this issue and what their advice is. “It’s overwhelming and confusing them,” she says. It’s scary and shocking, but the Lord can definitely be glorified through it all.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are Your Kids Sexting?
Topic: Sexting

Discussed by Roberta Perno
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Sexting Stats among young girls: 40% do it as a joke; 34% do it to feel sexy; 12% do it because they were pressured; 17% share sexts they receive with others.

Sexting, however, is no laughing matter. It is not sexy, either, no matter how old you are. It is becoming an everyday occurrence for many teens. “If adults are struggling with these issues, can you only imagine what our teenagers are experiencing?” Roberta Perno asks.

One problem Roberta is noticing is that teens think that all their text messages and private messages through social media are private, but they are not. The government uses surveillance techniques to monitor underage pornography and teens are caught up in this all the time. Too much texting or sexting is also a bridge to addiction to pornography.

Parents need to step back and begin to educate themselves about the real problems their children and teens are facing. Listen as Roberta gives some more advice to parents regarding rules for cell phones and internet access to safeguard their children. Don’t think your child is exempt just because he or she is a Christian and a “good kid”. No child is immune from the temptation.

Click here for more information on this issue and for ways you can help others. If you would like to talk to a counselor FREE of charge, call 1.855.771.4357.

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April 28, 2016

Title: Teaching Children the Truth
Topic: Moral Relativism

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

You may have heard about or seen a viral video making its way around social media in which a 5’9” white, male journalist asked college students if it was acceptable for him to say he is a 6’5” Asian woman. Well, as you can imagine, the liberal students at the University of Washington had some pretty off-the-wall responses to Joseph Backholm, who is the Director of the Family Policy Institute of Washington and the journalist in the video.

Today, we have Focus on the Family spokesperson, Glenn Stanton, on the show to break down the very obvious problems which this video raises. What Joseph Backholm attempted to prove in his video was that a man can say he is a woman by wearing a dress, but someone cannot change their nationality or height because that would be ludicrous! The video would be funny if it wasn’t such an accurate depiction of the way so many millennials feel in our current society.

Glenn states: “The students were living consistently with that misguided worldview that we can’t really tell anybody that they’re wrong with their own story. And that’s the sad place we’ve come to because of the politics surrounding these issues.” There is nothing in these laws that punishes a man for simply claiming to be a woman. A man does not have to dress like a woman. A man does not need a note from a doctor saying he is undergoing gender reassignment surgery. He is not wrong and he can go into whatever room he wants to go into.

How do we teach our children the truth? Glenn recommends showing this viral video to your children and discuss the reasons why it was made in the first place. “We don’t have to be ugly or judgmental to people,” he states. But we do need to face reality. This issue is not going away any time soon; in fact, it will probably only become harder to ignore. Don’t wait until your kids are already lost to the left. Teach them now what the truth really is.

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April 20, 2016

Title: Are People Born Gay?
Topic: Homosexuality

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

A new Gallup Poll reveals shocking statistics about the acceptance of homosexuality in America. A record 51% believe that people are born gay and 63% agree that being gay is morally acceptable. Also, more and more people believe that “gender constructs of male and female are confining and closed-minded.”

Jeff Johnston, the Issues Analyst on Gender and Sexuality for Focus on the Family, has written a fabulous, detailed report entitled: “Are People Born Gay?” His report is not just from a Biblical view, but also uses scientific facts to support his (and many others) opinion.

Plain and simple, there is not a gay gene. Jeff Johnston explains the purpose of genes, as God designed them: “They [genes] carry recipes in our cells for creating proteins. They don’t determine a person’s attraction, identity, or behavior.” He goes on to say that if you ask geneticists if there is a gay gene, they would laugh at the thought! “There is no human behavior that is purely genetic.” Even studies among twins (identical and fraternal) cannot predict behavior and personalities – let alone a predisposed disposition to being gay!

During the middle of this interview, host Terry Lowry and guest Jeff Johnston discuss the sobering and devastating statistics of child molestation and sexual abuse – even in Christian homes and at church! The early exposure to sex (many times in violent ways) will often convince children, especially males, that they are gay. Females who are abused in childhood or during teen years by a male family member or close friend will often turn to females for love and affection in lesbian relationships.

Another new “idea” that is in its infancy of being researched and studied is the “Gay Brain”. Is this just another tactic from gay activists to try and justify their lifestyle? “The brain is highly changeable,” Jeff declares. “It changes according to experience.” Listen in as he explains this further.

One issue that has gained national attention is “reparative or change therapy”. The gay community, especially those who identify as transgender, want a national ban on the practice, like California has done. Jeff says, “To do so is an infringement on religious freedom and freedom of speech. Every mental health professional group agrees that clients should have the right to determine the course of their treatment.” Christians don’t think it is a “mental disorder”; we simply believe that it is a sin and want to encourage loved ones to turn to God and His will for our lives.

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April 6, 2016

Title: Parenting Tech Obsessed Kids
Topic: Focus on the Family

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Parents, your children want you to pay attention to them. Studies from both secular and Christian sources prove that your kids are hungry for “interpersonal connectivity”. Just turn the cell phone and television off and talk to your kids. If dinner is too hectic with after school activities, then sit down at breakfast. If breakfast is too difficult, then try it at dinner time, even if it is just twice a week. Put the phone down. Sit at the table, not on the couch. And talk to your kids. If you are running from work to soccer to piano to church, try turning off the radio and talking while you are driving – even with a mouthful of CFA! After a few weeks, you will notice a dramatic difference in not only your children, but you as well.

Danny Huerta is a Family Counselor with Focus on the Family. He is here today to discuss “Parenting Today’s Kids in a Tech-Obsessed World”. As a counselor with a private practice, he talks with parents frequently on this very issue. For example, when a new video game is released, kids and teens want to spend hours and hours perfecting their skills to get to the next level and win. Listen in as Danny explains that oftentimes too much game or screen time can actually change their brain and personality! “Their brains are actually being restructured.”

Children and teens may not be thrilled with you when you begin to limit their game and screen time, but over time they realize it really is the best thing. “We’re not here to make our kids happy,” Danny reminds us. “We’re here to help them lead lives that will have happiness.” Danny has some great tips for parents who want to limit their kids game and screen time but aren’t sure where to start. Listen in as he gives some helpful suggestions.

COMPUTER AND PHONE TIP: There are many online filtering websites which ensure your kids are not viewing inappropriate material, such as: Net Nanny, Covenant Eyes, Be Secure, and others. It is vital that you have a protection on your computer, especially with curious teens in the house. There are also apps for smart phones.

For more information on this issue, click here or call 1.800.AFAMILY

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March 28, 2016

Title: Are People Born Gay?
Topic: Homosexuality

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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March 17, 2016

Title: Mommy, Why is that Man Wearing a Dress?
Topic: Transgender Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. This issue should most definitely be discussed with ALL children, when you, the parent, deem it appropriate. Please listen to this segment, take notes, and ask your children age-appropriate questions as soon as possible. Do not delay. If you delay in telling them the truth, the world will convince them of their lies.

One informal survey of transsexuals showed that fifty-six percent reported unwanted sexual touch between the ages of 0 and 12-years-old. Another thirty-eight percent reported unwanted sexual touch between the ages of 13 and 15 and thirty-two percent between the ages of 16 and 18. Victims of sexual abuse often experience gender confusion as a consequence.

Jeff Johnston is an analyst with Focus on the Family. When Bruce Jenner “became a woman”, he and others at FOTF decided to take action. Today, he shares how parents can navigate kids’ questions, emphasize the importance of the male and female distinction, and teach kids about God’s design for sexuality. Jeff doesn’t believe that hormone therapy, surgery, or even changing one’s clothing can alter your biological sex; it’s just not possible.

“Transgender studies show that there is a history of abuse in their past. Sometimes there are even mental disorders,” Jeff explains. “We believe that people don’t need to change into the opposite sex; they need help in embracing their biological reality.” Many studies show that most children “outgrow” their confusion; others do, in fact, need therapy in order to overcome their transgender desires.

Jeff latest article on this issue centers around Jaden Smith, actor Will Smith’s son. Jaden has a large number of followers on Twitter and was named one of the most thirty influential teens in 2015. However, his latest clothing ad is causing quite a ruckus. If you haven’t seen it, Jaden is the new face of a WOMEN’S clothing line. Listen in as Jeff explains the dangers this poses to easily influenced teens and tweens. “It sends a message to them saying it’s okay to play around with your sexuality,” Jeff states. “As our culture embraces gender blurring and gender bending, we’re going to see more kids questioning what it means to be male and female.”

You can find more information on this issue, including books and downloadable resources, here.

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March 10, 2016

Title: The Cell Phone Coop
Topic: Family Time

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - The Cell Phone Coop
Topic: Family Time

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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March 1, 2016

Title: What Would Jesus Say About Physician Assisted Suicide?
Topic: Physician Assisted Suicide

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Should physicians, who are trained to cure, be allowed to intentionally kill their patients by means of physician assisted suicide? Carrie Gordon Earll is the Vice President of Government and Public Policy with Focus on the Family. She has been at the center of efforts to prevent the legalization of physician assisted suicide and believes the push to expand the issue is one that must be stopped.

“People have a right…recognized by the US Supreme Court, to refuse treatment. In fact, it is assault and battery for a doctor to force some kind of medical treatment [on a patient],” Carrie reveals. She does accept the fact that there are interventions which are appropriate and some that may not be. However, if a medical intervention is not going to make a difference in the long-run, that’s when families must make the life-or-death decision – not the physician. “Death is a certainty for everybody, but exactly what that looks like is a certainty for no one,” Carrie says.

FACT: Physician assisted suicide is legal in California, Montana, Oregon, Washington, and Vermont.

Listen in as Carrie Earll discusses the states where physician assisted suicide is already legal and how it affects people with disabilities and terminal illnesses. She continues with this topic in the next segment.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - What Would Jesus Say About Physician Assisted Suicide?
Topic: Physician Assisted Suicide

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

What is the difference between allowing a patient to die naturally by removing technological support compared to a physician deciding if a patient is no longer worthy of saving? “Physician assisted suicide does not let nature take its course. It allows the physician to write a prescription for an overdose of lethal barbiturates for the patient to take,” Carrie Earll explains.

In Oregon, many of the physician assisted suicide patients are elderly single women; they don’t necessarily want to die, but they also do not wish to be a burden to their families in their old age. Fewer and fewer patients are those we would consider a “classic case” – someone with terminal cancer or another debilitating disease. For many, it is a question of cost, not quality of life. “We can’t make cost determination decisions like this with people’s lives. We just can’t,” Carrie pleads. “It puts people, especially the elderly, in a very vulnerable position.”

How should Christians respond to the issue of physician assisted suicide? Carrie Earll encourages everyone, no matter your age, to be very cognizant about any legislation concerning physician assisted suicide – on both the state and national levels. “Where [physician assisted suicide] has been practiced in Europe, it has easily and quickly expanded to euthanasia,” Carrie warns. There are cases in Europe where people have been euthanized who were not terminally ill or elderly; they were simply depressed. It’s so very, very sad.

The word “euthanasia” is not found in the Bible. However, Carrie believes this: “The value of life is in opposition to the enemy’s assignment to steal, kill, and destroy. As Christians, as people of faith, and citizens to this great country, it is our responsibility to defend the weak, the defenseless, and the medically vulnerable.” For help or advice, please visit the Focus on the Family website or call 1.800.A.FAMILY (1.800.232.6459).

Host Note: We would love to hear your thoughts about this issue. Click here to send a comment.

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February 18, 2016

Title: Mommy, Why is that Man Wearing a Dress?
Topic: Transgender Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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February 12, 2016

Title: Do your Kids Like to Read?
Topic: Reading Success

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Studies show that 66% of fourth graders in the U.S. are below the basic reading level. I bet if you were to test them on their video game and internet skills, though, they would surpass many older than them! How can we reverse this devastating trend? How can parents, grandparents, and educators instill a love for reading in the next generation?

New guest, Paul Batura, is the Vice President of Communications for Focus on the Family. In his role, Batura is responsible for media and public relations, internal communications, and community relations to the ministry’s Colorado Springs neighbors. He believes that the right word offered at the right time can transform any circumstance. He and his wife are adoptive parents of three boys.

One thing Paul likes to say is: “Good habits are caught more than they’re taught.” Parents, look in the mirror! Are you addicted to your screen? Do your children see you read a book – ever? Do you read to your children every night, or even a few times a week? It doesn’t matter how old your kids are – read with them! Have them read to you just as much as you read to them.

We say it often on the What’s UP Radio Program – eat dinner with your kids! This is important as well. Paul Batura says, “Kids are drawn to good stories. They first learn what a good story is by sitting around the dinner table and hearing their parents talk.”

Fill your house with good books. Figure out what you children like. If they like sports, get sports books. If they like horses, get horse books. If they like science, get science books. You don’t have to go out and spend a lot of money – go to the library twice a month! Paul also recommends “series books”. And, of course, read the Bible to your kids; Scripture is the most important thing to read. If you want to get really crazy – memorize Scripture with your kids!

You can read Paul Batura’s editorial on this topic here.

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February 2, 2016

Title: Five Reasons NOT to Marry Someone
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Whether you are single, in a new relationship, engaged, or married, this interview is for you! Yes – this interview is for everyone! Glenn Lutjens, a counselor with Focus on the Family, has a great series he has written on “Red Flags in a Relationship”.

The focus of today’s interview is “Five Reasons NOT to Marry Someone”. First, Glenn says to not marry a person who believes there is a “backdoor” to marriage. In other words, cohabitation is not the answer, and divorce shouldn’t be an option. He also says, “See how they deal with other commitments in their life: extended family relationship and work ethic.” The way they handle stressful situations will give you insight as to how they might handle problems within a marriage.

Also, don’t marry someone just because others think it is a good idea. “There are times a parent says ‘This is the person you should marry’… Don’t listen to friends and family. It’s important to be of solid and of sound mind,” he warns. The third reason might surprise some – listen in to hear why Glenn says “being in love will not make you happier”.

The final two reasons NOT to marry someone are pretty common sense reasons: Do not marry someone you are not equally yoked with spiritually and do not marry if you have unresolved issues in your life. “When people do ‘missionary dating’, there will be problems”, he declares. He also references 1 Corinthians 6:14 when Paul discusses the issue of marriage. And, finally, if you or the other person have deep wounds from past relationships, those must be dealt with before marriage can even be considered. “Face those issues and grieve them, then move forward,” Glenn says.

Topics in the “Red Flags in a Relationship” series are:
Red Flags in a Relationship
How Content are you as a Single?
Spiritual Red Flags
Emotional Red Flags
Character Red Flags
Interpersonal Red Flags
Addressing Red Flags
When you may need to End a Relationship
What to Look for in a Relationship
Ask the Tough Questions about your Relationship

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January 28, 2016

Title: Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Avoiding conflict is the worst thing you can do for your marriage. Research show that one of the best predictors for marital success is when couples work through their problems and use conflict as the doorway to deeper intimacy and connection. It’s important, however, to fight in a “better” way.

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Family Ministries with Focus on the Family where he helps couples whose marriages are in crisis. Couples are going to fight. There is no doubt about that. “God created us differently. There will be conflict,” Dr. Smalley declares. “We don’t like conflict, but avoiding it really is one of the worst things a couple can do.”

How couples fight makes all the difference. “Conflict is great for a marriage, but combat is bad,” he likes to tell couples. Listen in as he explains this statement and why he believes it is actually a great opportunity for couples to grow stronger.

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

When is the best time to fight? We all know it’s not in the heat of the moment, but this is often when most fights occur. “There are circumstances that absolutely will create a difficult experience when we try to talk through conflict,” Dr. Smalley states.

He has an acronym he likes to use: “HALT”. Hunger. Angry. Lonely. Tired. These are all the worst times to talk through a conflict. It’s always best to wait until you’re rested and not hungry to talk about issues. Obviously, if you’re already angry you need to let the moment pass and wait until you both have calmer spirits. If you’re feeling lonely or unloved at that moment, pause and pray about what you will say. We often say things we absolutely do not mean and ultimately regret in all of these situations.

It might seem silly, but try to schedule a time to fight! Yes! Schedule a fight! Instead of hashing it out in the moment, stop and tell your spouse it’s time to walk away and talk about it tomorrow night. Go out to dinner or coffee and talk about it then. “By doing that you’re not being impulsive,” Dr. Smalley points out. Don’t force the conversation and the resolution right then. This also gives you both time to think about the conflict – to pray for clarity and peace from God over the situation.

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

“When you feel wounded, you are dangerous! You’re going to behave differently than Christ wants you to behave,” Dr. Greg Smalley warns us. You are like a rolly-polly bug: You’re just crawling along the sidewalk, minding your own business. But when you feel threatened, you roll up into a ball and hide. This is dangerous behavior because you never confront the issue.

Couples often ask Dr. Smalley, “Well, ‘where’ should we fight then?” Dr. Greg shares some “ground rules” for effective fighting. His first response is to fight with an open heart – after you have prayed, listened to some praise and worship music, or watched a funny TV show to help clear your mind of the argument. Listen in as he explains this further and what real sacrifice in marriage looks like.

Dr. Smalley also warns parents to not shy away from fighting in front of their children – in a healthy manner, of course; not the screaming and yelling kind of fight. “They need to know it’s normal. They need to see you resolve your differences,” he believes. It brings kids into the discussion, especially if the problem involves them. It shows them how a healthy marriage is really supposed to be.

You can order a copy of Dr. Greg Smalley’s book “Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage” on Amazon.

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January 20, 2016

Title: Mommy, Why is that Man Wearing a Dress?
Topic: Transgender Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 31, 2015

Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 9, 2015

Title: Mommy Wars
Topic: Mommy Wars

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 4, 2015

Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 3, 2015

Title: Sexting is Serious Problem
Topic: Sexting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

We had Captain Gary Spurger with the Harris County Sheriff’s Office on the show on Wednesday, November 18, 2015 to talk about the legal consequences of “sexting”. Even for a first offense, a teenager who is considered an adult will be charged with a felony and must register as a sex offender for ten years. This could ruin your child’s life. Christian parents shouldn’t assume their kids are immune. Studies reveal that thirty percent of junior high and high school aged students have shared at least one nude photo of themselves with another teen. (This number is probably much higher.)

Danny Huerta is a counselor with Focus on the Family. The news has been plastered with a sexting scandal story at a high school in a small Colorado town. Hundreds of students were involved with taking and sharing nude photos of themselves. Listen in as Danny shares more details about what has been happening at this school.

“This is just the tip of the iceberg with what is happening in our schools and in our nation,” Danny declares. Parents should stay vigilant, periodically checking their teen’s cell phone for nude photos or inappropriate websites they’ve visited. “Begin with a compassionate heart,” he says. Don’t get mad. It might not be your child’s fault. Tune in to the next segment with Danny as he continues to discuss this important topic.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Sexting is Serious Problem
Topic: Sexting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Parents, have you had the “cell phone talk” with your kids? It’s not just about downloading music and texting too late at night anymore. The biggest issue is sexting and your kids have either done it or know someone who has. Danny Huerta believes it is important for parents to set boundaries and limitations on their children’s cell phone use. Conflict will happen; your kids will get upset when you want to check it. Don’t back down, though. “Teens cannot demand freedom because that does not make a healthy life or a heathy family,” Danny says.

If you do find something inappropriate on your teen’s cell phone do not delete the image or text, but instead reassure him/her that you are not angry. However, necessary steps must be taken to make sure no one was hurt and no illegal activity occurred. This will include involving the school and the police. There are harsh consequences that must be administered because this is not a joke or something kids do to pass time. It is child pornography. In fact, according to Captain Gary Spurger, it is child sexual assault.

One decision can ruin a life – or two or three or hundreds. The students in Colorado are discovering the consequences of sexting right now. They didn’t think it could happen to them. It was fun and made them feel important. But now many are losing athletic and academic scholarships. The teens who are considered adults face jail time and steep fines. Our children need to know just how serious and dangerous sexting can be.

Go to the Focus on the Family website and search for “What Parents Should know about Sexting” for more information.

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November 30, 2015

Title: Telling your Children the Bad News of the World
Topic: Bad Things Happen to Good People

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

“From the beginning of time, God has responded to evil by bringing His presence through the kindness of other people, through reconciliation, and through restoration,” Danny Huerta, Focus on the Family.

It is hard to talk to our kids about bad things that happen in this world, whether it be terrorist attacks, war, death, or natural disasters. We shouldn’t shy away from the topic, though. Kids need to know that there is a loving, caring God that still holds His children in the palm of His hand. He cares for all His creation – even the “bad guys”.

Danny Huerta is a counselor with Focus on the Family. Regarding the Paris attacks and other events around the world, he says, “Parents must look at their own emotional state first before they share the news with their children. Sometimes they (parents) will overshare out of their own anxiety.” Listen in as Danny shares suggestions on how to share bad news with children depending on their age.

How are parents to approach events which happen close to home, though? Danny says, “Initially you want to listen and affirm that their anxiety is understandable. Let them talk through their feelings.” He goes on to explain that younger children will often “move forward” after they hear bad news from a different area of the country or the world. However, if the child witnesses a tragic accident or a loved ones dies, they might need more time to process the information.

If you would like more advice on how to talk to your kids about “bad things” or if your child is exhibiting emotional instability after a tragic event, please call Focus on the Family at 1.800.A.FAMILY to seek advice and help in your area.

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November 19, 2015

Title: Sexting is Serious Problem
Topic: Sexting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Sexting is Serious Problem
Topic: Sexting

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 10, 2015

Title: The Divorce No One Sees Coming
Topic: Divorce in the Church

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

A recent study by LifeWay Research reveals that many troubled marriages within the church go completely unnoticed. After all, we’re Christians and our lives are supposed to be perfect, right?

When Christian couples begin to experience a disconnected feeling with each other in their marriage, they oftentimes do not let anyone know – not even their close friends. They may feel embarrassed or think no one will understand. Further studies show that pastors believe their church is a safe place to get marital support and help. Married couples believe this to be true, as well. But factor in people who are divorced and this number decreases dramatically.

Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Family Ministries within Focus on the Family. “Many couples look happily married,” he says, Many not only attend church together regularly, but also served in various capacities throughout the church, as well. Even though the divorce rate within the church is nearly the same for couples with no religious affiliation, this revelation was very surprising to Dr. Smalley. He strongly urges couples to join a couple’s small group to strengthen your marriage. But, even Dr. Smalley agrees that sometimes that just isn’t enough.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - The Divorce No One Sees Coming
Topic: Divorce in the Church

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Research shows that many couples only talk to each other for four minutes every day. Four minutes. How much time do you spend looking on Facebook or watching the news at night? Wouldn’t spending that time actually talking to your spouse be better?

What is your church doing to reach out to couples? Do they offer counseling services? Do they offer marital classes or Bible study groups? Dr. Greg Smalley continues to discuss the recent survey results from LifeWay Research concerning marriage, divorce, and the church. Thirty-one percent of couples did not tell anyone in their church that they were experiencing marital problems. Everyone has problems. No marriage is perfect. In fact, most are far from perfect. The difference, however, between healthy marriages and the rocky marriages is communication.

Dr. Smalley says, “We need to let couples know that it’s okay to have a fight. It’s okay to let others know you’re hurting.” Don’t pretend. Don’t fake it. Be honest with each other. Don’t go through it alone. Most pastors believe their church has plenty of excellent resources, like counseling or marriage classes, to help couples regain control of the marriage. However, the majority of divorced couples were never aware their church even had those services! This needs to change – quickly.

On February 14, 2016, Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife will be hosting another “Honoring Marriage Event”. It is a national event based on Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage should be honored by all.” Listen in as Dr. Smalley explains why they believe it is important to incorporate ALL members of a family in marriage, not just mom and dad.

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October 30, 2015

Title: Making your Marriage Magnificent
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

Marriage is tough; it is not for the weak and weary. The odds are definitely stacked against couples. In a world where marriages are falling to pieces all around us, how does your marriage measure up?

Dr. Jared Pingleton is the Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the Family. “Marriage is a life-long covenant,” Dr. Pingleton says. “Yet, we are not taught by Hollywood and Hallmark that it is.”

In his book, “Making Magnificent Marriages” Dr. Pingleton has a section entitled “Leaving, Weaving, and Cleaving”. Moses, Paul, and Jesus were the only three figures in the Bible who said the same thing: Love God fully and love your neighbor as yourself. But, how does this tie into marriage? Listen in as Dr. Pingleton explains.

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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Making your Marriage Magnificent
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Nobody walks back down the aisle after getting married, flipping a coin, saying “Well, it’s a 50/50 chance”.

Dr. Jared Pingleton encourages every couple, especially those with rocky marriages, to take an “inventory” of where they invest their time. Are you really spending enough time with your spouse? He designed his book “Making Magnificent Marriages” for this very purpose. Each chapter includes Bible studies, three questions for each individual to answer separately, and questions to be discussed together. This layout also makes the book ideal for groups of couples to study together.

“We all have 168 hours every week,” Dr. Pingleton says. “How we choose to allocate that resource is much more important than any other resource we have.” If you waste an hour, you can never get that back. He suggests that couples go back to courtship or dating. When you first met your significant other you wanted to spend as much time together as possible. What happened to that desire? Bring it back!

Do you spend more time working out or shopping or watching TV than you do with your spouse? Are you and your spouse attending church together? More importantly, are you praying for and with each other?

Dr. Pingleton also discusses the differences between a contract and a covenant. Marriage is not just a piece of paper. Marriage is integrity and not dependent upon empty promises. Marriage is setting goals and actually achieving them. “If we sow good seeds into a marriage, we are going to reap the rewards. If we sow lovingly, we are going to reap lovingly.” Dr. Pingleton says.

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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Making your Marriage Magnificent
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

If you are contemplating divorce, Dr. Pingleton encourages you to call Focus on the Family at 1.800.A.FAMILY to speak to a licensed counselor free of charge. There is hope and healing waiting for you in the arms of Jesus.

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October 20, 2015

Title: When Family Dinnertime is Lousy
Topic: Family Dinner Time

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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October 5, 2015

Title: Focusing on Healing
Topic: Hope and Healing in a Broken World

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Focusing on Healing
Topic: Hope and Healing in a Broken World

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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September 9, 2015

Title: Ashley Madison Hack
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Harry Pearson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Sometime internet hackers are applauded and sometime they are hated. The Ashley Madison cheating-for-married-people hack has affected millions of people – celebrities, athletes, average Joes, and even pastors and leaders in the church. But was this a good or a bad hack?

Dr. Harry Pearson is an Addictions and Pastoral Counselor with Focus on the Family. When people – men or women – use a website like Ashley Madison, there are obvious underlying issues. First, Dr. Pearson urges all couples to seek pre-marital counseling before you even get married. Understanding God’s meaning for marriage and placing Him above all is key.

Second, Dr. Pearson says prayer is essential to every marriage. When the divorce rate for Christians is almost equal to couples who do not attend church, it becomes a spiritual problem. Pray with and for your spouse every day. Listen in as he discusses other key dos and donts for couples.

If you or someone you know needs marital advice, please call Focus on the Family at 800.A.FAMILY. They can help counsel you and will help you contact a licensed Christian marriage counselor in your area. Don’t wait for an affair to make a change because then it may be too late.

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September 1, 2015

Title: Gender Neutral Toys
Topic: Gender Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Should children’s toys and games be gender-neutral? Target recently announced that their stores will phase out all “gender bias colors” related to children’s toys and games. In other words, no pink or purple pointing the direction to the girl toys and no blue or green showing customers where boy games are. Have we really stooped to this level, America, where our girls can’t just like dolls and boys are criticized for only wanting to play with action figures?

Glenn Stanton is the Director for Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. He is also the author of “Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity & Femininity” Glenn says this of the controversy: “There are boys and girls in the world. And boys are going to gravitate to the boy stuff and girls gravitate to the girls stuff. Not because culture says to but because they like them!”

Besides, so what if a girl likes Buzz Light Year and a boy likes to pretend to mop and cook? That girl will just know how to defend herself if she gets picked on and that boy is going to make a great husband for a woman someday!

Tune in to the next segment with Glenn Stanton as he discusses his great book.

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Title: Girls and Boys Are Different – And They Should Be!
Topic: Book Review

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Parenting is the toughest job in the world. We’re in charge of little people who will grow up to be big people with their own lives. We don’t want to mess up, but we do – all the time. How do we know what to do? The Bible is, of course, the best “how-to manual” we can follow. In today’s society, however, there are a lot of people who tell us we are wrong.

Glenn Stanton is an expert concerning gender issues. In his book, “Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity & Femininity” Glenn covers one of the biggest issues of today: Gender Bias. “We don’t have to guide our children not to be liars,” he points out, “but in some sense we have to step in.” The same goes for steering our children into masculinity and femininity. “There are a number of different ways to be a healthy boy and girl.”

Have gender roles changed, though? Glenn doesn’t really think so. Listen in as he explains how males will always be males and females will always be females. However, boys don’t have to like sports and girls don’t have to like ballet. “Sometimes the lines are blurry, but we can still talk meaningfully about boy and girl stuff,” Glenn believes.

God created us in His image and in His image He created us male and female. This is important!

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Title: What you Need to know about Molestation and Sexual Abuse
Topic: Molestation and Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Over the past two weeks, the news has been filled with stories, speculation, and commentary about Josh Duggar, the eldest child of the famed reality-TV family, who confirmed allegations that he molested young girls as a teenager.

Although the Duggar controversy has brought molestation to the forefront, sexual abuse is sadly more common than most people think. The Center for Disease Control (CDC) estimates that approximately 1 in 6 boys and 1 in 4 girls are sexually abused before they turn 18.

As parents react to these news stories and statistics, they find themselves asking important questions. Dr. Jared Pingleton is a Clinical Psychologist and Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the Family. If you have questions or concerns about this topic, please listen in.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - What you Need to know about Molestation and Sexual Abuse
Topic: Molestation and Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

In this second segment with Dr. Pingleton, he continues to answer some of the tough questions parents may have concerning molestation and sexual abuse. What are the signs? Is there a certain “type” of abuser – a friend or close relative of the family? What should I do if my child is being abused? What if my child tells me he/she is being abused?

What if my child is the abuser?

If you or someone you know has been or is being molested or sexually abused, please please, please call Focus on the Family for help 1-800-A-FAMILY or click [here] for help.

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August 18, 2015

Title: Gender Neutral Toys
Topic: Gender Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Girls and Boys Are Different – And They Should Be!
Topic: Book Review

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with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Miscarriage: You’re not Alone in Your Loss
Topic: Miscarriage Information

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

If you have ever experienced a miscarriage, my heart goes out to you. You most definitely have my sincerest sympathy. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you suffered. This segment with Erin Smalley reveals that you are not alone. There are nearly 1 million miscarriages every year in the United States, yet many people think that they are uncommon. About forty percent of these women, and even their husbands, suffer from depression after a miscarriage.

Just about every church offers grief counseling for members who lose a loved one, but many are unprepared when one suffers a miscarriage. Erin encourages pastors and leaders to train at least one staff person for situations such as this. Erin points out that there are plenty of support groups and organizations that are fully equipped to help and care for women and men who find themselves with empty arms when their hearts were once so full.

People who have never experienced a miscarriage just don’t understand the pain. They don’t intend on being insensitive, but certain things they say or do can be really upsetting. Offering a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to their grief is the best thing you can do. Listen in as Erin Smalley gives some advice to family and friends of those hurting after a miscarriage.

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June 30, 2015

Title: What is Next for Christians?
Topic: Same-Sex Marriage and the Church

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

By now, I’m sure that most of you have seen some lively debates on social media over the SCOTUS decision in favor of homosexual marriage in all 50 states. Many of you may have even been in the middle of some of those fiery discussions! While there is absolutely nothing wrong with friendly disputes, we must remember that, as Christians, what we say should be out of love and not hate.

Carrie Earll, with Focus on the Family, is here to help you better understand ruling and how we can engage in friendly conversation with others concerning our personal beliefs. She agrees that we must be cautious in what we say and how we say it. “Check your motive. Check your tone. Check your message,” Carrie says. Be prepared with good questions, but also have good answers, too!

As for religious liberty, Carrie Earll says, “The courts have now created a right of ‘sexual liberty’.” It will not end with florists and bakers and photographers; churches will be next. Listen in as Carrie explains how churches that rent out their facilities to outside organizations may be forced to accommodate LGBT groups – and even weddings.

This ruling goes far beyond businesses and churches, though. Public schools, Christian counselors, and non-profit organizations – even radio and television personalities – will all be affected, too. “This is not about redefining marriage. This is not even about two people. This is about all of society,” Carrie Earll says.

Joshua 24:15 NKJV “And if it seems evil for you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the river, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you will dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

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June 29, 2015

Title: Is Any Marriage Safe Anymore?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Tullian Tchividjian, the grandson of Evangelical Preacher Billy Graham, recently resigned his position as minster of the megachurch Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church due to the allegation that he had an extramarital affair. He has not denied this revelation. Tullian is not alone; high-profile people have been struggling with the issue of adultery since Biblical times. Does King David ring a bell?

Dr. Jared Pingleton, the Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the Family, offers help and hope to couples who are struggling in their marriage, specifically when adultery is involved. While there is some controversy concerning the divorce rate among Christians compared to non-Christians, one fact remains constant: Those who are more grounded in their faith and attend church together are less likely to divorce.

Dr. Pingleton discusses some risk factors when it comes to adultery for everyone, not just Christian leaders. First, couples need to keep dating each other. Never quit trying to impress your spouse. Always do your best to make them feel their best.

Dr. Pingleton shares a creative way to double date – or even triple date! – with other couples from church to make it easier – and cheaper! – to spend time with your spouse! He also compares navigating married life to a training Olympic athlete and a bank account. How? Listen in as he explains.

In the next segment, Dr. Pingleton continues with more risk factors for adultery and signs to look for.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Is Any Marriage Safe Anymore?
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Your integrity is on the line. Guard it. Keep it. No one can take it away without your permission.

There’s an old saying that goes: “The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.” Dr. Pingleton uses this and Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart” to explain this. Adultery begins within, not with someone else. If you find yourself constantly thinking about a co-worker, for example, you need to examine yourself; possibly even seek outside help to stop those feelings of attraction before you act on them.

Also, don’t ever share dissatisfactions about your spouse with a person of the opposite sex. This oftentimes starts an emotional affair, which leads to lying about your whereabouts. This is a big red flag! Stop doing it! If you don’t, the sexual affair will begin soon enough.

“Marriage requires ongoing maintenance,” Dr. Pingleton says. Couples should place “practical boundaries” on their marriage. The most important boundary is to never be alone with a person of the opposite sex. Avoid even the appearance of evil and run from temptation. This and other marriage solutions can be found in Dr. Pingleton’s book, “Making Magnificent Marriages”.

If your marriage is need of a reboot, Dr. Pingleton also suggests an oldie, but a goodie: the book “His Needs. Her Needs.” This book is a great tool in “affair-proofing” your marriage.

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June 10, 2015

Title: What you Need to know about Molestation and Sexual Abuse
Topic: Molestation and Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - What you Need to know about Molestation and Sexual Abuse
Topic: Molestation and Sexual Abuse

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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June 1, 2015

Title: Military Family Units are Struggling
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Since 2001, more than 2 million American children have had a parent deployed at least once, and 37% of those kids “seriously worry” about their deployed mom or dad. Dr. Jared Pingleton discusses just how difficult it is for spouses and children when their husband/wife or parent are not there, possibly even in harm’s way.

Dr. Pingleton says it is important for neighbors or church members to adopt a military family. This is a great way to extend the hand of God to people in need of not only financial support but a lending ear. People can even help with babysitting or homework, too. Everything helps; please do not hesitate to reach out, no matter what you can do.

Dr. Pingleton also discusses just how bad PTSD is among military members. Many people do not realize that the VA waiting time for an evaluation with a therapist can be up to 18 months! Many times, that appointment comes too late for men and women and their families.

If you or someone you know is in need of encouragement or help, please call Focus on the Family at 800.A.FAMILY or click [here]. There is help out there. Don’t be afraid to ask for it.

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May 28, 2015

Title: Is It Ok to Embarrass Your Kids?
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Erin Berriman
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

“Mom!” “Dad!” “Stop embarrassing me!” We’ve all embarrassed our kids at one point or another. Sometimes on purpose. Other times unintentionally. But does it really affect them negatively?

Erin Berriman is with Focus on the Family. Erin has three teenagers. She confesses that there have been times when she did something that seemed unimportant to her, but her kids were mortified! She offers some advice for parents on how they can be more aware around their teens.

Erin says to first remember how it was when you were 16 years old. “Be mindful of their heart,” she says. “We do wound our children.” When we mess up, our Father does not humiliate us. Parents, likewise, shouldn’t humiliate their kids on purpose.

“It’s okay to have healthy conflict,” Erin Berriman continues. Ask your children how you embarrass them. Really listen to them and hear what they have to say. Also let your kids know when they embarrass you! Use those moments as teachable lessons for everyone in the family.

Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers do not exasperate your children; instead bring them up in the training and the instruction of the Lord.”

For more from Focus on the Family, click [here].

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May 26, 2015

Title: The IKEA Meltdown
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

You have vowed to love, honor, and cherish your spouse through sickness and health, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death do you part. But, you never promised to put furniture together from IKEA! Erin Smalley is a clinical psychologist with Focus on the Family. She explains the “IKEA Meltdown”.

We are all on our best behavior when we’re dating and engaged. We don’t want to show our “bad side” to our significant other. Then we get married and go to pick out new furniture that must be assembled. Erin says it’s not really about the “furniture” though; it’s about the messages we send each other and how we handle the situation. “It’s important to look beyond the furniture to what is really going on in your relationship,” Erin says.

Once you realize that you are really on the same team, things go much more smoothly. Honoring and respecting each other are just as vital as communication and love. Click [here] for more from Erin Smalley and Focus on the Family.

You can order a copy of Erin’s book, co-written with her husband Greg, on [Amazon].

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Title: Mommy Wars
Topic: Mommy Wars

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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May 1, 2015

Title: The Texting Hat
Topic: Technology

Discussed by Jackson Dunn
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

It’s just a hat. A hat that could change your life. Yes, a hat. Jackson Dunn, the Director of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family, explains “The Hat”.

Even before the age of smart phones and iPads and other technological advances which monopolize our time, research discovered that the average couple only engaged in healthy conversation for four minutes a day. Jackson Dunn discusses a program they have developed to help you invest more time in your family: Make Every Day Count.

Jackson also says, “Sometimes we try to do twelve things at once.” He gives some suggestions on how to make changes starting tonight with your family. “Never let the family dog be the most excited person to see your spouse walk through the door.” Also, end the day with a prayer of gratitude.

Make sure you click on the video on our home page to see “The Hat”.

Learn more about Jackson Dunn and the Marriage and Family Formation group [here].

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April 22, 2015

Title: Is It Ok to Embarrass Your Kids?
Topic: Parenting

Discussed by Erin Berriman
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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April 6, 2015

Title: Habits and Addictions: Don't be Obsessed
Topic: Habits and Addictions

Discussed by Dr. Harry Pearson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Sometimes bad habits become bad addictions. Celebrities aren’t the only ones who have problems with drugs and alcohol. It could be your neighbor, a co-worker, a family member, a child, or even the person sitting next to you in the pew.

Dr. Harry Pearson is an Addictions and Pastoral Counselor with Focus on the Family Dr. Pearson encourages us to take care of ourselves, first and foremost. If we take care of ourselves and eat healthy and get enough sleep, we won’t need drugs or alcohol to “cope” with the curveballs life throws at us. “These substances are very addictive. You will lose control. No matter how hard you try. No matter what you say. You will lose control.”

Most people start abusing prescription drugs, drinking too much, or using illegal drugs to “feel better”. But GOD wants to help you feel better! Dr. Pearson discusses some of the warning signs of someone who might have a bad habit that is quickly becoming a bad addiction. “An addiction problem is beyond your ability to conquer. You need help. You need to be in a program,” Dr. Pearson says. “Don’t be embarrassed or ashamed. We are all in the Body of Christ,” Dr. Pearson continues. “You don’t have to be alone. You don’t have to feel guilty.”

If you or someone you know is suffering from an addiction, please call Focus on the Family at 855-771-4357 or go to your church – any church – to seek help from a pastor. They care. They love you. They can help. But more importantly, God loves you and wants to help you find your way to Him. “Do not define yourself by your feelings. Define yourself by your identity in Christ,” Dr. Pearson urges.

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March 27, 2015

Title: Mommy Wars
Topic: Mommy Wars

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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March 23, 2015

Title: Loving Homosexuals
Topic: Homosexual Issues

Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.

Is it ok to be friends with gay men and lesbian women? What if they want to get married? Should I attend their wedding? What if my child says “I’m gay”? What did Jesus say – and not say – about homosexuality? What is the role of the church in the same-sex debate? What is your pastor preaching – or not preaching – from the pulpit concerning the issue?

Here to discuss all those questions and more is the Director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family, Glenn Stanton. Glenn served in the George W. Bush administration for many years as a consultant on increasing fatherhood involvement in the Head Start program. He has also written many books on marriage, the family, and homosexuality. His latest book, “Loving My (LGBT) Neighbor: Being Friends in Grace and Truth,” explores how Christians should interact with gay or lesbian neighbors in a Christ-honoring way.

First, Glenn reminds us that we all have a “fatal disease called sin and we all have a need for salvation”. We are all called to show the love of God. But, he continues, “There is a delicate balance we must recognize between grace and truth.”

Listen in as Glenn Stanton gives his personal opinion on these situations, which he acquires from the Bible and the words that Jesus said. His books can be found [here].

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March 9, 2015

Title: Be Honest: Do you have Road Rage?
Topic: Road Rage

Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

The majority (80%) of people believe that road rage is a serious or extremely serious risk that jeopardizes their safety. Dr. Jared Pingleton says, “Too many people view their car as an extension of their family room.” What does he mean by this statement?

We have to remember that there is another human being in the car beside us that veered into our lane or who cut us off on the freeway. We also must remember that there is a human being in the car we almost side-swiped or didn’t see until we had already changed lanes.

Dr. Pingleton says, “We are not going to change the other person. Try not to react, but respond, instead.” He even uses scripture to back up his thoughts! Listen in as he explains how people sometimes react harshly (with road rage) because they are fearful. Put yourself in their shoes. If you believe your safety has been threatened, try to get away from the situation by switching lanes or pulling over for a few minutes to regain your composure.

If you would like to speak with a licensed counselor free of charge over any relationship-type issue, please call 1.800.A.FAMILY or click [here].

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February 25, 2015

Title: Talking to your Kids about ISIS
Topic: ISIS

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

If your teen has a Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram account, more than likely they’ve seen something about ISIS. Maybe they’ve seen a disturbing video or photo about the beheadings. They may have even read a story online about young girls who are lured into leaving their families to join ISIS. Your young children might have heard a news story on TV about the issue before you could quickly change the channel.

It is not a topic we really want to discuss with our children, but we must. They need to know the dangers. They need to know the truth about ISIS and what their goals are.

Danny Huerta is a counselor with Focus on the Family. He says, “Young minds are trying to grasp the fact that this is actually happening.” But how does it relate to our children? Should we really tell them what it going on? Won’t it just scare them?

Danny believes your child’s age, temperament, and personality are key to knowing when and if your child is ready to discuss a topic like ISIS. Listen in as Danny uses a personal story with his own nine-year-old daughter to explain how parents and grandparents can broach the subject.

Danny also says it is important to note that the fear is natural, especially for kids. It’s hard to turn off that anxiety. God tells us not to worry and not to fear, though, and we must remind our kids (while reminding ourselves) that He is in control.

Call the Focus on the Family Hotline at 1.800.A.FAMILY if you need to talk to someone about this or any other issue or click [here].

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January 12, 2015

Title: Option Ultrasound Program
Topic: Ultrasounds Help Save Babies

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Focus on the Family’s pro-life division has several campaigns occurring during the month of January, Sanctity of Life Month. We talked about one on Friday, January 9, the “I See Two” campaign. You can click on the archives to listen to the interview with their program director, Betsy Powell.

Today, it is an honor to have Robyn Chambers join us to discuss their “Option Ultrasound” program. This program has been in effect for a decade and has helped save over 300,000 babies across the nation. Robyn encourages everyone to “Be A Voice” in their community and their church. You can “Be A Voice” at work. If you have teens or college-age students, they can “Be A Voice” on campus.

Yes, talking about abortion is sometimes difficult and uncomfortable, but talking about life is better! One of the best tools in encouraging a woman to choose life is seeing her baby on an ultrasound. And that is what the “Option Ultrasound” program is all about: giving crisis pregnancy centers the training and low-cost equipment to offer free ultrasounds to women who are at a cross-roads. Listen in as Robyn explains more about the importance of ultrasounds and why abortionist hate them.

NOTE: Because of generous donors, the “Option Ultrasound” program with Focus on the Family has provided 658 grants across the United States for low-cost ultrasound machines and training! Praise the Lord!

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Option Ultrasound Program
Topic: Ultrasounds Help Save Babies

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

In this second segment with Robyn Chambers, she shares how the “Option Ultrasound” program has changed women’s lives. One woman from Tennessee said, “Seeing my baby on the ultrasound made me look at my pregnancy in a different way. I mostly remember seeing his teeny, tiny heart beating. It was so fast. It was real. It was in me and this was my child.”

She also shares about a young woman in Colorado who had already decided to have an abortion. However, the father of the baby convinced her to talk to someone about the decision before following through. Listen in as Robyn shares this amazing, life-changing story!

To hear more stories, grab some tissues and go to and click on the “Faces of Life” banner on the right-hand side of the page or click [here].

If you’ve had an abortion, we encourage you to find a crisis pregnancy center in your area. Most offer free post-abortion healing counseling. Don’t suffer alone in silence. Log on to www.BeAVoice.net for more information.

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December 12, 2014

Title: Surviving the Holidays
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Family traditions are important to everyone no matter how “weird” they may seem to outsiders. Most families have traditions, especially at Christmastime. Some are “normal” traditions, like eating ham on Christmas Eve. Some go caroling with their neighbors. Some may play games or open presents the day after Christmas. Others may seem strange, like matching outfits for an awkward family photo or eating gumbo instead of ham!

No matter what “your” tradition may be, however, when you start a new family or have a blended family, sometimes those traditions cause big headaches – and even heartaches. Erin Smalley, with Focus on the Family’s Marriage Ministry, says it’s great to keep the old traditions going, but it’s just as important to form new ones.

Also discussed in this segment is the emotional aspect of holidays. Some have had a spouse or parent pass away this year; some may have gotten divorced and won’t have their children with them on Christmas Day. This can be a very difficult time instead of a joyous occasion. Don’t be afraid to talk about those feelings, especially with children. Erin says the best chance of decreasing conflict in these types of situations is to plan ahead and be flexible. Listen in to the next segment for more tips and advice on how to survive the holidays.

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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Surviving the Holidays
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Change is hard. Most people have a hard time with change. Many times, the holidays are the hardest time to experience change.

Grandparents – be flexible with baby and toddler naptimes. Parents – make sure you communicate specific needs in advance with everyone involved. Kids – now is the best time to practice your manners and be on your best behavior! (That’s my own advice!)

As Christians, we want to celebrate the real reason for Christmastime. But how do we share our faith if a family member is an unbeliever? We certainly don’t want to add more stress or tension to this joyous time, but we do want to share the Love of God with our family. Erin has some great non-threatening tips for this as well!

Interesting Christmas Fact: In 1607, Christmas was celebrated for the first time in America in Jamestown, VA.

Log on to www.Family.org for more on this and other issues families struggle with.

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Title: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking.
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

We want the occasions to be "perfect" and we want all our dreams—of connection, harmony, joy and bliss—to come true. Sometimes, though, we remember Christmases past.

Memories of past get-togethers come flooding back.

Erin Smalley helps us today to plan for the good times as well as the ‘rough moments’ that will happen in most homes during the upcoming holidays.

For comforting words, listen in.

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Title: part 2 of 3
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

We get to choose our friends or the people we spend time with based on common values, interests, beliefs, personalities, politics, etc. We didn’t get to pick our family; thus we may see life very differently.

Before family and friends arrive for the holidays, spend time with those you live with every day. Discuss who is coming, and make plans on handling conflict before it arrives. Plan ahead for ‘escape’ zones: just a few chairs on the patio, statements like: Please excuse me for a moment; and I need a bathroom break…remove yourself for a moment…

Erin Smalley helps us today to plan for the good times as well as the ‘rough moments’ that will happen in most homes during the upcoming holidays.

For comforting words, listen in.

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Title: Part 3 of 3
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Make your goal to be a servant. “Even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve...” (Matthew 20:28); “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched...” (Proverbs 11:25); “The greatest among you shall be your servant.” (Matthew 23:11)

In our home, the men do the dishes after the celebration meal.

Erin Smalley helps us today to plan for the good times as well as the ‘rough moments’ that will happen in most homes during the upcoming holidays.

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January 23, 2014

Title: The Window to the Womb Changes Lives
Topic: Pro-Life Victories

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Hundreds of thousands of lives have been saved by providing a “Window to the Womb” to moms who would have otherwise chosen abortion.

Kelly Rosati, with Focus on the Family, talks about this “Gospel of Life” that is saving lives and saving souls.

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Title: Part 2 of 2
Topic: Pro-Life Victories

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Ultrasound machines are not cheap, but the impact on women – and men – is priceless.

The program that Focus on the Family uses not only provides the ultrasound machines, but they also train the workers on the devices.
Will you help save more babies?

Log on to www.FOTF.org to see what you can do.

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January 13, 2014

Title: The Window to the Womb Changes Lives
Topic: Pro-Life Victories

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

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Title: Part 2 of 2
Topic: Pro-Life Victories

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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December 16, 2013

Title: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking.
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 3

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Title: part 2 of 3
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Part 3 of 3
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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November 11, 2013

Title: Don’t Let Someone Else Do What You Can
Topic: National Adoption Month

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Part 1 of 2

Did you know that there are more than 100,000 older children in the American foster care system today?

Kelly Rosati is the Vice President of Community Outreach with Focus on the Family. An adoptive mom herself, Kelly discusses the need for more adoptive parents.
What can you do: cook, clean, help with childcare, pray, give financially? For more, log onto www.IcareAboutOrphans.org.

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Title: Part 2 of 2
Topic: National Adoption Month

Discussed by Kelly Rosati
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

All Christians need to be more aware of the need for adoptive parents. Please, don’t just go to church, listen to the preacher, and then go home. Pray with your spouse about becoming a foster or adoptive parent.

Listen in for more and log on to www.IcareAboutOrphans.org.

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February 23, 2009

Title: FOCUS ON MARRIAGE CONFERENCE SATURDAY FEBRUARY 28 Part 1 of 2
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Mitch Temple
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Guest Mitch Temple discusses some of the speakers for the Focus on Marriage Conference that will be simulcast at several churches in the Houston area on Saturday, February 28. Log onto www.fotf.org for more information.

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Title: FOCUS ON MARRIAGE CONFERENCE SATURDAY FEBRUARY 28 Part 2 of 2
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Mitch Temple
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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February 20, 2009

Title: FOCUS ON MARRIAGE CONFERENCE SATURDAY FEBRUARY 28 Part 1 of 2
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Mitch Temple
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: FOCUS ON MARRIAGE CONFERENCE SATURDAY FEBRUARY 28 Part 2 of 2
Topic: Marriage and the Family

Discussed by Mitch Temple
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Guest Mitch Temple continues discussing the Focus on Marriage Conference that will be simulcast at several churches in the Houston area on Saturday, February 28. Log onto www.fotf.org for more information.

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April 28, 2008

Title: A Best of Segment:Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course: A Seminar by Focus on the Family
Topic: Current Events

Discussed by Terrance Chatmon
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Today, less than 10% of all Christians read the Bible as a family, less than 5% of Christians worship as a family, and less that 10% pray together. Three out of four kids from Christian homes are walking away from the faith after High School. Focus on the Family presents “Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course” on Saturday, May 10th at Grace Community Church on the Gulf Freeway. For all the details log onto www.family.org/spiritualcourse or call 800-A-FAMILY

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Title: More on the: Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course: A Seminar by Focus on the Family
Topic: Current Events

Discussed by Terrance Chatmon
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Are you kids equipped to know and love God and defend their faith and to witness to the lost? How about you? Focus on the Family presents “Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course” on Saturday, May 10th at Grace Community Church on the Gulf Freeway. For all the details log onto www.family.org/spiritualcourse or call 800-A-FAMILY

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April 25, 2008

Title: Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course: A Seminar by Focus on the Family
Topic: Current Events

Discussed by Terrance Chatmon
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

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Title: Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course: A Seminar by Focus on the Family Part 2
Topic: Current Events

Discussed by Terrance Chatmon
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Today, less than 1-% of all Christians read the Bible as a family, less than 5% of Christians worship as a family, and less that 10% pray together. Three out of four kids from Christian homes are walking away from the faith after High School. Focus on the Family presents “Charting Your Family’s Spiritual Course” on Saturday, May 10th at Grace Community Church on the Gulf Freeway. For all the details log onto www.family.org/spiritualcourse or call 800-A-FAMILY

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January 17, 2005

Title: Parental Consent vs. Parental Notification
Topic: Parental Consent vs. Parental Notification

Discussed by Carrie Gordon Earll
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Texas has a "loose" parental notification law. What is the difference between notification and consent and should pro-lifers work to change Texas law?

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Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Part 2 of 2 - How to Have a Fantastic Christmas
Topic: Holiday Gatherings Can Be Nerve Racking

Discussed by Tim Samford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Enjoy the People Around You
Topic: Surviving the Holidays

Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Developing a Thankful Heart
Topic: Thanksgiving

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Ohio Voters Pass Horrific Abortion Law
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: HUGE Win for Life in Colorado
Topic: Abortion Pill Safety

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?
Topic: Halloween

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Protecting Life from the Moment of Conception
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Changing the Pro-Life Narrative
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Changing the Pro-Life Narrative
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Changing the Pro-Life Narrative
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Celebrating Life: The One-Year Anniversary of the Dobbs Case
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Nicole Hunt
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Lift Up Your Pastor in Prayer Today
Topic: Why Pastors Leave the Ministry

Discussed by Josh Zeichik
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: No Cape. No Problem. The Superpowers of a Dad.
Topic: Father’s Day

Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Navigating Pride Month with your Kids
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: How to be Bold in Today’s Culture
Topic: Christian Apologetics

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: The Secret to Happy Relationships
Topic: Marriage

Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: What is Causing the Increase of LGBTQ Adults?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Part 2 of 2 - What is Causing the Increase of LGBTQ Adults?
Topic: Homosexual Agenda

Discussed by Jeff Johnston
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Help and Hope for Single Parents
Topic: Single Parenting

Discussed by Rob Jackson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Pregnancy Resource Centers Need Our Help NOW!
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Who Will Speak for the Christians?
Topic: Christian Persecution

Discussed by Bruce Hausknecht
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Is Community the Key to Happiness?
Topic: Friendship

Discussed by Paul Batura
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Seasonal Affect Disorder
Topic: Depression and Wellness

Discussed by Tim Sanford
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org

Title: Pray for the Annual March for Life in WDC
Topic: Pro-Life Issues

Discussed by Robyn Chambers
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org