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March 26, 2024
Title: Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Gary Lovejoy
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 3
Dr. Gary Lovejoy, Ph.D. is a former professor of psychology and religion with over thirty years of private counseling experience. Today, Dr. Lovejoy discusses his latest book, “Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us”?
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Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Is it a struggle to make a good life together?
Does every relationship have its unique issues?
Are there are identifiable patterns that predict the most likely outcomes?
Why is the wife usually the first to “sound the alarm”?
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Gary Lovejoy
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What can we all learn from the Bible about relationship-building?
There are good and bad marriage examples found in the Bible. What can we learn from both?
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Marriages in the Bible: What Do They Tell Us?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Gary Lovejoy
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Why did Dr. Gary Lovejoy choose to become a marriage counselor?
Should couples occasionally evaluate their marriage – even if they think there
isn’t a problem?
Dr. Gary Lovejoy closes the interview with a final word of advice for everyone:
practice empathy and giving to each other first.
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January 19, 2024
Title: Every Marriage Hits a Slump
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Bob Paul
with Hope Restored (www.hoperestored.focusonthefamily.com/)
Some relationships need a complete overhaul. Others just a simple check-up and fine-tuning
Dr. Bob Paul is Vice President at the Focus Marriage Institute, a division of
Focus on the Family. Today, Dr. Paul offers encouragement to couples who may be in a slump and need some hope to keep going.
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Questions/Issues Discussed:
How can we better prepare to be in crisis-mode?
Are many marriages today in need of a life-line?
Do men often think they do not need marriage counseling? Dr. Paul discusses some startling statistics.
Must we all learn to slow down, take a deep breath, and become better communicators?
Can every marriage benefit from fine-tuning to avoid needing an overhaul?
What is the Restored Marriage Counseling Program? Click
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January 9, 2024
Title: Marriage Advice: Keep the Smile After the Holidays
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Many exert much effort to put a good foot forward and smile on their face during the holidays. How do we keep that smile and keep moving in a healing direction?
Today, Glenn Lutjens, a marriage counselor with Focus on the Family, offers some hope and encouragement to married couples – and to everyone who may be experiencing some relationship troubles.
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Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does every couple in America hit a rough spot every now and again?
What are two positive things spouses can do for each other? Glenn suggests to recognize that your discontent is not your spouses’ responsibility and to slow down and really have open communication.
Should couples pray with and for each other every day?
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May 3, 2023
Title: The Secret to Happy Relationships
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Research shows that a simple “Thank
You” can do wonders for relationships.
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at
Focus on the Family. Today, Dr. Smalley offers some great advice for people who are experiencing strained relationships, especially married couples.
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Questions/Issues Discussed:
How can saying “thank you” heal wounds and build bridges between two individuals?
Does research show that we say “thank you” more often to strangers than we do our own spouse/loved ones? Dr. Smalley explains why most people are on their “best behavior” around strangers and often treat their loved ones with less respect and love. He also discusses two elements of gratitude in marriage: acknowledgement and affirmation.
When we audibly say “thank you” should we watch our tone and be 100% sincere and genuine?
How can couples say “thank you” to their spouse? Dr. Smalley says to brag on your spouse to others! Your spouse may never even know, but others will! He also suggests complimenting your spouse first thing every morning.
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January 26, 2023
Title: Marriage: The Value of Date Nights
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Arlene Pellicane
with Arlene Pellicane (www.arlenepellicane.com/)
Part 1 of 3
Every year, couples across the world celebrate National Marriage Week from February 7-14. The theme this year is “The Value of Date Nights” and
National Marriage Week USA is calling on churches, organizations, and individuals to get creative with their ideas for date nights.
Arlene Pellicane is a top marriage and parenting author and speaker. She has appeared on media outlets such as:
The Today Show, Wall Street Journal, Focus on the Family, Fox & Friends, TLC’s Home Made Simple, FamilyLife Today, and
The 700 Club.
Click here to listen to past episodes of Arlene’s “Happy Home” podcast.
Click here to order a copy of Arlene’s many books.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Why is married life so hard?
We all know that prayer helps us connect to God individually. Can prayer also strengthen a marriage?
Can spiritual activities, such as a couples’ Bible study, help couples grow closer to each other and to God? Arelene quotes Timothy Keller: “Marriage is a way for two spiritual friends to help each other on their journey to become the person God designed them to be.”
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Marriage: The Value of Date Nights
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Arlene Pellicane
with Arlene Pellicane (www.arlenepellicane.com/)
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is the purpose of National Marriage Week? Is it only celebrated in
America or across the world?
Marriage benefits the health of adults and the wellbeing of children. Can
marriage also have a positive impact on communities and society as a whole?
Arlene says: “100 PERCENT!” She also discusses some more statistics
about marriage and poverty.
Is communication key to a successful marriage?
Are there seasons in a marriage? Are they different for every couple? Arlene
shares some advice that she and her husband were given: “Don’t get off the
honeymoon.”
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Marriage: The Value of Date Nights
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Arlene Pellicane
with Arlene Pellicane (www.arlenepellicane.com/)
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What are some statistics about the state of marriage today? Arlene offers some
positive news!
Are date nights important for every married couple – no matter how long they
have been married? Arlene encourages couples to actually write on their calendar
“DATE NIGHT” just like a doctor appointment.
What are some of the secrets for a healthy marriage? Arlene discusses physical
intimacy and attending marriage seminars together. She also encourages couples
to read books together, such as Gary Chapmans’ “The
Five Love Languages”.
What resources are available for Nation Marriage Week? Click
here for the “Couples Connection Plan” and
here for more resources.
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September 29, 2022
Title: Improve Your Marriage NOW
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on
the Family. Today, Dr. Smalley discusses why being present can make or break a marriage, offering advice on what couples can do to reconnect after the distance between them has already grown.
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here for more from Dr. Greg Smalley on this and other marriage issues.
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here to order a copy of Dr. Smalley’s new book, “The Marriage You’ve Always Dreamed Of”.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Why did Gisele Bundchen, Tom Brady’s wife, say that his playing football negatively impacts their family?
Can lack of spending time together negatively impact a marriage? Dr. Smalley believes that the last thing couples think about when they get married is loneliness, but it is present in every marriage at some point or another – even his own!
What does it mean to be present with your spouse? How can couples reconnect today?
1. Take a minimum of 10 minutes every single day to talk, even if it’s a long-distance facetime call.
2. Discuss your high and low of the day.
3. Protect your fun time. Don’t talk about serious matters on a date.
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Title: Surviving Marriage Living with a Football-Holic
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
It's that time of year again – changing leaves, cooler temperatures, and football.
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family. Today, he discusses a topic that many spouses across the country could use help with: Football addiction.
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Questions/Issues Discussed:
Are there really spouses that don’t like sports, specifically football?
What is a “football widow”? Dr. Smalley admits that football has even affected his own marriage. How did he fix it?
How can a husband or wife approach the football subject with their spouse?
What can couples do to reduce the friction during football season? Dr. Smalley discusses how the fan should practice moderation and the non-fan can practice toleration. He shares that his wife will even watch a game with him from time-to-time, simply so they can spend time together. He also says both spouses need to be present at all times; that is key.
Can there really be a compromise somewhere in this struggle?
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August 9, 2022
Title: Staying Healthy and Married through a Recession
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by George Stahnke
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
The price of everything is increasing every day. This added cost for
gas, groceries, and even a coffee in the morning can put a financial and
emotional strain on marriage. In fact, according to one
2018 study, financial troubles are the second leading cause of divorce,
behind infidelity.
George Stahnke is a Pastoral Counselor at Focus on the Family. He takes
an average of 250-325 phone calls per month providing counseling to individuals,
families, and ministry leaders. Today he discusses how couples can maintain a
healthy marriage through a recession.
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tips and advice from Focus on the Family.
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or call 1.800.AFAMILY.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does our individual money supply, or lack thereof, affect our interpersonal
relationships?
Should every family talk about “cash flow”? George offers some great
suggestions, warning that it will be hard at first, but it will be worth it in
the end. He also stresses the importance of including children in the
conversation, saying: “They’re part of the team. Don’t exclude the
children.”
Can couples change their outlook on life by praying together every day?
What common piece of advice does George Stahnke often give people?
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April 12, 2022
Title: Supporting Your Spouse Through Thick and Thin
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
You may not know who walked away with an Oscar the other night, but you probably didn’t escape the news that actor Will Smith defended his wife, Jada, in a packed auditorium.
While many couples won’t find themselves in situations involving physical altercations, what spouse doesn’t want to know that they have a “wingman” to do life with?
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at
Focus on the Family. Today he discusses when, where, and why to defend your spouse. Dr. Smalley says: “Always be your spouse’s wingman. Be your spouse’s ally, shield, and advocate. You are each other’s helpmate.”
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Questions/Issues Discussed:
What’s the difference between a helpmate and a wingman?
Why does Dr. Smalley believe spouses should set boundaries? Dr. Smalley explains that there is also a difference between “standing by” his wife and “standing up” for her, using his own son as an example…
Should we always defend our spouse in public? Or should it be done in private?
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November 24, 2021
Title: What’s Love, Anyway?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Many families go around the Thanksgiving table each year and share what they’re thankful for. Some say their health, others say their job, or maybe a fun life experience they recently had. But how many say their spouse? The holiday season isn’t the only time you can show gratefulness to your spouse.
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family. Today he discusses the importance of telling and showing others that we love and cherish them.
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Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How does Dr. Smalley show his wife that he loves her?
What is a “cherish list”? Why did Greg’s father have a cherish list? This is a really sweet story…
Why should we write down what we cherish about others and share the list with them?
Why is it important to cherish our loved ones year-round?
Can showing others we cherish them transform not only their life but our life, too?
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Title: Cherish and Be Cherished
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Cynthia Ruchti
with Cynthia Ruchti (www.cynthiaruchti.com/)
Do you cherish your spouse? You might not feel like
you are cherished, but should that stop you from cherishing them?
Author Cynthia Ruchti continues with the “cherish your spouse” theme, offering
hope and encouragement for us today. She is the author of “Spouse in the House”.
Click here for more on author Cynthia Ruchti.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How long has Cynthia known her husband? This is a true “love at first sight”
story. So sweet!
Does Cynthia personally always feel cherished by her spouse? Is this true of
nearly all marriages/relationships?
When and why did Cynthia begin to think about cherishing her husband? Cynthia
remembers reading Ephesians 5:28-29 and a feeling a longing for that in her
relationship with her husband.
Do many people (especially women) enter marriage with misplaced expectations?
Can we force someone to cherish us? Can we force someone to feel cherished by
us? Cynthia shares the moment that her husband began to verbally show how he
cherished her and how it affected her.
Click here to purchase your copy of Cynthia’s
newest book, “Spouse in the House”.
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October 4, 2021
Title: Surviving Marriage Living with a Football-Holic
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
It's that time of year again – changing leaves, cooler temperatures, and football.
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family. Today, he discusses a topic that many spouses across the country could use help with: Football addiction.
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Focus on the Family. And
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Questions/Issues Discussed:
Are there really spouses that don’t like sports, specifically football?
What is a “football widow”? Dr. Smalley admits that football has even affected his own marriage. How did he fix it?
How can a husband or wife approach the football subject with their spouse?
What can couples do to reduce the friction during football season? Dr. Smalley discusses how the fan should practice moderation and the non-fan can practice toleration. He shares that his wife will even watch a game with him from time-to-time, simply so they can spend time together. He also says both spouses need to be present at all times; that is key.
Can there really be a compromise somewhere in this struggle?
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June 7, 2021
Title: Bill and Melinda Gates: Marriage Role Models?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
If media accounts are correct, Bill Gates took vacations each year with his ex-girlfriend. Was Melinda Gates okay with that? Did they have a husband-wife agreement that they did not have to be faithful?
Dr. Greg Smalley is a licensed therapist and author. As the Vice President of Marriage at
Focus on the Family, Greg develops and oversees initiatives that prepare individuals for marriage and helps couples in marital crises.
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here for more on this topic from Dr. Smalley.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Is marriage infidelity too common today?
How did Billy Graham and Mike Pence deal with meeting with someone of the opposite sex?
Is it possible for a married couple to have friends of the opposite sex? Dr. Smalley says yes, but with some important qualifiers. He also admits, as a married man, that he could never be friends with another woman. Listen as he explains…
What steps should amarried person take to avoid meeting alone with someone of the opposite sex?
Why is it absolutely necessary – and critical – for couples to have this discussion? “It’s easy to become angry, defensive; or dismissive. And trust me, I know all about how these talks can go wrong because I’ve had them more than once in my own marriage,” Greg Smalley recently wrote.
To speak to a licensed counselor at Focus on the Family, call 1.800.A.FAMILY.
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September 14, 2020
Title: Togetherness Stressing Marriages
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
When you said your vows, you probably did not turn to each other and
say: If we are locked up together for months at a time, we will fall to our
knees daily, lock hands, and pray for more patience and loving kindness towards
each other.
Erin Smalley serves as the Strategic Marriage Spokesperson for Focus on the
Family’s Marriage Ministry.
For more marriage help from Focus on the Family, click
here.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Can the husband-wife relationship be strained, almost to the breaking point,
because of the real co-habitation brought about because of the Coronavirus
quarantine?
Are men and women wired differently?
How can husbands and wives help each other navigate this difficult time? Erin
Smalley suggests: “Just ask them what they need!” Open communication is
key.
How can we all channel out the negativity we see and hear every day? Erin has
some great suggestions. Listen close!
How important is it for couples to pray together each day? FACT:
Couples who pray together have a less than 1% divorce rate. Pray with your
spouse!
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April 28, 2017
Title: National Kissing Day
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Kissing is a powerful way to communicate affection. Studies show that a man who is kissed by his wife before heading out the door in the morning is more likely to make a larger income, is less likely to get into a car accident, and has many more benefits than those who aren’t kissed.
Erin Smalley discusses National Kissing Day – TODAY, April 28th!
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Is kissing important to your spouse?
Should you kiss in front of your kids?
Does kissing your spouse increase life expectancy?
Why is a goodbye kiss important? Are “hello” kisses just as important?
Is hugging important as well?
Celebrate National Kissing Day TODAY April 28th!
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March 15, 2017
Title: Can You Save Your Marriage?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Diane Medved
with Special Guest
If you're in a troubled marriage, divorce might seem like a reasonable option. But in most cases, it's a calamity.
New guest, Dr. Diane Medved, says, “If you're hurtling down the road to divorce, the first thing to do is to put on the brakes.” Listen in as she gives more hope and advice for those walking down a rocky marriage path.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What are some threats to marriages?
Are “hookups” at the office too easy to access?
What are some catastrophic harms inflicted by divorce?
How much does divorce actually affect children?
Listen as Dr. Diane Medved discusses some of the arguments people use to justify divorce.
How can many marriages be revived so couples can recover happiness?
Click
here to order Dr. Diane Medved’s new book, “Don’t Divorce: Powerful Arguments for Saving and Revitalizing Your Marriage”.
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February 6, 2017
Title: 10 Things Every Husband Needs from His Wife
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Erin Smalley is a wife, mother, author, and speaker. She serves as the Marriage Strategic Spokesperson for Focus on the Family. Today she will be sharing practical ways every woman can show her husband love – not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day of the year.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Proverbs 14:1 “The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.”
What do husbands “really” want for Valentine’s Day? What do they “really” want every day?
Erin Smalley is currently writing a new book: “10 Things Every Husband Needs from His Wife”. What are some of the topics discussed?
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - 10 Things Every Husband Needs from His Wife
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do men too often receive condemnation instead of congratulations?
Listen as Erin Smalley explains why this is so very important to preserve your
marriage.
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December 26, 2016
Title: Fighting is Good for your Marriage!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Les Parrott
with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott (www.LesAndLeslie.com)
Part 1 of 2
World Vision presents “Fight
Night” at Champion Forest Baptist Church in Northwest Houston on Friday night
February 12 and Saturday morning February 13. Guys – this is a great opportunity
to impress your wife during Valentine’s weekend. What better way to say “I love
you forever!” than to attend a couple’s conference! Wanting to attend a couple’s
conference is not a sign of weakness; it proves to your wife that she is worth
it!
Wives – all you have to say to your husband to convince him to come is mention
the phrase “Fight Night” and he’s there! Haha In all seriousness, though, this
conference is an absolute must for all couples, no matter how long you’ve been
married or even if you’re engaged. Learning how to fight before your married is
essential.
Les Parrott and his wife Leslie are the keynote speakers for “Fight Night”. Les
is with us today to discuss the importance of “fighting fair” in your marriage.
This is their promise for the evening: “Conflict is the price we pay for a
deeper level of intimacy.” Knowing how to have a “good fight” will actually
bring you and your spouse closer together.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Fighting is Good for your Marriage!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Les Parrott
with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott (www.LesAndLeslie.com)
Dr. Les Parrott and
his wife do not claim to have a perfect marriage; they fight just like every
other couple does. What is important, though, is the manner in
which they fight. That is why they started speaking at couple’s conferences
around the country – to show other couples the right way to fight to save their
marriage.
The number one issue couples fight over is money. The second most common issue
is sex. “The real ‘reason’ we fight, though, is our perception,” Les
Parrott says. “We [men and women] look at the world through different
lenses.” This causes friction in a marriage. Come to “Fight Night” to hear
more on this topic and reasons why people fight.
But, how should couples fight? Les and Leslie have four ways couples should
fight – one is cooperation. “We want a winner and loser in a fight. But not
in a marriage,” Les says. He has a friend who says: “Humble pie is a
pastry that’s never tasty.”
Les also explains how and why it is important to show your children the proper
way to fight – and how to resolve one. You do, of course, want to avoid fighting
with your spouse in front of your children, but it will happen occasionally. If
a fight starts in front of them, always – always – make sure you fix the problem
in front of them, too.
Listen in as Dr. Parrott talks more about how couples fight. Better yet – come
to “Fight Night” with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott. Click
here for tickets and more
information.
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May 25, 2016
Title: The Benefits of Marriage
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Will marrying the right person make you more successful? Will you live a longer, healthier life?
Glenn Stanton is the Director of Global Family Formation Studies with Focus on the Family. He is with us today to discuss a recent study from the University of Washington on the benefits of marriage. Glenn says, “This isn’t really new. It just adds to a long list of research.”
Glenn reveals some of the information which this and others studies have uncovered. For instance, women who are married are less likely to endure physical abuse from a spouse. Yes, it happens, but women who are in co-habitating relationships experience physical abuse at much higher rates.
Glenn also offers some advice for couples who are struggling. You might not be “in love” every day, but there is something “to love” all the time. With a few exceptions (abuse being one), couples who stick it out through those rough patches are much, much happier in the long run. “You’ll find that those cloudy days – those cloudy months – go by. New fresh days come. And that is more natural to marriage than most people think,” Glenn Stanton states.
Listen in as Glenn discusses more about the benefits of marriage. He has also written several books on this issue, which can be found on the Focus on the Family website:
“Why Marriage Matters”
“The
Ring Makes all the Difference”
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February 9, 2016
Title: Fighting is Good for your Marriage!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Les Parrott
with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott (www.LesAndLeslie.com)
Part 1 of 2
World Vision presents “Fight
Night” at Champion Forest Baptist Church in Northwest Houston on Friday night
February 12 and Saturday morning February 13. Guys – this is a great opportunity
to impress your wife during Valentine’s weekend. What better way to say “I love
you forever!” than to attend a couple’s conference! Wanting to attend a couple’s
conference is not a sign of weakness; it proves to your wife that she is worth
it!
Wives – all you have to say to your husband to convince him to come is mention
the phrase “Fight Night” and he’s there! Haha In all seriousness, though, this
conference is an absolute must for all couples, no matter how long you’ve been
married or even if you’re engaged. Learning how to fight before your married is
essential.
Les Parrott and his wife Leslie are the keynote speakers for “Fight Night”. Les
is with us today to discuss the importance of “fighting fair” in your marriage.
This is their promise for the evening: “Conflict is the price we pay for a
deeper level of intimacy.” Knowing how to have a “good fight” will actually
bring you and your spouse closer together.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Fighting is Good for your Marriage!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Les Parrott
with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott (www.LesAndLeslie.com)
Dr. Les Parrott and
his wife do not claim to have a perfect marriage; they fight just like every
other couple does. What is important, though, is the manner in
which they fight. That is why they started speaking at couple’s conferences
around the country – to show other couples the right way to fight to save their
marriage.
The number one issue couples fight over is money. The second most common issue
is sex. “The real ‘reason’ we fight, though, is our perception,” Les
Parrott says. “We [men and women] look at the world through different
lenses.” This causes friction in a marriage. Come to “Fight Night” to hear
more on this topic and reasons why people fight.
But, how should couples fight? Les and Leslie have four ways couples should
fight – one is cooperation. “We want a winner and loser in a fight. But not
in a marriage,” Les says. He has a friend who says: “Humble pie is a
pastry that’s never tasty.”
Les also explains how and why it is important to show your children the proper
way to fight – and how to resolve one. You do, of course, want to avoid fighting
with your spouse in front of your children, but it will happen occasionally. If
a fight starts in front of them, always – always – make sure you fix the problem
in front of them, too.
Listen in as Dr. Parrott talks more about how couples fight. Better yet – come
to “Fight Night” with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott. Click
here for tickets and more
information.
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Title: Great Valentine’s Day Weekend Couple’s Conference!!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Jeff Skipper
with Champion Forest Baptist Church (www.ChampionForest.org)
Jeff Skipper is the Adult Discipleship Pastor at CFBC.
He is here to discuss why it is so vital for Christian couples to attend
marriage conferences like this – even though you may think you already have a
pretty good marriage. Jeff also encourages engaged couples to attend the
conference, as well. He says, “A lot of times it is difficult to communicate
our expectations. Without effective communication there is going to be conflict.”
Learning how to fight fair before you are married will help you tremendously.
For the already-married-couple, this is a great way to reconnect with your
spouse. Many men – and women – don’t want others to think they might have a
rocky marriage. Get over yourself! This is your marriage you’re talking about!
This is your forever! “People who are great husbands and wives don’t avoid
opportunities like this. They actually look forward to them!” Jeff
believes. “Every marriage needs a routine maintenance checkup.”
This year, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott have agreed to not only speak on Friday
evening, but will stay over on Saturday morning to really engage personally with
the couples who attend the conference. They’ve been speaking on the issue of
marriage and conflict resolution for years. Through humor, fresh insight, and
practical strategies, the Parrotts will help you and your spouse (or fiancé!)
gain a new perspective on fighting fair.
Click here to register for
“Fight Night”. We’d love to see you there!
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February 4, 2016
Title: Fighting is Good for your Marriage!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Les Parrott
with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott (www.LesAndLeslie.com)
Part 1 of 2
World Vision presents “Fight
Night” at Champion Forest Baptist Church in Northwest Houston on Friday night
February 12 and Saturday morning February 13. Guys – this is a great opportunity
to impress your wife during Valentine’s weekend. What better way to say “I love
you forever!” than to attend a couple’s conference! Wanting to attend a couple’s
conference is not a sign of weakness; it proves to your wife that she is worth
it!
Wives – all you have to say to your husband to convince him to come is mention
the phrase “Fight Night” and he’s there! Haha In all seriousness, though, this
conference is an absolute must for all couples, no matter how long you’ve been
married or even if you’re engaged. Learning how to fight before your married is
essential.
Les Parrott and his wife Leslie are the keynote speakers for “Fight Night”. Les
is with us today to discuss the importance of “fighting fair” in your marriage.
This is their promise for the evening: “Conflict is the price we pay for a
deeper level of intimacy.” Knowing how to have a “good fight” will actually
bring you and your spouse closer together.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Fighting is Good for your Marriage!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Les Parrott
with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott (www.LesAndLeslie.com)
Dr. Les Parrott and
his wife do not claim to have a perfect marriage; they fight just like every
other couple does. What is important, though, is the manner in
which they fight. That is why they started speaking at couple’s conferences
around the country – to show other couples the right way to fight to save their
marriage.
The number one issue couples fight over is money. The second most common issue
is sex. “The real ‘reason’ we fight, though, is our perception,” Les
Parrott says. “We [men and women] look at the world through different
lenses.” This causes friction in a marriage. Come to “Fight Night” to hear
more on this topic and reasons why people fight.
But, how should couples fight? Les and Leslie have four ways couples should
fight – one is cooperation. “We want a winner and loser in a fight. But not
in a marriage,” Les says. He has a friend who says: “Humble pie is a
pastry that’s never tasty.”
Les also explains how and why it is important to show your children the proper
way to fight – and how to resolve one. You do, of course, want to avoid fighting
with your spouse in front of your children, but it will happen occasionally. If
a fight starts in front of them, always – always – make sure you fix the problem
in front of them, too.
Listen in as Dr. Parrott talks more about how couples fight. Better yet – come
to “Fight Night” with Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott. Click
here for tickets and more
information.
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February 2, 2016
Title: Five Reasons NOT to Marry Someone
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Whether you are single, in a new relationship, engaged, or married, this interview is for you!
Yes – this interview is for everyone! Glenn Lutjens, a counselor with
Focus on the Family, has a great series he has written on “Red Flags in a Relationship”.
The focus of today’s interview is “Five Reasons NOT to Marry Someone”. First, Glenn says to not marry a person who believes there is a “backdoor” to marriage. In other words, cohabitation is not the answer, and divorce shouldn’t be an option. He also says, “See how they deal with other commitments in their life: extended family relationship and work ethic.” The way they handle stressful situations will give you insight as to how they might handle problems within a marriage.
Also, don’t marry someone just because others think it is a good idea. “There are times a parent says ‘This is the person you should marry’… Don’t listen to friends and family. It’s important to be of solid and of sound mind,” he warns. The third reason might surprise some – listen in to hear why Glenn says “being in love will not make you happier”.
The final two reasons NOT to marry someone are pretty common sense reasons: Do not marry someone you are not equally yoked with spiritually and do not marry if you have unresolved issues in your life. “When people do ‘missionary dating’, there will be problems”, he declares. He also references 1 Corinthians 6:14 when Paul discusses the issue of marriage. And, finally, if you or the other person have deep wounds from past relationships, those must be dealt with before marriage can even be considered. “Face those issues and grieve them, then move forward,” Glenn says.
Topics in the “Red Flags in a Relationship” series are:
Red Flags in a Relationship
How Content are you as a Single?
Spiritual Red Flags
Emotional Red Flags
Character Red Flags
Interpersonal Red Flags
Addressing Red Flags
When you may need to End a Relationship
What to Look for in a Relationship
Ask the Tough Questions about your Relationship
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January 28, 2016
Title: Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 3
Avoiding conflict is the worst thing you can do for your marriage.
Research show that one of the best predictors for marital success is when couples work through their problems and use conflict as the doorway to deeper intimacy and connection. It’s important, however, to fight in a “better” way.
Dr. Greg Smalley is the Vice President of Family Ministries with Focus on the Family where he helps couples whose marriages are in crisis. Couples are going to fight. There is no doubt about that. “God created us differently. There will be conflict,” Dr. Smalley declares. “We don’t like conflict, but avoiding it really is one of the worst things a couple can do.”
How couples fight makes all the difference. “Conflict is great for a marriage, but combat is bad,” he likes to tell couples. Listen in as he explains this statement and why he believes it is actually a great opportunity for couples to grow stronger.
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
When is the best time to fight? We all know it’s not
in the heat of the moment, but this is often when most fights occur. “There
are circumstances that absolutely will create a difficult experience when we try
to talk through conflict,” Dr. Smalley states.
He has an acronym he likes to use: “HALT”. Hunger. Angry. Lonely. Tired. These
are all the worst times to talk through a conflict. It’s always best to wait
until you’re rested and not hungry to talk about issues. Obviously, if you’re
already angry you need to let the moment pass and wait until you both have
calmer spirits. If you’re feeling lonely or unloved at that moment, pause and
pray about what you will say. We often say things we absolutely do not mean and
ultimately regret in all of these situations.
It might seem silly, but try to schedule a time to fight! Yes! Schedule a fight!
Instead of hashing it out in the moment, stop and tell your spouse it’s time to
walk away and talk about it tomorrow night. Go out to dinner or coffee and talk
about it then. “By doing that you’re not being impulsive,” Dr. Smalley
points out. Don’t force the conversation and the resolution right then. This
also gives you both time to think about the conflict – to pray for clarity and
peace from God over the situation.
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Greg Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
“When you feel wounded, you are dangerous! You’re going to behave
differently than Christ wants you to behave,” Dr. Greg Smalley warns us.
You are like a rolly-polly bug: You’re just crawling along the sidewalk, minding
your own business. But when you feel threatened, you roll up into a ball and
hide. This is dangerous behavior because you never confront the issue.
Couples often ask Dr. Smalley, “Well, ‘where’ should we fight then?”
Dr. Greg shares some “ground rules” for effective fighting. His first response
is to fight with an open heart – after you have prayed, listened to some praise
and worship music, or watched a funny TV show to help clear your mind of the
argument. Listen in as he explains this further and what real sacrifice in
marriage looks like.
Dr. Smalley also warns parents to not shy away from fighting in front of their
children – in a healthy manner, of course; not the screaming and yelling kind of
fight. “They need to know it’s normal. They need to see you resolve your
differences,” he believes. It brings kids into the discussion, especially
if the problem involves them. It shows them how a healthy marriage is really
supposed to be.
You can order a copy of Dr. Greg Smalley’s book “Fight
Your Way to a Better Marriage” on Amazon.
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Title: Great Valentine’s Day Weekend Couple’s Conference!!
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Jeff Skipper
with Champion Forest Baptist Church (www.ChampionForest.org)
Jeff Skipper is the Adult Discipleship Pastor at CFBC.
He is here to discuss why it is so vital for Christian couples to attend
marriage conferences like this – even though you may think you already have a
pretty good marriage. Jeff also encourages engaged couples to attend the
conference, as well. He says, “A lot of times it is difficult to communicate
our expectations. Without effective communication there is going to be conflict.”
Learning how to fight fair before you are married will help you tremendously.
For the already-married-couple, this is a great way to reconnect with your
spouse. Many men – and women – don’t want others to think they might have a
rocky marriage. Get over yourself! This is your marriage you’re talking about!
This is your forever! “People who are great husbands and wives don’t avoid
opportunities like this. They actually look forward to them!” Jeff
believes. “Every marriage needs a routine maintenance checkup.”
This year, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott have agreed to not only speak on Friday
evening, but will stay over on Saturday morning to really engage personally with
the couples who attend the conference. They’ve been speaking on the issue of
marriage and conflict resolution for years. Through humor, fresh insight, and
practical strategies, the Parrotts will help you and your spouse (or fiancé!)
gain a new perspective on fighting fair.
Please Note: If you want to attend the Saturday morning conference, you
must also register for the Friday evening event, too. Hurry and buy your
tickets! When you buy two tickets, you’ll get a $5.00 discount – but only until
February 1! So hurry and get your tickets today. Remember – it will make a great
Valentine’s Day Weekend even better!
Click here to register for
“Fight Night”. We’d love to see you there!
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October 30, 2015
Title: Making your Marriage Magnificent
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 3
Marriage is tough; it is not for the weak and weary.
The odds are definitely stacked against couples. In a world where marriages are
falling to pieces all around us, how does your marriage measure up?
Dr. Jared Pingleton is the Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the
Family. “Marriage is a life-long covenant,” Dr. Pingleton says. “Yet,
we are not taught by Hollywood and Hallmark that it is.”
In his book, “Making
Magnificent Marriages” Dr. Pingleton has a section entitled “Leaving,
Weaving, and Cleaving”. Moses, Paul, and Jesus were the only three figures
in the Bible who said the same thing: Love God fully and love your neighbor as
yourself. But, how does this tie into marriage? Listen in as Dr. Pingleton
explains.
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Making your Marriage Magnificent
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Nobody walks back down the aisle after getting married, flipping a
coin, saying “Well, it’s a 50/50 chance”.
Dr. Jared Pingleton encourages every couple, especially those with rocky
marriages, to take an “inventory” of where they invest their time. Are
you really spending enough time with your spouse? He designed his book “Making
Magnificent Marriages” for this very purpose. Each chapter includes Bible
studies, three questions for each individual to answer separately, and questions
to be discussed together. This layout also makes the book ideal for groups of
couples to study together.
“We all have 168 hours every week,” Dr. Pingleton says. “How we
choose to allocate that resource is much more important than any other resource
we have.” If you waste an hour, you can never get that back. He
suggests that couples go back to courtship or dating. When you first met your
significant other you wanted to spend as much time together as possible. What
happened to that desire? Bring it back!
Do you spend more time working out or shopping or watching TV than you do with
your spouse? Are you and your spouse attending church together? More
importantly, are you praying for and with each other?
Dr. Pingleton also discusses the differences between a contract and a covenant.
Marriage is not just a piece of paper. Marriage is integrity and not dependent
upon empty promises. Marriage is setting goals and actually achieving them. “If
we sow good seeds into a marriage, we are going to reap the rewards. If we sow
lovingly, we are going to reap lovingly.” Dr. Pingleton says.
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Making your Marriage Magnificent
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
If you are contemplating divorce, Dr. Pingleton
encourages you to call Focus on the Family at 1.800.A.FAMILY to speak
to a licensed counselor free of charge. There is hope and healing waiting for
you in the arms of Jesus.
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September 9, 2015
Title: Ashley Madison Hack
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Harry Pearson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Sometime internet hackers are applauded and sometime they are hated.
The Ashley Madison cheating-for-married-people hack has affected
millions of people – celebrities, athletes, average Joes, and even pastors and
leaders in the church. But was this a good or a bad hack?
Dr. Harry Pearson is an Addictions and Pastoral Counselor with
Focus on the Family.
When people – men or women – use a website like Ashley Madison, there are
obvious underlying issues. First, Dr. Pearson urges all couples to seek
pre-marital counseling before you even get married. Understanding God’s meaning
for marriage and placing Him above all is key.
Second, Dr. Pearson says prayer is essential to every marriage. When the divorce
rate for Christians is almost equal to couples who do not attend church, it
becomes a spiritual problem. Pray with and for your spouse every day. Listen in
as he discusses other key dos and donts for couples.
If you or someone you know needs marital advice, please call Focus on the
Family at 800.A.FAMILY. They can help counsel you and will help you contact
a licensed Christian marriage counselor in your area. Don’t wait for an affair
to make a change because then it may be too late.
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June 29, 2015
Title: Is Any Marriage Safe Anymore?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Tullian Tchividjian, the grandson of Evangelical Preacher Billy Graham,
recently resigned his position as minster of the megachurch Coral Ridge
Presbyterian Church due to the allegation that he had an extramarital affair.
He
has not denied this revelation. Tullian is not alone; high-profile people have
been struggling with the issue of adultery since Biblical times. Does King David
ring a bell?
Dr. Jared Pingleton, the Director of Counseling Services at
Focus on the Family, offers help and hope to couples who are struggling in their
marriage, specifically when adultery is involved. While there is some
controversy concerning the divorce rate among Christians compared to
non-Christians, one fact remains constant: Those who are more grounded in their
faith and attend church together are less likely to divorce.
Dr. Pingleton discusses some risk factors when it comes to adultery for
everyone, not just Christian leaders. First, couples need to keep dating each
other. Never quit trying to impress your spouse. Always do your best to make
them feel their best.
Dr. Pingleton shares a creative way to double date – or even triple date! – with
other couples from church to make it easier – and cheaper! – to spend time with
your spouse! He also compares navigating married life to a training Olympic
athlete and a bank account. How? Listen in as he explains.
In the next segment, Dr. Pingleton continues with more risk factors for adultery
and signs to look for.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Is Any Marriage Safe Anymore?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Your integrity is on
the line. Guard it. Keep it. No one can take it away without your permission.
There’s an old saying that goes: “The journey of a thousand miles begins with
the first step.” Dr. Pingleton uses this and Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else,
guard your heart” to explain this. Adultery begins within, not with someone
else. If you find yourself constantly thinking about a co-worker, for example,
you need to examine yourself; possibly even seek outside help to stop those
feelings of attraction before you act on them.
Also, don’t ever share dissatisfactions about your spouse with a person of the
opposite sex. This oftentimes starts an emotional affair, which leads to lying
about your whereabouts. This is a big red flag! Stop doing it! If you don’t, the
sexual affair will begin soon enough.
“Marriage requires ongoing maintenance,” Dr. Pingleton says. Couples should
place “practical boundaries” on their marriage. The most important boundary is
to never be alone with a person of the opposite sex. Avoid even the appearance
of evil and run from temptation. This and other marriage solutions can be found
in Dr. Pingleton’s book, “Making Magnificent Marriages”.
If your marriage is need of a reboot, Dr. Pingleton also suggests an oldie, but
a goodie: the book “His Needs. Her Needs.”
This book is a great tool in “affair-proofing” your marriage.
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June 1, 2015
Title: Military Family Units are Struggling
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jared Pingleton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Since 2001, more
than 2 million American children have had a parent deployed at least once, and
37% of those kids “seriously worry” about their deployed mom or dad.
Dr. Jared Pingleton discusses just how difficult it is for spouses and children
when their husband/wife or parent are not there, possibly even in harm’s way.
Dr. Pingleton says it is important for neighbors or church members to adopt a
military family. This is a great way to extend the hand of God to people in need
of not only financial support but a lending ear. People can even help with
babysitting or homework, too. Everything helps; please do not hesitate to reach
out, no matter what you can do.
Dr. Pingleton also discusses just how bad PTSD is among military members. Many
people do not realize that the VA waiting time for an evaluation with a
therapist can be up to 18 months! Many times, that appointment comes too late
for men and women and their families.
If you or someone you know is in need of encouragement or help, please call
Focus on the Family at 800.A.FAMILY or click [here].
There is help out there. Don’t be afraid to ask for it.
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May 26, 2015
Title: The IKEA Meltdown
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
You have vowed to love, honor, and cherish your spouse through sickness and health, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death do you part. But, you never promised to put furniture together from IKEA! Erin Smalley is a clinical psychologist with Focus on the Family. She explains the “IKEA Meltdown”.
We are all on our best behavior when we’re dating and engaged. We don’t want to show our “bad side” to our significant other. Then we get married and go to pick out new furniture that must be assembled. Erin says it’s not really about the “furniture” though; it’s about the messages we send each other and how we handle the situation. “It’s important to look beyond the furniture to what is really going on in your relationship,” Erin says.
Once you realize that you are really on the same team, things go much more smoothly. Honoring and respecting each other are just as vital as communication and love. Click [here] for more from Erin Smalley and Focus on the Family.
You can order a copy of Erin’s book, co-written with her husband Greg, on [Amazon].
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November 17, 2014
Title: Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Andy Schlafly
with Phyllis Schlafly Eagles (www.PhyllisSchlafly.com)
The left claims that there is growing consensus among the American people in
favor of gay marriage. They say there is a pressing need for the Supreme Court
of the United States to strike down every law each state has passed concerning
traditional marriage. In other words, if an individual state has passed a law
defining marriage as between one natural born man and one natural born woman,
those laws should not be valid. The left wants every state across the nation to
allow gay marriage. They say it is what the American people want.
Well, there is a growing consensus that Americans dislike the IRS. Can we just
get rid of them?
No one ever polled me. No one has asked my opinion on the matter. My answer
would be vastly different! Do I not matter? Of course not! I’m an old gray-hair
from Texas. They do not want my opinion.
The SCOTUS has already proven that they are more than willing to create their
own rules regarding certain areas on the Constitution. Andy Schlafly, attorney
with the American Association of Physicians and Surgeons and son of Eagle Forum
President Phyllis Schlafly, says there is a short window of opportunity for
individual states to set an example and tell the SCOTUS “not in my state”. He
believes states should use the 11th Amendment as a basis for their argument.
Andy Schlafly has submitted great piece of Legislation that Congress should pass
immediately: Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act. Listen in as he gives
details about this and what we, as concerned citizens, must do to ensure its
passage. You can learn more on this and other issues at
www.aapsonline.org
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October 22, 2014
Title: Why are Marriage Rates Declining?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Jennifer Marshall
with The Heritage Foundation (www.Heritage.org)
Millennial marriage rates are
declining more every year. In 1960, 1 in 10 adults over the age of 25 were not
married, as compared to 1 in 5 adults now. What has changed? Are they scared? Is
it for financial and economic reasons? Or are they just co-habiting and don’t
feel the need to get a “piece of paper” to make their relationship legit?
Jennifer Marshall is a new guest with the Heritage Foundation. Listen in as she
discusses the government’s involvement in marriage and social science data
studies. The Heritage Foundation has a new website, strictly for family issues:
www.FamilyFacts.org.
Jennifer mentions that nearly twenty-five percent of young adults aged 25-34 are
co-habiting and don’t feel it’s necessary to marry. We are living in the wake of
the sexual revolution and the feminist movement. In fact, Jennifer wrote a book,
entitled “Now and Not Yet: Making Sense of Single Life in the 21st Century”,
which addresses these very issues.
Also, many millennials are having a hard time finding a job. They have been
forced to move back in with their parents, other relatives, or live with two or
three other people in a small apartment. It’s an expensive world and many just
can’t afford to have a family these days.
What about the social science data? Homosexuals will argue against the “man and
woman marriage is best” ideal. But, how can you argue with the facts? Jennifer
discusses the most recent data, not only for heterosexual vs. homosexual
relationships, but also why bringing in a boyfriend/girlfriend into the home,
unmarried, is damaging to kids.
You can find more on this issue at www.FamilyFacts.org. You can get a copy of
Jennifer’s book, “Now and Not Yet: Making Sense of Single Life in the 21st
Century”, from Amazon.
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June 10, 2013
Title: Does the Traditional Family Need Defending?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Russell Moore
with Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission
The natural family unit is crumbling. Is it worth saving, or should we just
move on?
Must Christian couples do more to defend:
1. The permanence of marriage
2. The fidelity of marriage
3. The importance of marriage of one man and one woman for life
Dr. Moore sadly discusses how too many brides and grooms walk the isle and say
their vows, only to seek out the divorce lawyers forsaking their prior
commitment?
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August 24, 2012
Title: If You Don't Stand For Something, You'll Fall For Anything.
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Tom McClusky
with Family Research Council (www.FRC.org)
Should the republican party include in the national platform a plank
affirming the sanctity of marriage, defined as one man and one woman?
When they meet in about a month, will the democrats have a plank in their
platform that affirms marriage as between two homosexual and two lesbians?
Is it clear in your opinion, that the sin of homosexuality, like the sin of
abortion, fornication, adultery, is an abomination and it is something that God
hates?
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May 11, 2012
Title: A Best of Segment: Which Americans Are Getting Married? Is Marriage Over in America?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Sabrina Schaeffer
with Independent Women’s Forum (www.IWF.org)
Latest census data reveals fewer Americans are getting married. Does this indicate that marriage will become obsolete? But are there strong positive benefits for couples who are married? Do single parents raising children live in poverty longer than married couples who are raising children? Can the trend be reversed? For more visit www.IWF.org.
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September 26, 2011
Title: My spouse doesn’t pay attention to me. Should I be allowed to divorce her?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Robert Cossick
with Honor the Vow (www.HonorTheVow.com)
Did your wedding vow include: “I will love you as long as you can ____________”? [fill in be blank – love me back, give me, or whatever….]
Recently, Pat Robertson, chairman of the Christian Broadcasting Network, told his “700 Club” viewers that divorcing a wife with Alzheimer’s disease is justifiable. Do you agree, please send us your comments.
Visit Robert’s website and order a copy of Battle Cries: For The Honor of the Vow: The Core of Every Successful Marriage www.HonorTheVow.com.
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September 23, 2011
Title: Pat Robertson says you can dump your spouse if they contract Alzheimer’s. I say, “Wait a minute!”
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Professor John Sparks
with Grove City College (www.gcc.edu)
Recently, Pat Robertson, chairman of the Christian Broadcasting Network, told his “700 Club” viewers that divorcing a wife with Alzheimer’s disease is justifiable.
According to the news story on the incident, Robertson’s apparent rationale was that one only vows to remain married until “death do us part,” and a late-stage Alzheimer’s spouse is effectively dead since the afflicted one cannot recognize her mate nor communicate effectively with him.
I disagree with Pat Robertson. Listen in and then send us your comments.
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Title: My spouse doesn’t pay attention to me. Should I be allowed to divorce her?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Robert Cossick
with Honor the Vow (www.HonorTheVow.com)
Did your wedding vow include: “I will love you as long as you can ____________”? [fill in be blank – love me back, give me, or whatever….]
Recently, Pat Robertson, chairman of the Christian Broadcasting Network, told his “700 Club” viewers that divorcing a wife with Alzheimer’s disease is justifiable. Do you agree, please send us your comments.
Visit Robert’s website and order a copy of Battle Cries: For The Honor of the Vow: The Core of Every Successful Marriage www.HonorTheVow.com.
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November 29, 2010
Title: Which Americans Are Getting Married? Is Marriage Over in America?
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Sabrina Schaeffer
with Independent Women’s Forum (www.IWF.org)
Latest census data reveals fewer Americans are getting married. Does this indicate that marriage will become obsolete? But are there strong positive benefits for couples who are married? Do single parents raising children live in poverty longer than married couples who are raising children? Can the trend be reversed? For more visit www.IWF.org.
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March 22, 2010
Title: WHAT’S HAPPENING TO THE CULTURE OF MARRIAGE? Part 1 of 2
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse
with The Ruth Institute (www.RuthInstitute.org)
Secular Universities are destroying the idea of “marriage” across the country. What are they teaching your kids? Log on to www.RuthInstitute.org to learn more.
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Title: WHAT’S HAPPENING TO THE CULTURE OF MARRIAGE? Part 2 of 2
Topic: Marriage
Discussed by Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse
with The Ruth Institute (www.RuthInstitute.org)
Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse will be at Houston Baptist University in the Belin Chapel at 7 pm on March 29, 2010. Log on to www.RuthInstitute.org for all the details.
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