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August 15, 2024
Title: Parenting Adult Children is HARD
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Brenda Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Children moving out can bring up many emotions for parents. With August being back-to-school month, this is a reality that many parents are facing.
Today, Brenda Huerta offers some encouragement to parents who may be feeling all the emotions right now. Brenda is a bilingual counselor with
Focus on the Family.
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Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Is Empty Nest Syndrome real? Terry shares a personal story…
Can parents feel ENS at various times throughout their children’s lives?
Brenda warns: “Many times our identity is linked to our motherhood and that’s where we need to be careful.”
What are some of the triggers that can cause parents to experience loneliness?
Brenda offers some advice to combat those feelings.
Should parents communicate their feelings with their child leaving the house? Is it important to set some boundaries – both for the child and the parent?
Can a hobby or volunteering help parents feel less lonely?
What are some other situations that cause pain and loneliness, mimicking Empty Nest Syndrome feelings?
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June 30, 2023
Title: Adjusting to an Empty Nest
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. McKay Caston
with Dr. McKay Caston (www.mckaycaston.com/)
Part 1 of 3
Are you an empty nester? About to be an empty nester? Have you been an empty nester for a long time?
Today, Reverend Dr. McKay Caston offers hope, encouragement, and little guidance to those adjusting to a new kind of lifestyle. Before his current profession teaching theology and homiletics at
Metro Atlanta Seminary, Dr. Caston was a pastor and church planter for twenty years. He also has a real passion for writing and loves to explore the mountains in north Georgia.
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here to read more from Dr. Caston on this topic.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Can waking up in an empty house after your children have fled the nest bring on feelings of doubt, loss, anxiety, or even guilt?
Have all of Dr. Caston’s children left home? Was Dr. Caston prepared emotionally when his first child packed and moved out? Was it easier when the second followed?
Can God, through Scripture and the Holy Spirit, prepare each of us for the shift in life and priorities once we become empty nesters?
Does the gospel give us encouragement to take the next steps? Dr. Caston says: “Absolutely. This is not a season of challenge, but one of immense opportunity.”
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Adjusting to an Empty Nest
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. McKay Caston
with Dr. McKay Caston (www.mckaycaston.com/)
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Can a new season without children in the house be a new beginning for some?
Do many empty nesters have regrets and feelings of failure? (2 Corinthians 5:21)
Will God be with us through every twist and turn and curveball life throws our way?
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Adjusting to an Empty Nest
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. McKay Caston
with Dr. McKay Caston (www.mckaycaston.com/)
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What parental adjustments are necessary once a child leaves home?
What life lessons can be learned from the Parable of the Prodigal Son? (Luke
15:11-32)
When parental demands diminish, do marital relationships often suffer? Dr.
Caston reminds us that communication is key.
How can empty nesters bring smiles and sunshine into their lonely home? Can this
time be filled with new opportunities and rewarding relationships?
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April 25, 2022
Title: What Chores Should Your Kids Be Doing?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Summer is upon us. Most kids/teens are finished with their
online/stay-at-home school by now. So now what? Many summer camps,
vacation Bible schools, and other activities have been canceled or modified due
to the Coronavirus.
So, what now? Danny Huerta, with Focus on the Family, says CHORES! No,
not really. But – what age-appropriate chores should they be doing?
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here for more on this topic.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Who was the first person to do chores in history? Did God command this?
How can parents determine what chores are age-appropriate for their kids? Should
parents start from an early age?
According to a recent poll, 82% of parents
said that they were given chores as a child. However, only 28% of parents admit
to giving chores to their own kids.
Do kids who do chores perform better in school and society?
Do incentives work? Is consistency important? How are chore charts helpful? How
can parents make chores more enjoyable? Danny has some terrific suggestions and
fun ideas!
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April 12, 2022
Title: Parenting Adult Children is HARD
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Brenda Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
New guest Brenda Huerta is a bilingual counselor serving callers who
contact Focus on the Family’s counseling department. In her
role, she regularly speaks with people struggling with issues related to
parenting young adult and adult children, parenting children with ADHD, RAD,
ODD, or OCD, extended family relationships, hospitality, women’s issues,
marriage conflict, adoption, and more.
Concerning parenting adult children, she says: “When they leave my presence,
how do they feel? It’s the same mentality Jesus demonstrated in his life on
earth.”
Click here for
more articles and tips on parenting from Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is a good way to foster a relationship of trust and respect with adult
children and grandchildren? Brenda says listening is key – but listen to
understand, not control. “Listening builds trust,” she says.
Is asking questions to understand their position or decision important?
Is prayer sometimes the only thing a parent or grandparent can do? Brenda shares
her favorite Scripture: Isaiah 49:25 “I will fight those who fight you and I
will save your children.”
Is it important to seek help, such as a Sunday School class, Life Group, or
support group?
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Focus on the Family or call 1.800.A.FAMILY.
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January 17, 2022
Title: Parenting Adult Children is HARD
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Brenda Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
New guest Brenda Huerta is a bilingual counselor serving callers who
contact Focus on the Family’s counseling department. In her
role, she regularly speaks with people struggling with issues related to
parenting young adult and adult children, parenting children with ADHD, RAD,
ODD, or OCD, extended family relationships, hospitality, women’s issues,
marriage conflict, adoption, and more.
Concerning parenting adult children, she says: “When they leave my presence,
how do they feel? It’s the same mentality Jesus demonstrated in his life on
earth.”
Click here for
more articles and tips on parenting from Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is a good way to foster a relationship of trust and respect with adult
children and grandchildren? Brenda says listening is key – but listen to
understand, not control. “Listening builds trust,” she says.
Is asking questions to understand their position or decision important?
Is prayer sometimes the only thing a parent or grandparent can do? Brenda shares
her favorite Scripture: Isaiah 49:25 “I will fight those who fight you and I
will save your children.”
Is it important to seek help, such as a Sunday School class, Life Group, or
support group?
Click here for help from
Focus on the Family or call 1.800.A.FAMILY.
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March 5, 2021
Title: Stable Families Help Kids in Lockdown
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
It’s no secret that COVID-19 has wreaked havoc on millions of people in numerous ways since the start of the pandemic. One of those ways is mental health, especially in school-aged children and teens who have been isolated from their school and peers. Spikes in youth suicides have been predicted due to the pandemic. But is that really the case?
Glenn Stanton has some answers for us today. Glenn is the Director for Global Family Formation Studies at
Focus on the Family.
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here to read Glenn’s article on this issue.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Are millions of Americans suffering in numerous ways since the start of the pandemic?
Was it feared that youth suicide rates would skyrocket?
What does the preliminary data reveal?
Why did teens fare relatively well during the quarantine?
Are youth reporting that they are spending more time with parents and siblings?
How important are family units?
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February 17, 2021
Title: Following Jesus as a Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Rob Rienow
with Visionary Family (www.VisionaryFam.com)
Part 1 of 3
Dr. Rob Rienow is passionate about helping families follow and grow in Christ – together. Rob offers resources and conferences to equip and encourage parents, couples, and church leaders.
For more information about the upcoming Visionary Family Conference at
First Baptist Church in Georgetown, click
here.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
In Dr. Rienow’s opinion, why are so many youth looting and rioting?
What is the role of a father in the lives of children?
Why is prayer so important? Are prayers from mamas different than other prayers?
Why do grandparents need to stay connected with their kids and grandkids? Dr. Rienow says: “It’s all hands on deck. It all starts at home.”
What encouragement does Dr. Rienow have for dads who struggle with a quick temper?
Dr. Rienow gives a brief overview of the Visionary Family Conference this Friday in Georgetown.
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Following Jesus as a Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Rob Rienow
with Visionary Family (www.VisionaryFam.com)
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How parents start NOW to follow Jesus as a family even if their kids are
teenagers? Dr. Rienow discusses the Scripture that changed his perspective:
Deuteronomy 6:5.
Is attending church/worship together as a family important?
Do too many parents allow the kids minister/youth pastor/Christian school to be
the sole source of spiritual training for their kids/teens?
Dr. Rienow says: “When moms and dads step into their role, then Sunday
School and youth group and Christian school can be a wonderful vitamin boost to
the meal they get at home.” I love this! So great!
Dr. Rienow gives a few more details about the Visionary Family Conference
this Friday in Georgetown.
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Following Jesus as a Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Rob Rienow
with Visionary Family (www.VisionaryFam.com)
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Should fathers start their day with prayer/devotion?
What can moms do other than pray for their kids?
Dr. Rienow says: “When God gives us kids, the great mission of our lives are
their souls.”
Are grandparents still important?
Dr. Rienow closes the interview with prayer.
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June 1, 2020
Title: What Chores Should Your Kids Be Doing?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Summer is upon us. Most kids/teens are finished with their
online/stay-at-home school by now. So now what? Many summer camps,
vacation Bible schools, and other activities have been canceled or modified due
to the Coronavirus.
So, what now? Danny Huerta, with Focus on the Family, says CHORES! No,
not really. But – what age-appropriate chores should they be doing?
Click
here for more on this topic.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Who was the first person to do chores in history? Did God command this?
How can parents determine what chores are age-appropriate for their kids? Should
parents start from an early age?
According to a recent poll, 82% of parents
said that they were given chores as a child. However, only 28% of parents admit
to giving chores to their own kids.
Do kids who do chores perform better in school and society?
Do incentives work? Is consistency important? How are chore charts helpful? How
can parents make chores more enjoyable? Danny has some terrific suggestions and
fun ideas!
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March 25, 2020
Title: Trade Chores with Your Kids
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Terry Lowry
with Host of the What's UP Radio Program
Are you tired of telling your
kids/teens over and over and over again to finish their chores?
Heather Trent Beers, with Focus on the Family, has a brilliant idea: Trade
chores with your kids!
They forgot to bring in the trash can? Have them do one of YOUR chores, like
folding the laundry.
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here for more
ideas.
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July 23, 2019
Title: When You Don’t Like Your Adult Child’s Spouse
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Rob Jackson
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Your son/daughter brings home a person they want to spend the rest of their life.
The problem: you don’t like the person they’ve chosen! What do you do?
Rob Jackson is a counselor at Focus on the Family. He offers some advice. And guess what? Spoiler Alert: Rob Jackson is not a perfect person!
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Why did Rob Jackson approach this subject through Focus on the Family?
Do the parents or the children (adult couple) usually approach Rob Jackson with this issue?
Is this an issue that only affects non-believers?
Why does Rob suggest the parents offer the olive branch?
What advice does the Bible offer?
Do people involved need to stick it out for the long-haul?
To speak with a counselor at Focus on the Family call 1.800.FAMILY or click
here.
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June 27, 2019
Title: Does Your Teen have a Burner Phone?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Adam Holz
with Plugged In (www.PluggedIn.com)
Does your teenager have a burner phone?
“In almost every high school across the country there is a kid who sells burner phones from their locker,” said Rich Wistocki, a retired detective for the high-tech crimes unit of the Naperville, Ill., police department who now gives talks about cyber safety.
Adam Holz is the Senior Associate Editor of Focus on the Family’s media review center,
Plugged In. You can read more on this topic
here.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
If you knew your child was going to jump into an open-pit fire, what would you do to stop and protect them?
Adam Holz previews and offers recommendations for movies. What are his criteria?
What is a “Burner Phone”?
How can parents protect their kids/tweens/teens from the dangers of cell phones?
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August 21, 2018
Title: Plugged In Movie Reviews
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Adam Holz
with Plugged In (www.PluggedIn.com)
Breaking News: Every kid – parent – family is different. I know.
You’re shocked!
Plugged In, a division of Focus on the Family, has announced that it is changing
the way it offers movie reviews. Adam Holtz has all the details…
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is the purpose of Plugged In reviews?
Why have they changed their policy to not include a rating (from 0-5)?
FACT: You can’t please everyone! Have they received a lot of negative feedback
regarding their ratings?
What will Plugged In reviews look like now?
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August 16, 2018
Title: Getting Back into the School Routine
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Backpacks, pencils, folders, and lunch boxes are lining department store shelves as “back-to-school” season arrives.
As parents trade the carefree days of summer schedules with rushed morning school drop-offs, sports practices and PTA meetings, the thought of returning to the routine can be a bit daunting.
Danny Huerta has some suggestions to help the summer-to-school transition go smoothly! Danny is the Vice President of Parenting at
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Why are routines so important for kids AND parents? Are those routines different for every family?
Should parents include their kids in the monthly planning/scheduling? How can parents make this a “fun activity”? Danny has some great ideas to get your started! Terry has some great recommendations, too!
Are family dinners important to strengthening relationships?
Final suggestion from Terry: Team up with another couple and trade off your kiddos so you and your spouse can have a date night at least once a month. And Danny adds: Even a simple walk can do wonders for your relationship with both your spouse AND your kids.
Click
here for more helpful back-to-school tips from
Focus on the Family.
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June 29, 2018
Title: Plugged In Movie Reviews
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Adam Holz
with Plugged In (www.PluggedIn.com)
Breaking News: Every kid – parent – family is different. I know.
You’re shocked!
Plugged In, a division of Focus on the Family, has announced that it is changing
the way it offers movie reviews. Adam Holtz has all the details…
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is the purpose of Plugged In reviews?
Why have they changed their policy to not include a rating (from 0-5)?
FACT: You can’t please everyone! Have they received a lot of negative feedback
regarding their ratings?
What will Plugged In reviews look like now?
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May 4, 2018
Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly? Some think so. But are these traits really the essence of what it means to be a man?
Glenn Stanton is the director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. He defines manhood as a “man who does the right thing at the right time.”
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do current TV shows depict men, in general, in a positive, uplifting way? Key Word: Current.
QUIZ: What TV show from the mid-to-late 1970’s starred a black man as a positive, uplifting role model?
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly?
Should men and women be treated equally in every situation?
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do we live in a world where boys often grow up without their fathers to show
them the way?
What are three ways to teach boys to become men when there is no father figure
to help? The military and sports are two ways. Listen as Glenn discusses the
third.
NOTE: We know that there are many single moms who listen to
The What’s UP Radio Program. We applaud you. We salute you. We know you are
doing the best you can. Keep doing what you are doing! You are doing an amazing
job!
For more help on this subject, especially for single moms, Glenn recommends the
book “Making
a Modern Day Knight”.
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April 20, 2018
Title: Talking to Your Kids about Death
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.
With the recent news of the passing of Barbara Bush, your kids may start asking about death, heaven, hell, and everything in between.
Focus on the Family counselor Glenn Lutjens has some parenting advice for you today on this very issue.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How do parents talk to their children and grandchildren about death?
Should adult children wait until their parent has passed to discuss the situation with their own children? Or should they approach the subject tenderly before the death has occurred?
Are open-ended questions the best choice?
How do we respond when our children ask this question: “How is grandma or grandpa”?
Dementia and Alzheimer’s do not have to be a scary situation for grandchildren to experience. Listen as Glenn Lutjens offers some advice for this, as well.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Talking to Your Kids about Death
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Lutjens
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Disclaimer: Use caution when listening to this segment around young children. Issues discussed might be upsetting or hard for little ones to understand.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How can we, as adult children, cope with the decline of our parents?
How can we better prepare ourselves for the decline of our parents?
Glenn again suggests using open-ended questions. Plus, he has other questions we should ask, such as:
* Should we include our siblings with the decisions?
* Do your parents have a will or power of attorney?
* What do your parents want?
* What is the financial situation of your parents?
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April 13, 2018
Title: Dividing Household Responsibilities
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Marriage is tough. Couples have disagreements over many issues. One of those disagreements, though, should not concern household responsibilities.
Focus on the Family spokesperson and marriage counselor, Erin Smalley, has some advice and suggestions I’m sure we could all use.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Is there always room for compromise when it comes to dividing the household responsibilities?
Are you the same husband/wife that you were when you first got married?
What is a “safe zone”?
Have people/groups conducted research studies on what happens within a marriage when a man starts helping more with the dishes? What about the laundry or cleaning toilets? Was there a difference?
Is teamwork important in a marriage?
Should men observe more and ask less?
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Dividing Household Responsibilities
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How long have Erin and her husband, Greg, been married?
Do Erin and Greg still experience tension concerning this issue from time to
time?
Should both partners be flexible?
Instead of responding “I’ll do it in a minute”, is a better comment: “Can
it wait a few minutes until I finish this project?” Why and how can this
change make such a difference?
Do husbands “help” their wives? Or, is it a shared responsibility?
Listen as Erin shares the story of how and why her husband began making the bed
every morning. It’s so sweet!
How can a change of attitude toward household responsibilities affect children in the home?
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January 23, 2018
Title: Do You Have Too Many Kids?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Chip and Joanna Gaines (stars of HGTV's Fixer Upper)
received a surprising amount of criticism via social media after announcing
their fifth baby is on the way. Critics discussed how over-population effects climate change and environmental footprints.
Glenn Stanton is the Family Director of Global Family Formation Studies. Listen in as he sheds more light on these disturbing statements from the left.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do parents with many children often get asked this question: “Are all those kids yours?”
Are the left’s accusations of over-population negatively affecting the environment founded on facts? Or, are they simply fear-mongering?
How many children do parents in developing countries normally have?
Are some countries PAYING their citizens to have MORE babies due to a failing economy?
How can we be encouraging to couples who have many children?
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January 3, 2018
Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly? Some think so. But are these traits really the essence of what it means to be a man?
Glenn Stanton is the director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. He defines manhood as a “man who does the right thing at the right time.”
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do current TV shows depict men, in general, in a positive, uplifting way? Key Word: Current.
QUIZ: What TV show from the mid-to-late 1970’s starred a black man as a positive, uplifting role model?
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly?
Should men and women be treated equally in every situation?
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do we live in a world where boys often grow up without their fathers to show
them the way?
What are three ways to teach boys to become men when there is no father figure
to help? The military and sports are two ways. Listen as Glenn discusses the
third.
NOTE: We know that there are many single moms who listen to
The What’s UP Radio Program. We applaud you. We salute you. We know you are
doing the best you can. Keep doing what you are doing! You are doing an amazing
job!
For more help on this subject, especially for single moms, Glenn recommends the
book “Making
a Modern Day Knight”.
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Title: Do you Choose Your Child’s Friends?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Before babies even learn to crawl, they often find themselves attending playdates and outings with other babies. Toddlers learn how to get along with others, parents get adult interaction, and everyone wins. But what happens when the playdate mindset continues well into the teenage years?
Erin Smalley is a mom of four and the author of “Grown-Up Girlfriends”. Today, Erin will explain why parents “friendgineer” and help moms and dads discern when to intervene in a child’s social circle and when to back off.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is a playdate? Are playdates for little ones okay?
Are teens mature enough to choose their own friends? Erin believes it depends on the teen. Listen as she and Terry discuss certain situations.
If parents are with their teens at gatherings, is that considered hovering?
Erin also discusses the importance of giving your teen an “out”…If they are at a party and don’t feel comfortable, do they trust you enough to not freak out?
When should parents stop organizing playdates for their kids?
Best advice: Pray, pray, pray for your kids – no matter how old they are.
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Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
You are doing your best to raise a responsible adult. They want to play. You are tired, so you don’t want to fight. They have endless energy, especially to get their way. Do you do the chores yourself? Or do you dig in and fight the battle? Either way, it does not seem like a win-win scenario.
Danny Huerta, our go-to family expert, says that teaching kids responsibility
doesn’t have to feel like war. Click
here for the FREE guide from
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does it have to be WWIII when it comes to doing chores?
Some of you may have teenagers or college students living at home. Is it too late to start now?
Danny says to STOP saying one word to your kids when it’s time to do chores. Listen in to find out what he says to STOP doing!
Should parents pay their children for doing chores?
What is one tip that Danny recommends families implement immediately to keep the clutter at bay?
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December 28, 2017
Title: Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 3
From pretend tea parties to periods, boyfriends, shaving armpits, and Snapchat… A dad’s role in raising girls is perplexing and challenging. Unfortunately, in order to avoid these tough situations, too many men opt out, give up, give in, or go away.
Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Today, he will be offering tips for dads on how to connect with their daughters.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do all girls need their dad, no matter their age?
Will girls compare every man they meet throughout their lives to their father? Is this why it is so important for dads to have a good relationship with their daughters?
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How can a dad connect, and stay connected, with his daughter?
Danny has some great tips for dads with daughters of all ages: play pretend when
they’re young and read to her; have 60 seconds of connect time in the morning
and the evening with tweens and teens; make time for date night with your
daughter no matter her age.
Is it important to ask questions? Is it equally important to listen without
interruption or judgement?
What challenges to step-dads face when raising step-daughters?
Are there other ways for dads who don’t have custody of their daughter to connect?
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Some fathers are completely absent from their daughter’s life. How can a single
mom bring influential men in to help fill that gap?
One point Danny brings up is how we all want our marriage to last, so we work
and work on it and carve time for our spouse to make them feel special. The same
concept can – and should – be applied to our kids, both boys and girls.
What is Danny’s Number One piece of advice for all dads of daughters?
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October 17, 2017
Title: Helping Kids Cope with Tragedy
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Roberta Perno
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Roberta Perno is a licensed professional counselor at Focus on
the Family. Today, she offers tips and advice for parents on a sensitive issue: “Helping Kids Cope with Tragedy”.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How can parents explain hurt and suffering in the world without frightening their children?
Why is it important for parents to be their child’s confidant in situations like this, not the media or even their teachers at school?
Listen as Roberta Perno explains why different age groups should receive different types of information after natural disasters or tragedies.
Should parents be cautious about media overload?
Should parents limit their kids’ exposure to the news?
Do children experience different emotions when tragedy strikes?
How can parents help their children process those emotions?
What advice does Roberta offer the parent when coping with new situations with their own children: going to parties, staying out late, driving, college, etc?
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September 26, 2017
Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
You are doing your best to raise a responsible adult. They want to play. You are tired, so you don’t want to fight. They have endless energy, especially to get their way. Do you do the chores yourself? Or do you dig in and fight the battle? Either way, it does not seem like a win-win scenario.
Danny Huerta, our go-to family expert, says that teaching kids responsibility
doesn’t have to feel like war. Click
here for the FREE guide from
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does it have to be WWIII when it comes to doing chores?
Some of you may have teenagers or college students living at home. Is it too late to start now?
Danny says to STOP saying one word to your kids when it’s time to do chores. Listen in to find out what he says to STOP doing!
Should parents pay their children for doing chores?
What is one tip that Danny recommends families implement immediately to keep the clutter at bay?
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September 21, 2017
Title: Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 3
From pretend tea parties to periods, boyfriends, shaving armpits, and Snapchat… A dad’s role in raising girls is perplexing and challenging. Unfortunately, in order to avoid these tough situations, too many men opt out, give up, give in, or go away.
Danny Huerta is the Vice President of Parenting at Focus on the Family. Today, he will be offering tips for dads on how to connect with their daughters.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do all girls need their dad, no matter their age?
Will girls compare every man they meet throughout their lives to their father? Is this why it is so important for dads to have a good relationship with their daughters?
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
How can a dad connect, and stay connected, with his daughter?
Danny has some great tips for dads with daughters of all ages: play pretend when
they’re young and read to her; have 60 seconds of connect time in the morning
and the evening with tweens and teens; make time for date night with your
daughter no matter her age.
Is it important to ask questions? Is it equally important to listen without
interruption or judgement?
What challenges to step-dads face when raising step-daughters?
Are there other ways for dads who don’t have custody of their daughter to connect?
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Dads and Their Daughters
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Some fathers are completely absent from their daughter’s life. How can a single
mom bring influential men in to help fill that gap?
One point Danny brings up is how we all want our marriage to last, so we work
and work on it and carve time for our spouse to make them feel special. The same
concept can – and should – be applied to our kids, both boys and girls.
What is Danny’s Number One piece of advice for all dads of daughters?
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August 14, 2017
Title: Getting Back into the Back-To-School Routine
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Parents across the country are gearing up for the start of another
school year. Danny Huerta, the Vice President of Parenting with
Focus on the Family, has some tips and suggestions to make the
transition from pool time to homework time more bearable for everyone.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does having a routine improve a child’s academic outcome? Danny offers several
statistics to encourage a routine in your child’s life from an early age, not
just concerning school. “Having a routine helps you control what you can so
you don’t get distracted by what you can’t,” Danny states. Listen to find
out what he means by this statement.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Getting Back into the Back-To-School Routine
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is the “60 Second Rule”? No, it doesn’t have anything to do with
food dropping on the floor!
Is praying together as a family important to create a sense of security within
your children?
Listen as Danny Huerta discusses how everything from dividing chores to weekly
celebrations can be a routine in your home. “Routines don’t have to be a
dictatorship,” he states.
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June 26, 2017
Title: Kids Occupied Every Minute
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Don’t let summer get you down. Erin Smalley has some great advice and suggestions for you! Erin is the Program Manager of Marriage Ministries at
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Should parents feel compelled to keep their kids occupied every minute of every day during the summer?
Is it a good idea to keep learning throughout the summer?
Should mom be given some “mom time” occasionally?
Should dad take time for himself, too?
Is it important for mom and dad to have time alone together?
For more tips and suggestions on summer activities, click
here.
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Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
You are doing your best to raise a responsible adult. They want to play. You are tired, so you don’t want to fight. They have endless energy, especially to get their way. Do you do the chores yourself? Or do you dig in and fight the battle? Either way, it does not seem like a win-win scenario.
Danny Huerta, our go-to family expert, says that teaching kids responsibility
doesn’t have to feel like war. Click
here for the FREE guide from
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does it have to be WWIII when it comes to doing chores?
Some of you may have teenagers or college students living at home. Is it too late to start now?
Danny says to STOP saying one word to your kids when it’s time to do chores. Listen in to find out what he says to STOP doing!
Should parents pay their children for doing chores?
What is one tip that Danny recommends families implement immediately to keep the clutter at bay?
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May 30, 2017
Title: Kids Occupied Every Minute
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Don’t let summer get you down. Erin Smalley has some great advice and suggestions for you! Erin is the Program Manager of Marriage Ministries at
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Should parents feel compelled to keep their kids occupied every minute of every day during the summer?
Is it a good idea to keep learning throughout the summer?
Should mom be given some “mom time” occasionally?
Should dad take time for himself, too?
Is it important for mom and dad to have time alone together?
For more tips and suggestions on summer activities, click
here.
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May 10, 2017
Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly? Some think so. But are these traits really the essence of what it means to be a man?
Glenn Stanton is the director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. He defines manhood as a “man who does the right thing at the right time.”
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do current TV shows depict men, in general, in a positive, uplifting way? Key Word: Current.
QUIZ: What TV show from the mid-to-late 1970’s starred a black man as a positive, uplifting role model?
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly?
Should men and women be treated equally in every situation?
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do we live in a world where boys often grow up without their fathers to show
them the way?
What are three ways to teach boys to become men when there is no father figure
to help? The military and sports are two ways. Listen as Glenn discusses the
third.
NOTE: We know that there are many single moms who listen to
The What’s UP Radio Program. We applaud you. We salute you. We know you are
doing the best you can. Keep doing what you are doing! You are doing an amazing
job!
For more help on this subject, especially for single moms, Glenn recommends the
book “Making
a Modern Day Knight”.
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Title: Do you Choose Your Child’s Friends?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Before babies even learn to crawl, they often find themselves attending playdates and outings with other babies. Toddlers learn how to get along with others, parents get adult interaction, and everyone wins. But what happens when the playdate mindset continues well into the teenage years?
Erin Smalley is a mom of four and the author of “Grown-Up Girlfriends”. Today, Erin will explain why parents “friendgineer” and help moms and dads discern when to intervene in a child’s social circle and when to back off.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is a playdate? Are playdates for little ones okay?
Are teens mature enough to choose their own friends? Erin believes it depends on the teen. Listen as she and Terry discuss certain situations.
If parents are with their teens at gatherings, is that considered hovering?
Erin also discusses the importance of giving your teen an “out”…If they are at a party and don’t feel comfortable, do they trust you enough to not freak out?
When should parents stop organizing playdates for their kids?
Best advice: Pray, pray, pray for your kids – no matter how old they are.
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March 31, 2017
Title: Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Part 1 of 2
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly? Some think so. But are these traits really the essence of what it means to be a man?
Glenn Stanton is the director of Family Formation Studies at Focus on the Family. He defines manhood as a “man who does the right thing at the right time.”
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do current TV shows depict men, in general, in a positive, uplifting way? Key Word: Current.
QUIZ: What TV show from the mid-to-late 1970’s starred a black man as a positive, uplifting role model?
Does having big muscles, facial hair, a big truck, or a pretty girl make a man manly?
Should men and women be treated equally in every situation?
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Are There Any Good Men Left?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Glenn Stanton
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Do we live in a world where boys often grow up without their fathers to show
them the way?
What are three ways to teach boys to become men when there is no father figure
to help? The military and sports are two ways. Listen as Glenn discusses the
third.
NOTE: We know that there are many single moms who listen to
The What’s UP Radio Program. We applaud you. We salute you. We know you are
doing the best you can. Keep doing what you are doing! You are doing an amazing
job!
For more help on this subject, especially for single moms, Glenn recommends the
book “Making
a Modern Day Knight”.
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March 22, 2017
Title: Do you Choose Your Child’s Friends?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Erin Smalley
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
Before babies even learn to crawl, they often find themselves attending playdates and outings with other babies. Toddlers learn how to get along with others, parents get adult interaction, and everyone wins. But what happens when the playdate mindset continues well into the teenage years?
Erin Smalley is a mom of four and the author of “Grown-Up Girlfriends”. Today, Erin will explain why parents “friendgineer” and help moms and dads discern when to intervene in a child’s social circle and when to back off.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
What is a playdate? Are playdates for little ones okay?
Are teens mature enough to choose their own friends? Erin believes it depends on the teen. Listen as she and Terry discuss certain situations.
If parents are with their teens at gatherings, is that considered hovering?
Erin also discusses the importance of giving your teen an “out”…If they are at a party and don’t feel comfortable, do they trust you enough to not freak out?
When should parents stop organizing playdates for their kids?
Best advice: Pray, pray, pray for your kids – no matter how old they are.
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February 17, 2017
Title: Satan Clubs and Family Prayer Rallies
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by John Horvat
with Return to Order www.ReturnToOrder.org
John Horvat, author of Return to Order, will be discussing
several issues that are of utmost importance to parents and families.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Should public schools allow satanic clubs to hold meetings on school campuses?
How many students actually attend satanic club meetings regularly? Are adults
the real culprits?
What is the Tradition, Family, and Property
organization?
Are public prayer rallies in favor of traditional marriage having an impact
across America?
On Wednesday, April 5, 2017, John Horvat will be visiting Houston for a special
presentation. Check back for more details coming soon!
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January 18, 2017
Title: Chores Don’t Mean War!
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Daniel Huerta
with Focus on the Family www.Family.org
You are doing your best to raise a responsible adult. They want to play. You are tired, so you don’t want to fight. They have endless energy, especially to get their way. Do you do the chores yourself? Or do you dig in and fight the battle? Either way, it does not seem like a win-win scenario.
Danny Huerta, our go-to family expert, says that teaching kids responsibility
doesn’t have to feel like war. Click
here for the FREE guide from
Focus on the Family.
Questions/Issues Discussed:
Does it have to be WWIII when it comes to doing chores?
Some of you may have teenagers or college students living at home. Is it too late to start now?
Danny says to STOP saying one word to your kids when it’s time to do chores. Listen in to find out what he says to STOP doing!
Should parents pay their children for doing chores?
What is one tip that Danny recommends families implement immediately to keep the clutter at bay?
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December 29, 2016
Title: Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
Part 1 of 4
Parents have good intentions when they start a family, taking their kids to
church, participating in Bible clubs, sending them on mission trips and to
summer camp. So why do many young adults quit the church when they leave home?
Dr. Michelle Anthony says that being “in the world” is appealing to many teens
and college age students – it’s fun, it’s hip, it’s exciting. But, Jesus tells
us that we cannot pursue two worlds, and our children sometimes choose the wrong
one.
Michelle has graduate degrees in Christian Education, Bible, and Theology and
over 25 years of church ministry and leadership experience in children’s and
family ministries. She has a great new book, “Becoming a Spiritually Healthy
Family: Avoiding the Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles”, that she is discussing
today.
Michelle says that our focus, as parents, should represent who God is in our
homes. “Train up a child in the way he should, and when he is older he will not
depart from it.” We cannot change their spirituality; only the Holy Spirit can
do that. But we can lead them on the right path.
Listen in to this and the next three segments with Dr. Michelle Anthony as she
describes some of the mistakes she has seen parents make when raising children
and how to avoid them.
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Title: Part 2 of 4 - Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
Dr. Michelle Anthony says a
spiritually healthy family doesn’t over-think parenting or being part of a
family. So many people put too much emphasis on this activity or this church
event or this program they just have to attend. Slow down. Think about it. Pray
about it. And then act on it.
Michelle uses a great metaphor using a director’s chair to illustrate her point.
Who is sitting in the chair – you or God? “Spiritual health comes from God and
we must play our part as written,” Michelle says.
Listen in as Michelle explains
why it is so important to have God be your pilot, not your co-pilot.
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Title: Part 3 of 4 - Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
In this segment,
Michelle discusses five of the six dysfunctional parenting styles to avoid:
The “Double-Minded” parent wants a relationship with God, but they are also very
attracted to the World, as well. This is very confusing to kids and why so many
young adults quit going to church.
Then we have the “I Can’t Say No” parent who feels discipline is conflict, not
teaching. They want to be their kids’ best friend, which creates an entitlement
type of attitude in the child.
Another parenting style to avoid is the “Driver Parent”. The father who was cut
from the football team and therefore works his son to death so the same won’t
happen to him. The mom who wishes she never quit ballet classes as a kid so she
won’t allow her own daughter to pursue a different dream.
What about the “Micro-Managing Parent”? It’s different than the “Driver Parent”.
They don’t want their child to be physically or emotionally harmed, therefore
they shield them from everything and everyone that could possibly hurt them.
The “Criticizing” parent is never satisfied with their child’s achievements.
They get a B on a test; you scold them because you think they should have gotten
an A. They made second string in the orchestra, and you make them practice
longer hours to make first string. They believe they are doing a good thing by
pushing their child to work harder, but in reality they are causing harm that
can last long in to adult years.
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Title: Part 4 of 4 - Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
The final type of
dysfunctional parenting style to avoid is the “Absentee Parent”.
This does not just apply to parents who are divorced; this is the parent who
works too much, who doesn’t listen generously, who doesn’t love on their kids,
who is always on their smart phone or computer.
There has to be a balance. Yes, you have to work to provide food and shelter for
your family. But how often do you bring work home? Parents do need “down time”,
whether alone or as a couple, but do you do date night “too often”? Dads, when
is the last time you took your daughter on a date? Moms, how long has it been
since you shot some hoops with your son?
Slow down. Sit down. Listen to your kids. Put the phones down at the dinner
table. Play a game instead of watching some show on TV. Michelle says, “There is
no expiration date on grace.” If you feel you have wronged your child, tell them
and ask for forgiveness. Tomorrow may be too late.
Click [here] to order a copy
of her new book and to learn more about parenting God’s way.
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Title: Helping the Prodigal Child
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Pastor Phil Waldrep
with Pastor Phil Waldrep (www.philwaldrep.org)
Part 1 of 3
New guest,
Pastor Phil Waldrep, is an ordained Southern Baptist minister, speaker, and author who leads one of the largest religious conference ministries in the United States.
In 1980, he formed the Phil Waldrep Evangelistic Association to “share the gospel by all means, traditional and non-traditional.” In his new book,
“Reaching Your Prodigal: What Did I Do Wrong? What Do I Do Now?” Pastor Phil reveals his personal research findings of thirty “prodigals” and examination of the Scripture.
Why do good kids go bad? Pastor Phil Waldrep says parents often go all the way back to the day their child was born to examine what went wrong. However, he encourages parents to not look at the past, but to look toward the future.
Is it the parent’s fault? NO! It is not your fault! While there are some “bad parents” out there, Christian parents who have raised their children in the church and on the Word have done the best they can and sometimes kids just stray from the faith. Pastor Phil asks critics, “What did God do wrong with Adam and Eve?”
Is it the church’s fault? Again, NO! Sometimes kids just want to walk away from the truth. “Our hearts are bent toward sin to begin with,” Pastor Phil reminds us. “The real mystery is not ‘Why does a child become a prodigal?’ The real question is ‘Why do kids serve God?’.”
Pastor Phil Waldrep also discusses the most common issue parents of a prodigal child face. Listen in!
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Helping the Prodigal Child
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Pastor Phil Waldrep
with Pastor Phil Waldrep (www.philwaldrep.org)
How do you pray for a prodigal child? Pastor Phil
Waldrep believes that God often uses the influence of a friend, co-worker,
coach, or teacher to push the prodigal back to God. Parents want to be that
person, but it usually isn’t. Therefore, the parent must pray fervently for the
influencer, that God will use that person in a mighty way in their child’s life.
Listen in as Pastor Phil shares another secret prayer for parents to pray over
their prodigal child.
How do you love a prodigal child? Pastor Phil says we must love our prodigal
child with an unconditional love, which is not based on any type of performance.
This is the way God loves us, so why not offer the same to our children?
However, Phil says that unconditional love is sometimes misinterpreted, causing
more harm than good.
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Helping the Prodigal Child
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Pastor Phil Waldrep
with Pastor Phil Waldrep (www.philwaldrep.org)
Pastor Phil Waldrep has “Six Principles for Getting a Prodigal
Back to God”, which can be found in his new book, “Reaching
Your Prodigal: What Did I Do Wrong? What Do I Do Now?”
:
1. Getting over the guilt
2. Removing the barriers
3. Extending unconditional love
4. Allowing the pain of wrong decisions
5. Watching your words
6. Praying the hard prayers
Pastor Phil offers this hope to parents: “God is at work, even when we don’t
see it. In a matter of time, our prodigals will come home.”
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February 25, 2016
Title: Helping the Prodigal Child
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Pastor Phil Waldrep
with Pastor Phil Waldrep (www.philwaldrep.org)
Part 1 of 3
New guest,
Pastor Phil Waldrep, is an ordained Southern Baptist minister, speaker, and author who leads one of the largest religious conference ministries in the United States.
In 1980, he formed the Phil Waldrep Evangelistic Association to “share the gospel by all means, traditional and non-traditional.” In his new book,
“Reaching Your Prodigal: What Did I Do Wrong? What Do I Do Now?” Pastor Phil reveals his personal research findings of thirty “prodigals” and examination of the Scripture.
Why do good kids go bad? Pastor Phil Waldrep says parents often go all the way back to the day their child was born to examine what went wrong. However, he encourages parents to not look at the past, but to look toward the future.
Is it the parent’s fault? NO! It is not your fault! While there are some “bad parents” out there, Christian parents who have raised their children in the church and on the Word have done the best they can and sometimes kids just stray from the faith. Pastor Phil asks critics, “What did God do wrong with Adam and Eve?”
Is it the church’s fault? Again, NO! Sometimes kids just want to walk away from the truth. “Our hearts are bent toward sin to begin with,” Pastor Phil reminds us. “The real mystery is not ‘Why does a child become a prodigal?’ The real question is ‘Why do kids serve God?’.”
Pastor Phil Waldrep also discusses the most common issue parents of a prodigal child face. Listen in!
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Helping the Prodigal Child
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Pastor Phil Waldrep
with Pastor Phil Waldrep (www.philwaldrep.org)
How do you pray for a prodigal child? Pastor Phil
Waldrep believes that God often uses the influence of a friend, co-worker,
coach, or teacher to push the prodigal back to God. Parents want to be that
person, but it usually isn’t. Therefore, the parent must pray fervently for the
influencer, that God will use that person in a mighty way in their child’s life.
Listen in as Pastor Phil shares another secret prayer for parents to pray over
their prodigal child.
How do you love a prodigal child? Pastor Phil says we must love our prodigal
child with an unconditional love, which is not based on any type of performance.
This is the way God loves us, so why not offer the same to our children?
However, Phil says that unconditional love is sometimes misinterpreted, causing
more harm than good.
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Helping the Prodigal Child
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Pastor Phil Waldrep
with Pastor Phil Waldrep (www.philwaldrep.org)
Pastor Phil Waldrep has “Six Principles for Getting a Prodigal
Back to God”, which can be found in his new book, “Reaching
Your Prodigal: What Did I Do Wrong? What Do I Do Now?”
:
1. Getting over the guilt
2. Removing the barriers
3. Extending unconditional love
4. Allowing the pain of wrong decisions
5. Watching your words
6. Praying the hard prayers
Pastor Phil offers this hope to parents: “God is at work, even when we don’t
see it. In a matter of time, our prodigals will come home.”
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January 23, 2015
Title: Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
Part 1 of 4
Parents have good intentions when they start a family, taking their kids to
church, participating in Bible clubs, sending them on mission trips and to
summer camp. So why do many young adults quit the church when they leave home?
Dr. Michelle Anthony says that being “in the world” is appealing to many teens
and college age students – it’s fun, it’s hip, it’s exciting. But, Jesus tells
us that we cannot pursue two worlds, and our children sometimes choose the wrong
one.
Michelle has graduate degrees in Christian Education, Bible, and Theology and
over 25 years of church ministry and leadership experience in children’s and
family ministries. She has a great new book, “Becoming a Spiritually Healthy
Family: Avoiding the Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles”, that she is discussing
today.
Michelle says that our focus, as parents, should represent who God is in our
homes. “Train up a child in the way he should, and when he is older he will not
depart from it.” We cannot change their spirituality; only the Holy Spirit can
do that. But we can lead them on the right path.
Listen in to this and the next three segments with Dr. Michelle Anthony as she
describes some of the mistakes she has seen parents make when raising children
and how to avoid them.
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Title: Part 2 of 4 - Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
Dr. Michelle Anthony says a
spiritually healthy family doesn’t over-think parenting or being part of a
family. So many people put too much emphasis on this activity or this church
event or this program they just have to attend. Slow down. Think about it. Pray
about it. And then act on it.
Michelle uses a great metaphor using a director’s chair to illustrate her point.
Who is sitting in the chair – you or God? “Spiritual health comes from God and
we must play our part as written,” Michelle says.
Listen in as Michelle explains
why it is so important to have God be your pilot, not your co-pilot.
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Title: Part 3 of 4 - Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
In this segment,
Michelle discusses five of the six dysfunctional parenting styles to avoid:
The “Double-Minded” parent wants a relationship with God, but they are also very
attracted to the World, as well. This is very confusing to kids and why so many
young adults quit going to church.
Then we have the “I Can’t Say No” parent who feels discipline is conflict, not
teaching. They want to be their kids’ best friend, which creates an entitlement
type of attitude in the child.
Another parenting style to avoid is the “Driver Parent”. The father who was cut
from the football team and therefore works his son to death so the same won’t
happen to him. The mom who wishes she never quit ballet classes as a kid so she
won’t allow her own daughter to pursue a different dream.
What about the “Micro-Managing Parent”? It’s different than the “Driver Parent”.
They don’t want their child to be physically or emotionally harmed, therefore
they shield them from everything and everyone that could possibly hurt them.
The “Criticizing” parent is never satisfied with their child’s achievements.
They get a B on a test; you scold them because you think they should have gotten
an A. They made second string in the orchestra, and you make them practice
longer hours to make first string. They believe they are doing a good thing by
pushing their child to work harder, but in reality they are causing harm that
can last long in to adult years.
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Title: Part 4 of 4 - Avoid These Six Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Michelle Anthony
with Dr. Michelle Anthony (www.MichelleAnthony.org)
The final type of
dysfunctional parenting style to avoid is the “Absentee Parent”.
This does not just apply to parents who are divorced; this is the parent who
works too much, who doesn’t listen generously, who doesn’t love on their kids,
who is always on their smart phone or computer.
There has to be a balance. Yes, you have to work to provide food and shelter for
your family. But how often do you bring work home? Parents do need “down time”,
whether alone or as a couple, but do you do date night “too often”? Dads, when
is the last time you took your daughter on a date? Moms, how long has it been
since you shot some hoops with your son?
Slow down. Sit down. Listen to your kids. Put the phones down at the dinner
table. Play a game instead of watching some show on TV. Michelle says, “There is
no expiration date on grace.” If you feel you have wronged your child, tell them
and ask for forgiveness. Tomorrow may be too late.
Click [here] to order a copy
of her new book and to learn more about parenting God’s way.
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December 29, 2014
Title: The UN and The Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Wendy Wright
with Center for Family and Human Rights (www.C-Fam.org)
Part 1 of 2
Is the family defined as one natural man and one natural woman? Is this what the UN is now advocating? Wendy Wright says that finally the UN is extolling the family as essential to society. However, they are still a little confused in some other areas. Listen in as she explains how it’s not the US helping families, but rather eastern European and African countries – even some in Asia!
And what about Russia?
Wendy Wright is a veteran pro-life, pro-family advocate and was named one of the “Top 10 People in 2010” by the Vatican magazine. She is now the Vice President of Outreach and Communications for the Center for Family and Human Rights Institute (C-Fam) in New York.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - The UN and The Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Wendy Wright
with Center for Family and Human Rights (www.C-Fam.org)
The UN is at a crossroads:
Either destroy the foundations of the family for the sake of artificial social
constructs or defend the natural family as well as motherhood and fatherhood as
inalienable attributes of each person.
Wendy Wright says one problem with the UN is that various countries are
responsible for deciding what the top priorities are concerning Medicare and
Medicaid aid over the next 15 years. Whether the UN will be a strong advocate
for the traditional family or will bow to the LGBT activists will more than
likely be decided in 2015, according to Wendy.
Many believe that UN decisions won’t impact our daily lives, but that is simply
not true, even in the US. You can find more on pro-life, pro-family issues at
www.C-Fam.org.
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December 18, 2014
Title: The UN and The Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Wendy Wright
with Center for Family and Human Rights (www.C-Fam.org)
Part 1 of 2
Is the family defined as one natural man and one natural woman? Is this what the UN is now advocating? Wendy Wright says that finally the UN is extolling the family as essential to society. However, they are still a little confused in some other areas. Listen in as she explains how it’s not the US helping families, but rather eastern European and African countries – even some in Asia!
And what about Russia?
Wendy Wright is a veteran pro-life, pro-family advocate and was named one of the “Top 10 People in 2010” by the Vatican magazine. She is now the Vice President of Outreach and Communications for the Center for Family and Human Rights Institute (C-Fam) in New York.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - The UN and The Family
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Wendy Wright
with Center for Family and Human Rights (www.C-Fam.org)
The UN is at a crossroads:
Either destroy the foundations of the family for the sake of artificial social
constructs or defend the natural family as well as motherhood and fatherhood as
inalienable attributes of each person.
Wendy Wright says one problem with the UN is that various countries are
responsible for deciding what the top priorities are concerning Medicare and
Medicaid aid over the next 15 years. Whether the UN will be a strong advocate
for the traditional family or will bow to the LGBT activists will more than
likely be decided in 2015, according to Wendy.
Many believe that UN decisions won’t impact our daily lives, but that is simply
not true, even in the US. You can find more on pro-life, pro-family issues at
www.C-Fam.org.
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October 24, 2014
Title: Who Killed the American Family?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Phyllis Schlafly
with Eagle Forum (www.eagleforum.org)
Part 1 of 2
Is the American
family dead? Is it dying? Phyllis Schlafly has written a great new book, “Who
Killed the American Family”. Phyllis says that children have a legitimate
interest in their parent’s marital relationship.
More studies are proving that children do better in school, have better peer
relationships, and are less likely to be in poverty if they live with both their
mother and father. They are less likely to smoke, drink, and experiment drugs.
Kids from father-less households comprise the majority of suicides, runaways,
school dropouts, and teen pregnancies.
Not to say that kids with a mom and dad don’t have problems and issues; they
just have less.
Phyllis uses the term “The Nuclear Family” in her book “Who Killed the American
Family”. It is an economic unit. This is the type of family that founded
America. When “The Nuclear Family” began to split, more problems arose within
our country.
Listen in to the next segment with Phyllis Schlafly as discusses the
impacts that social media, TV and movies, and even school have on children and
teens.
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Title: Part 2 of 2 - Who Killed the American Family?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Phyllis Schlafly
with Eagle Forum (www.eagleforum.org)
Who is to blame for
the breakup of the American family? Government? The Gay Agenda? Judges?
Psychologists and “family experts”? Is it the church’s fault?
In her book, “Who Killed the American Family”, Phyllis identifies 6 types of
people who think they will benefit from the breakup of the American family. One
group is the feminists. They are constantly telling teen and college girls: “You
don’t need a husband. Have a baby now. You’re a strong independent woman. You
don’t need a man to help you. Take care of yourself.”
However, studies have shown that women want to get married. Women want a man who
makes more money than they do. They want the opportunity to take time off to
have children, care for their children, volunteer at school, and take them to
ballet and soccer. Most women still want a career, but want they want a family,
too. And they want a husband to help them.
Phyllis says that another new study shows that most men actually want children.
And men who have children often make more money than men who don’t have
children! Men need to have a mission in life as provider for their family.
Lastly, Phyllis discusses the single mom and single dad. The church is filled
with single parents (more moms than dads) who are hurting and just want some
help and support. Phyllis isn’t attacking single parents. She acknowledges that
they are not alone and oftentimes do a fantastic job raising their kids alone.
However, we must address the social and moral issues facing the American family
today. We must do something to reverse the downward spiral.
Log on to www.EagleForum.org to get a copy of Phyllis’s new book, “Who Killed
the American Family”.
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April 29, 2014
Title: Related by Chance. Family by Choice.
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Deb DeArmond
with Deb DeArmond (www.DebDeArmond.com)
Part 1 of 3
Are you willing to let God turn your heart to honor your woman-in-law on May
11th? How can you make this Mother's Day one to remember?
One of the great "happily-ever-after" stories in the Bible is found in the first
five chapters of Ruth. Initially, they are not alike in any way: different
culture, ethnicity, faith, customs, and traditions. But God brings them
together, creating a family – first changing Ruth's heart and then Naomi's.
Holiday’s with the in-laws are often a struggle. Mamas never want to let go of
their baby boy; daddies have a hard time seeing their princess with another man.
Even if you’ve been married for 10, 15, or 20 years, listen in as author and
speaker Deb DeArmond gives some relationship-saving advice.
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Title: Part 2 of 3 - Related by Chance. Family by Choice.
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Deb DeArmond
with Deb DeArmond (www.DebDeArmond.com)
There is no such thing as the
“perfect family” – no, not even your pastor’s family life is perfect. We're all
human. Even with the best intentions, we all fail each other at times. Be
realistic about your requirements for perfection. When expectations aren't met,
we may be tempted to be disappointed and hurt. Choose to let the little stuff
go.
Deb reminds men about the need to be flexible on special holidays such as
Mother’s Day. It's not about the date and location, it's about the time
together. Carefully schedule time to spend together with not only your mom, but
her mom as well.
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Title: Part 3 of 3 - Related by Chance. Family by Choice.
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Deb DeArmond
with Deb DeArmond (www.DebDeArmond.com)
This segment is for
all you Mother-In-Laws. Sharing the spotlight on Mother's Day
might be new to you. A new mom in the family means new babies – your
grandbabies!
If there has been tension between you and your daughter-in-law in the past, make
a decision to honor her - and God - by finding something you can appreciate
about her. Your daughter-in-law may not be a great cook by your standards, but
you can see what a great mom she is. Tell her.
Likewise, your mother-in-law might have the tendency to be nosy and overbearing,
but remember she did raise the man of your dreams. Mother's Day is a great time
to say "Thank you."
Log on to www.DebDeArmond.com to
order you copy of “Related by Chance. Family by Choice.”
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January 13, 2011
Title: Does America Need a Course Change?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Jane Orient
with Association of American Physicians and Surgeons (www.aapsonline.org)
Will Stricter Gun
Control Laws Be Enacted Now? Will The Government Limit Free
Speech? Dr. Jane Orient, the Executive Director of the Association of American
Physicians and Surgeons joins us again today to reflect on the happenings of
last Saturday and to look forward: “Does America need a Course Change”?
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January 12, 2011
Title: MARRI Report
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Patrick Fagan
with Marripedia www.marripedia.org
Segment 1 of 2
Fifty-five percent of American teenagers’ parents have rejected each other,
either through divorce, separation, or choosing not to marry. How does this
breakdown by ethnicity? What are we doing to our kids?
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Title: MARRI Report
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Patrick Fagan
with Marripedia www.marripedia.org
Segment 2 of 2
“The American society is
dysfunctional, characterized by a faulty understanding of the male-female
relationship. Our culture needs a ‘compass change’, a course change, but where
do we begin?” Dr. Patrick Fagan continues discussing the MARRI Report.
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Title: WHAT IS THE MOST DANGEROUS TYPE OF HOUSEHOLD FOR CHILDREN?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse
with The Ruth Institute (www.RuthInstitute.org)
What is the most dangerous type of household for children? Jennifer Roback Morse
is with the Ruth Institute. Log on to
www.RuthInstitute.org for more information on families and other issues.
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July 27, 2009
Title: WHAT IS THE MOST DANGEROUS TYPE OF HOUSEHOLD FOR CHILDREN?
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse
with The Ruth Institute (www.RuthInstitute.org)
What is the most dangerous type of household for children? Jennifer Roback Morse is with the Ruth Institute. Log on to www.RuthInstitute.org for more information on families and other issues.
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December 3, 2008
Title: MEMORIES AND REGRETS SEGMENT 1 OF 2
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Joey Watkins
with Family Dads (www.FamilyDads.com)
Do you work too much? Do you delegate too many chores to your older children so you can watch the game or read a book? Do you play with your kids enough? Guest Joey Watkins, founder of Family Dads, urges all dads – and moms – to spend more time with their kids every day. Log onto www.familydads.com to learn more.
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Title: MEMORIES AND REGRETS SEGMENT 2 OF 2
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Joey Watkins
with Family Dads (www.FamilyDads.com)
Do you work too much? Do you delegate too many chores to your older children so you can watch the game or read a book? Do you play with your kids enough? Guest Joey Watkins, founder of Family Dads, urges all dads – and moms – to spend more time with their kids every day. Log onto www.familydads.com to learn more.
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November 7, 2008
Title: HOW TO REALLY LOVE YOUR GRANDCHILD Part 1 of 3 A Best of Segment
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Ross Campbell
with Author
Dr. Ross Campbell, best selling author of How to Really Love Your Child, which sold over 1 million copies, joins us with tips on How to Really Love Your Grandchild.
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Title: HOW TO REALLY LOVE YOUR GRANDCHILD Part 2 of 3 A Best of Segment
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Ross Campbell
with Author
Dr. Ross Campbell discusses in this segment the roles of Grandparents. Whether you live close by, miles away, or even you are raising your grandchildren in your home, all grandparents can be encouraged.
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Title: HOW TO REALLY LOVE YOUR GRANDCHILD Part 3 of 3 A Best of Segment
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Dr. Ross Campbell
with Author
Dr. Ross Campbell, best selling author of How to Really Love Your Child, which sold over 1 million copies, joins us with tips on How to Really Love Your Grandchild. Designed for individual reading and study, this excellent ‘guide’ can be used by you with neighbors, at church in a small group, and/or for bloggers to help grandparents around the world.
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August 28, 2008
Title: Five Family Friendly Policies
Topic: Family Issues
Discussed by Terry Neese
with National Center for Policy Analysis
Terry Neese, with the National Center for Policy Analysis – www.ncpa.org discusses “Five Family Friendly Policies”. Log onto their website and search for Brief No. 620.
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