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January 18, 2018


Title: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Topic: Affair Proof Your Marriage
Discussed by Nancy Anderson
with Nancy C Anderson (www.NancyAnderson.com)


Part 1 of 3

We’ve all heard the saying, “The grass is greener on the other side”, but that isn’t always true, is it? This “rule” definitely doesn’t apply to marital affairs.

Nancy C. Anderson is the award-winning author of “Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome” and a contributing writer to thirty other books, including six “Chicken Soup for the Soul” titles. Nancy has been featured in national media such as The Huffington Post, The 700 Club, WORLD Magazine, Our Daily Bread, and FamilyLife Today.

Today, Nancy will be discussing her book, “Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome”, which is in its second edition.

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Is it human nature for most people to want something bigger, better, new, and different?

Who was the first person to have “greener grass syndrome”?

Do the media, internet, TV, movies, and even music drill into our minds that newer is better?

Is the grass really greener, or is it simply a mirage?

How do affairs affect children?

How do affairs resulting in divorce affect retirement funds, assets, and even community property?

Does someone usually end up paying alimony?



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Title: Part 2 of 3 - How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Topic: Affair Proof Your Marriage
Discussed by Nancy Anderson
with Nancy C Anderson (www.NancyAnderson.com)

Questions/Issues Discussed:

Nancy has a great acronym for couples to follow: HEDGES

Hearing: listening and speaking with patience and understanding
Encouraging: helping each other
Dating: keeping it fresh and fun
Guarding: agreeing on your boundaries and enforcing them
Educating: becoming an expert on your mate
Satisfying: meeting each other’s needs

Also, what is the “spoon rule”?




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Title: Part 3 of 3 - How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Topic: Affair Proof Your Marriage
Discussed by Nancy Anderson
with Nancy C Anderson (www.NancyAnderson.com)

Questions/Issues Discussed:

What has changed over the last fifteen or twenty years regarding affairs?

Is it “easier” to have an affair now?

What is the first step in avoiding the “Greener Grass Syndrome”?

Should men avoid working alone with a woman and vice versa?

What are the three “A’s”? Avoid. Alert. Always.

The second edition of Nancy’s book is designed to be a read and completed as a couple or even in a small group. Click here for your copy.



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February 28, 2007


Title: BOOK REVIEW: AVOIDING THE GREENER GRASS SYNDROME Segment 1 of 3
Topic: Book Review
Discussed by Nancy Anderson
with Nancy C Anderson (www.NancyAnderson.com)

Author Nancy Anderson knows first-hand what adultery does to a marriage because she cheated on her husband. In her book, "Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome", Nancy gives great insight on how to stay away from cheating on one's spouse.



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Title: BOOK REVIEW: AVOIDING THE GREENER GRASS SYNDROME Segment 2 of 3
Topic: Book Review
Discussed by Nancy Anderson
with Nancy C Anderson (www.NancyAnderson.com)

Author Nancy Anderson knows first-hand what adultery does to a marriage because she cheated on her husband. In her book, "Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome", Nancy gives great insight on how to stay away from cheating on one's spouse.



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Title: BOOK REVIEW: AVOIDING THE GREENER GRASS SYNDROME Segment 3 of 3
Topic: Book Review
Discussed by Nancy Anderson
with Nancy C Anderson (www.NancyAnderson.com)

Author Nancy Anderson knows first-hand what adultery does to a marriage because she cheated on her husband. In her book, "Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome", Nancy gives great insight on how to stay away from cheating on one's spouse.



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